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Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 7:37am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by rheether(f): 7:39am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Fvck him all the time. 513 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by iPrevail(m): 7:42am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Maybe it's time you hit the gym and lose some of that fat. Hey, I heard Slimtea works too. ![]() 90 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by thorpido(m): 7:45am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Only him can make the decision to break the addiction. He must be ready to delete porn from his phone and laptop.He should communicate his sexual needs with you and try to work together for a mutually beneficial satisfaction. 73 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Cutehector(m): 8:26am On Oct 24, 2016 |
You are the problem... 187 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 8:33am On Oct 24, 2016 |
They say what a man can do A woman can do it better ke ![]() ![]() ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 8:37am On Oct 24, 2016 |
It is always the woman that is the problem for her husband's misbehaviour. If it was the other way round, the woman will be tagged promiscuous or nymphomaniac. 125 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 8:40am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt:Thank you. |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 8:44am On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: I actually don't mean you should start doing it But he just has some fantasies to be fulfilled 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 8:45am On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2: Well that's where we find ourselves It's either you ignore or join him ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 8:51am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt:Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 8:54am On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:Now this is funny ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Na I don't think he would stop In fact he will enjoy you both watching and doing it together Hahahahaha That scene is gonna be one hell of a watch Dayummmm ![]() ![]() 55 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Bibors(m): 9:29am On Oct 24, 2016 |
You never needed help, you have always had the same fantasies and probably do the act though in secret. Now you have seen the advice that a woman can do better and you jump on it. There is always a monster/ demon created in you when you start doing wrong things deliberately. Your hubby may be fighting the demon and you who may not have it want to create the monster of what you called disgusting. Go ahead and enjoy the monster. My advice. Pray for him and talk respectfully to him about it while giving him quality sex that he will always long for. 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 10:11am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Bibors: SMH 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 10:27am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 10:30am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 10:31am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 10:36am On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt: Lol! |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 10:48am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Bibors: Ogade abeg shift go one side. The so called advice that 'a woman can do better' was only kidding. I don't need anyone to advice me to self service or not. What I need especially from guys that used to do such and have stopped is ideas to make him stop cos it irritates me. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Nobody: 10:57am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Try not to be around when he does it! Believe me it's hard to stop it! The only way to stop sef is if he finds something that is more addictive. Something that will release much more endorphins than gratifying selfsex. For me it's online money making and such. Others venture into doing drugs and stuff. Others explore other sexual tryouts like anal sex or fetishism. The addiction will linger till the end of ur husband kokosari2: 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ifyalways(f): 11:17am On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:How is that a problem for you? does it affect his performance with you? It's disgusting to you? Stop watching him. . . You can't force an adult to stop doing whatever he enjoys, he can only stop of his own freewill and time. You also don't have to join him, unless ofcourse you are a secret wannnker, in which case its hypocrital of you to judge him. ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Fkforyou(m): 11:27am On Oct 24, 2016 |
Like seriously I see no reason to self-service when I have a wife that would satisfy me. But it seems your husband's own is compulsive in nature. If you intend to help, just keep a close watch on him, anytime he is showing signs of wanting to do it, kindly take the stimulant( laptop, porn photos e.t.c) away from him and engage him in a conversation or if possible have sex with him. You can also encourage him to go out more, encourage him to engage in activities that would take his mind off wanking. 23 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 12:24pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
ifyalways: Where's my $50 share? |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ifyalways(f): 12:26pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 12:27pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 12:51pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
ifyalways:No one is forcing anything. It's clear you don't have the ideas I requested so why comment? I should stop watching when I wake up on him doing it or I walk in on him while in the act. Mtchew 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by ifyalways(f): 1:03pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
kokosari2:No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self. Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. ![]() ![]() Shioor. ![]() 69 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by kokosari2: 1:17pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
ifyalways: You don't need to be pained. Next time learn not to comment if you don't have reasonable contribution 21 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by Dyt(f): 1:53pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
ifyalways: kokosari2: Una two sabi unaself before? Talk of an old wine in a new bottle Phew 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by napa: 2:24pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
@ op, most guys and even some women do this and as such won't see it as a big deal. Talk calmly to your husband about it to know if there's anything you can do to help, probably increase your intimacy with h but if your sexual intimacy with him is on the high side and he still self services then he is addicted to sex and there's really nothing you can do. Just plead with him not to do it while you are around or beside him. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Is Addicted To Pornography And Masturbation by PierreSizzl(m): 4:17pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
Dyt: Like real SMH 1 Like |
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