SnowJay92:


Lol, you must be joking, start your own ke, that means you've been into the act before now.

The big question is how well do you perform your intimate obligation to him? How well do you do it? Don't tell me he goes to self-service right after you give him a mind blowing cowgirl ride

How about you get him to communicate, discuss his sexual fantasies and find a way to match it with yours, up your game in the other room.

If you handle him thoroughly where him go see strength take masturbate?

Not every man is good at "talking" about these things...especially if he views his wife a type of way... His ego too.might not let him open up...but she sha has to try..

Aunty, download plenty porn on your phone when he starts his usual action, you too begin your own and see what happens. Maybe seeing you join his league will make him change and lastly are you a virgin? if your not then spoil him with sex, different styles, why you de fall your hand na, seduce am in a sexy way, give him mouth gigs and many more. Read books and develop in the areas your lacking.

abeg contact me with your husband jare make he send me new porns ..this one wey I dey watch no dey raise up my mighty rod

Zedoo:


Not every man is good at "talking" about these things...especially if he views his wife a type of way... His ego too.might not let him open up...but she sha has to try..

She no even need long story, a well toned figure and a tight exhaustive pussy would do the magic, and get him talking in no time. Unless his problem is more psychological than sexual.

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

it's spiritual. You don't need to start yours. You both need to see your pastor

Friedthunder:
abeg contact me with your husband jare make he send me new porns ..this one wey I dey watch no dey raise up my mighty rod

hehe your own don finish

Friedthunder:
abeg contact me with your husband jare make he send me new porns ..this one wey I dey watch no dey raise up my mighty rod

Chai....you wan turn the man to your vendor? Na WA o

You guys need to sit down and talk about how you want your sex life to go.

Porn can enhance a relationship but it can also ruin it. It all depends on how you manage it. It is possible that your husband has come up with ideas or fantasies of what he wants you as a couple to add to your sexual menu and you have shut him down. This could drive him to turn to porn (less risky, no STDs, no kids, no cheating allegation or fear of getting caught) or go 'outside' (which is more risky)

If you are open-minded, you do not necessary have to have intercourse to please each other. Spice it up. There is mutual masturbation, sensual massage, sexting (not necessarily with pictures); research them. These are things that can make him look forward to having an intimate time with you.

However, if this has become something he cannot even control and is affecting his ability to perform regular duties at home or at work, then you may need to seek help from a specialist.

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

Hahah madam pay ashawo ladies your 2years salary make them Bleep demon commot from his head

Ezarazo:
it's spiritual. You don't need to start yours. You both need to see your pastor

Slavery...
From there pastor go begin offer im own cucumber....telling the woman to come for"special" delivery...
Oga there is nothing like pastor when God is there...this is damn bedroom matter!

Gad! Why pastors no go dey do all and everything....they are damn humans...there NO REASON TO TELL A MAN OF GOD ABOUT YOUR BEDROOM ISSUES Z!!!

DAMN

Ezarazo:
it's spiritual. You don't need to start yours. You both need to see your pastor

This is uncalled for and slavish. A pastor is a fellow human being with a calling, he is not your love doctor, neither do you need to discuss and paint your private affairs to any "pastor"..... No wonders "pastors" are now performing "special" miracles on people's wives and children...open ur eye mr man.

ifyalways:

How is that a problem for you? does it affect his performance with you?

It's disgusting to you? Stop watching him. . .

You can't force an adult to stop doing whatever he enjoys, he can only stop of his own freewill and time. You also don't have to join him, unless ofcourse you are a secret wannnker, in which case its hypocrital of you to judge him.

yes oo, wanking can reduce a guy's performance. it causes limp dick, as the so much stroking with the hand reduces the sensitivity of the nerves. so he could actually be with a nakid babe, and still find it difficult to get jnr erect even with mouth gig sef.

Pornography is an addiction. Your husband self-services not because you are not fucking him well or you are not sexually attractive. He has a psychological problem that needs serious attention. NL cannot help you on matters like this. The first step is for him to recognize he has a problem. As long as he believes he is Ok psychologically there is no advice on here that will help.

