Let me ask you, are u gud in bed?

U nid to sexual lunch satisfied him

iPrevail:
Maybe it's time you hit the gym and lose some of that fat. Hey, I heard Slimtea works too.

We don't know if the OP needs to lose weight or not. But her husband's addiction to porn may not be due to her weight.
After all, guys whose girlfriends are figure 8s, still watch porn

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

I'm sorry to say this but if your hubby is addicted to pofn and self service then 3 things must be involved.

1.You are either sexually timid or boring.

2.He has crazy libido

3.He needs help cos addiction of any type can be damaging to one's life.

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

lol.babe so point

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

there is a site on google that helps with men addicted to porn and masturbation, "google porn related erectile dysfunction .... It has all the material needed to reset your husband's brain.... The major symptoms are
Weak joystick
Inability to feel pleasure from vaginal friction
No interest in real women
Depression
Cant ejaculate unless there is rough external help
Creepy anxiety and fear of intercourse....
Since your husband has refused to change, you need to step up, do research on the effects of low penis sensitivity porn and masturbation...... If this doesn't scare him, only God can help you.

Cutehector:
You are the problem...

you have said my mind

Did you just get to know! madam. well it is your cross. remember for better for worst!!!! or you divorce him.
also learn to watch the porn together and manstrubate together. or you run away.
that is y u need to know your man/woman before walking the aile.

enjoy!!!!

at 39 i do it wn wify is tired and she assist to hit the mark. by the way i will sleep like a baby.

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

No! No!! No!!! My dear friend, you don't want to start what you'll find very difficult to end. Masturbation is sequel to spiritual imprisonment.


Trust me, your husband, deep down doesn't want to continue in it but the seducing spirit always get the better of him hence he doesn't even know why he does it.



How frequent he does it tells of the level of addiction he has achieved in the act and how much he secretly longs to stop it.


It is neither your fault nor his. It is a spiritual warfare and it sure has to be fought spiritually. Masturbation is one very powerful act the devil uses to withhold the blessing of God's Children from them.

Once given a chance, it can really do a lot of damages to one's life and destiny.


Pls don't insult or abuse him about it as the devil can really creep into ur marriage through that singular act and you know what the devil comes for, right? "To still, to kill, and to destroy." I pray he fails in his assignment against your marriage.


Now my advice to him through you; u both must take your time to pray and fast against that spirit. Encourage him to get himself engaged in God's word by studying it whenever he has that urge hovering over his head like a cloud of rain.


He should always get himself occupied with strictly gospel music, abstain from worldly/circular music with weird or sensual lyrics, never watch any X-rated movie and above all, always try to submit yourself to him whenever he needs it.


Pls don't hesitate to contact me if you have any question or you're confused about any appropriate step to take per time. Cheers!


To the success of your marriage, am your brother and a fellow nairalander.

Meanwhile some men (like me) enjoy watching my partner self-service... sh*t is sexy

Some men also self-service when their partners ain't giving them what they want so when they are lost in that fantasy, they dream on and self-service off with the feeling or fantasy.

So when he does it, ask him what he thinks about when he's doing it. Maybe he's a 3sum lover or fetish kinda guy

Anything it is, let him put voice to it and if it's something you can do! Get down and do it, he's your husband and not boyfriend!!!!

My 0 cent

Cutehector:
You are the problem...

Why do you like saying stupid things on the internet. How is she the problem?

I hate to comment on the issue like this. Hmmmm! I can't keep quiet any longer.

I'm not supporting the man, after all, who needs to be told that the act is ugly but, WOMAN! Are you sure that you are not as guilty as your husband? Are you sure that you're not in the league of those women who sexually starve their husband to senseless behavior? No man would want to masturbate when his wife could render a better service.

I don't know if I've wronged you. I was only making a common sense...

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

He used to do it in your presence??

U r the cause
Maybe u dont help him achieve his sexual fantasies
Masturbating and imagining or watching these fantasies helps him

U must be ready to talk to him and make him open up on ehat he wants in bed and u must be ready to let him csrry out those fantasies on you

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Double tragedy........ Does he have time to sex you?

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kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Do the needful and bang him every time he is about to watch porn. Talk about your lost of interest in him and your marriage instead.

Women, blaming men since Imo River

Irishrena1:
OP if he's addicted to the videos, just remain contented with the fact that its a nonhuman he's releasing on. Believe me i met someone that said he's addicted to watching pornography and it doesn't matter how much sex he gets in a day, if he hasn't masturbated he still will be missing something. And his way of masturbating too was odd. He never uses his hand to stroke, he can be in public, lie face down on the floor like he's resting but unknown to others, he's masturbating. In that kind of case, there's no amount of lovemaking you give him that will cure him.

jeez in public omo that one na highest o

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

he should go for deliverance and he will be set free
your husband is battling with forces beyond his control
he cannot deliver himself, I've been there before, only by the power of Jesus the chain can be broken

Chairman why na!!!!

Dyt:
They say what a man can do
A woman can do it better ke

If it's not spiritual or a sickness then this are the options:

1. He doesn't find you attractive
2. He has a higher libido which you cant handle or he just doesn't want to always disturb you.

Button line, if your hubby is getting enough from you, he will never have the time to self-service, if he gets honny then he Should looking for you.

ifyalways:

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

What's your problem?

sorry dear......do fvvk him real hard

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

hmm u too fine for this kin comment o

evy1:
jeez in public omo that one na highest o

I'm telling you. Till date I'm the only one that knows his pattern and can spot the difference between his just lying there and when he's at it. I see it in the twitching of his toes. But others don't understand. He needs a hard surface to lye on to do it

mastubation is healthy for ones health

ifyalways:

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

....
So una believe her before?
If truly its a she sef..

So married men do this shit too..

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

Gbam!!!

He is under an influence. Rom. 7:20. Pray for him against spiritual wife and spirit of lust

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

thorpido:
Only him can make the decision to break the addiction.
He must be ready to delete porn from his phone and laptop.He should communicate his sexual needs with you and try to work together for a mutually beneficial satisfaction.

yes inagree with communicate with him and find best wayz you pleas him, style etc and dont forget to always fuk him wenever he ask

ifyalways:

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

This comment is hilarious, a scenario just came to my head *the hubby trying to initiate sex with her, she begins her nagging, he then turns to his laptop flips it open and begins to self-service with so much glee staring at the laptop, completely forgetting his wife beside him*