Na wa ooo, this one is serious ,a serious one

Irishrena1:

I'm telling you. Till date I'm the only one that knows his pattern and can spot the difference between his just lying there and when he's at it. I see it in the twitching of his toes. But others don't understand. He needs a hard surface to lye on to do it

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

I am not married tho but as I'll advice you as a medical student. If you are the one refusing his secular needs you have to start accepting them and if you are accepting his sexual needs but he is demanding for it daily. I think it's time you delete everything pornographic and tempting from his phone and laptop or anywhere he gets it from then keep him busy especially making him leave the house with you at everytime you feel he might be tempted. This is a psychological problem and his presence in a crowded place will not give him the space for it.Blessograo:
And better still, explore other options when it comes to sex with him, like changing your looks I mean hairstyles, dresses and lingerie or change environment, like an hotel or something just to make it work.

gradeA:



yes oo, wanking can reduce a guy's performance. it causes limp dick, as the so much stroking with the hand reduces the sensitivity of the nerves. so he could actually be with a naked babe, and still find it difficult to get jnr erect even with mouth gig sef.

Story...na iron hand in get? I'm not for mastur..... But sometimes these Una theories dey funny me....so if e dey use lube with hand, e go still "kill" the sensitivity of nerves?

There are so many factors that lead to erectile dysfunction.....so many we can't begin naming them....

Even those who claim mastur.....causes low sperm count, BUT people who lash everyday dont operate the same risk, because na "pvcci" abi....

Mehn....our bodies are different, and its difficult, even gynecologists will tell you, to pin point the cause of erection ish....

Food plays a whole big part, exercise etc...

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

ur not servicing him well, oya do ur job if not,those prostitutes and small small girls will help u take over

And better still, explore other options when it comes to sex with him, like changing your looks I mean hairstyles, dresses and lingerie or change environment, like an hotel or something just to make it work.

This food is well done and served for romancelanders....
Kudos to the op.
Whether this is true or false....

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

Nne come let me pay your bride price to an offshore account

Blessograo:
And better still, explore other options when it comes to sex with him, like changing your looks I mean hairstyles, dresses and lingerie or change environment, like an hotel or something just to make it work.

Exactly

Dyt:


In fact he will enjoy you both watching and doing it together

Zedoo:


Story...na iron hand in get? I'm not for mastur..... But sometimes these Una theories dey funny me....so if e dey use lube with hand, e go still "kill" the sensitivity of nerves?

There are so many factors that lead to erectile dysfunction.....so many we can't begin naming them....

Even those who claim mastur.....causes low sperm count, BUT people who lash everyday dont operate the same risk, because na "pvcci" abi....

Mehn....our bodies are different, and its difficult, even gynecologists will tell you, to pin point the cause of erection ish....

Food plays a whole big part, exercise etc...

ofcourse your diet and exercise are equally factors. I never said mastur.... is the ONLY factor, but believe me it contributes to ED. Aside the physical effect, wanking also fvcks up your mind as it kills the thrill of sex. sex becomes regular, and trust me your mind plays a big part in your performance.

papadee93:

Nne come let me pay your bride price to an offshore account

You know say money no be problem.

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

Q
Madame...sincerely... The truth is that he is demonized...I know it sounds weird but its true and very common...pm me I could help!

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

sorry, but i don't agree with u getting in the same act with him cos two wrongs still don't make it right. communication is still a vital key in relationships.
rather, u should explore other options

rheether:


You know say money no be problem.

The problem is how to spend it.... Let me buy u a small country for your next birthday

rheether:
Fvck him all the time.

from now on you're are my friend

When is watching pornograhic films and masturbating, do it with him and u will see his reaction. Maybe u are not fucking him enough. Since he like porns and masturbates, when he is watching, join him and help him out and u too will enjoy.pls stop complaining and wolves this problem fast before he start carrying other women.

when next you see him masturbating, go to him, gently collect the d**k from him and self-service it for him, put it in your mouth and suck it and later stick it in your p***y and f**k the s**t out of him. do that everytime you see him wanking.
if you really cant do that, then soon enough someone else would help you out.
Or maybe the problem is that you're not sexually appealing to him anymore, in that case you need to work on yourself.

Jesus can save him.
Prayers can help him.

ifyalways:

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

No wonder you irritate your man so much that he resulted into masturbation. If you can be so rude to someone who took out time to give an opinion they thought could be of help then I can only imagine what you are like at home. The only help u need is from your mum, go back home and beg her to give u the training she refused to give you while you were growing up. Learn some manners, learn how to pray and obviously ur fuckery game is terrible, work on it as well and uwl be just fine. Bless.