OP you will never be as hot as the female punstars neither can you fork like them (you can check out the female punstar called beauty dior from my pundays)
Your husband is in for a ride
That combination is a killer
Its like gun and bullet
Just be shooting
He started it, he can put an end to it
... freedom is not free, he has to fight for it
Else it will ruin him

Please talk to your husband to God's help, no doctor can help him except God, tell him to come and worship at OPM ( Omega Power Ministry), the man of God will pray for him and give him a prayer assignment, you don't pay money, its free.

This the G P's mobile number (08033385271) call and he now.

My mail address maxwelldiri6060@gmail.com

Please talk to your husband to get God's help, no doctor can help him except God, tell him to come and worship at OPM ( Omega Power Ministry) Port Harcourt, the man of God will pray for him and give him a prayer assignment, you don't pay money, its free.

This the G O's mobile number (08033385271) call him now.

My mail address maxwelldiri6060@gmail.com

kokosari2:


Ogade abeg shift go one side. The so called advice that 'a woman can do better' was only kidding. I don't need anyone to advice me to self service or not. What I need especially from guys that used to do such and have stopped is ideas to make him stop cos it irritates me.

the only way to stop his masturbation is by disturbing his life with mind blowing sex anytime he is available. Give him blow jobs, handjobs, boobs job, suckk his life, fuück his brains out. I bet you he will never think of masturbation. The obvious reasons he is masturbating is cos may be you are boring in bed. Watch porn with him and practice the new sex styles.

Buy nonstop porn cd for him na

He is possessed with marine spirit.....prayers and deliverance will do.

Collect his phone and hide it keep Ur t.v,dvd all electronic device inside the house
Nd do nt nt keep orange at home too
It can be dreal nd use too......
Lol..

PierreSizzl:


Like real SMH

. WELL FOR ME YOUR HUSBAND NEED QUALITY DELIVERANCE GO TAKE AM TO A REAL MAN OF GOD OR WATCH EMMANUEL TV AND PRAY ALOND WITH PROPHET TB JOSHUA........DIS WILL HELP TRUST ME AND Do AS I AV TOLD.......GOD BLESS YOU

ifyalways:

No wonder the poor man prefers mastuurbation as opposed to dealing with your contentious self.

Abeg carry your seexual frustrations commot for my front. I no send you o.

Shioor.

If na me, Masturbation better pass this irritating lady...From all her response, you will see she is the problem.

Take heart Husband understand the frustration of a proud and naggy woman in a home

Dyt:


I actually don't mean you should start doing it

But he just has some fantasies to be fulfilled

No, not necessarily. Men fantaisize about big butts and big breasts, not big hands. You people don't get it at all. In fact, there is a lot of ignorance in this thread.

Cutehector:
You are the problem...

She's not.

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

There's a 90% chance he was lonely in his teens or even twenties and he got ADDICTED to masturbation. His problem is switching from getting satisfaction from his hands to getting it from a woman. What to do.

1. Let him know in clear terms you don't like it.
2. You may have to consider professional help. Convincing him he has a PROBLEM that needs to be fixed might be your greatest challenge.

JuanDeDios:

No, not necessarily. You people don't get it at all. In fact, there is a lot of ignorance in this thread.


.

Good to know we have people like her husband here

So how did you stop aside you knowing you the problem?

Dyt:


Good to know we have people like her husband here

So how did you stop aside you knowing you the problem?

These things are out in the open for those who care to READ. Your insult only reflects YOU.

moneyMouthed:




No! No!! No!!! My dear friend, you don't want to start what you'll find very difficult to end. Masturbation is sequel to spiritual imprisonment.


Trust me, your husband, deep down doesn't want to continue in it but the seducing spirit always get the better of him hence he doesn't even know why he does it.



How frequent he does it tells of the level of addiction he has achieved in the act and how much he secretly longs to stole it.


It is neither your fault nor his. It is a spiritual warfare and it sure has to be fought spiritually. Masturbation is one very powerful act the devil uses to withhold the blessing of God's Children from.

Once given a chance, it can really do a lot of damages to one's life and destiny.


Pls don't insult or abuse him about it as the devil can really creep into ur marriage through that singular act and you know what the devil comes for, right? "To still, to kill, and to destroy." I pray he fails in his assignment against marriage.


Now my advice to him through you; u both must take your time to pray and fast against that spirit. Encourage him to get himself engaged in God's word by studying it whenever he has that urge hovering over his head like a cloud of rain.


He should always get himself occupied with strictly gospel music, abstain from worldly/circular music with weird or sensual lyrics, never watch any X-rated movie and above all, always try to submit yourself to him whenever he needs it.


Pls don't hesitate to contact me if you have any question or you're confused about any appropriate step to take per time. Cheers!


To the success of your marriage, am your brother and a fellow nairalander.

Rubbish !!

Swaggkentro1:
These are one of the steps to follow 1. talk with him and let him see every reason to stop it cos he is an adult so you can't force him to stop, only him can make such decision by himself. 2. Tell him to make a decision that will be like an oath, is either through Bible, tell him to take his Bible and make the decision that the power from above that was with the Holy Bible should judge him if he continues in such act again and I know once he made this decision from the first day he will think twice cos anytime he will have the feeling again, he will immediately remember the oath he took sometimes back. this will always help and tell him that if he will make the decision it should be something big and huge, something like if he indulge in such act again, let him die or let God strick him with madness and he will lick the Bible. FINAL

Applause for you.
If I hear say the man go gree this kind commitment/swear on himself. Except she jazz him
Mtchew
You too want to advice........shior

Ranchhoddas:
Why do you like saying stupid things on the internet. How is she the problem?

she is the problem and she knew it

kokosari2:
Please what can I do, my husband seems to be addicted to porn and masturbation. He does it at every opportunity he has, even on our matrimonial bed and it's quite disgusting.

A man addicted to porn can't be useful to himself or his family. When you climax watching another woman... It's adultery. Maybe he's yet to understand that this dirty act of his is not only selfish but it's a sin and will definitely destroy him and his family.

On your own part, try not to leave him alone. Ascertain the times he's prone to indulge in this dirty act. If you're not there at the time, call him on the phone. Most importantly Pray and make sure you play your role in the kitchen and most especially in the #OtherRoom.

I don talk finish.

JuanDeDios:

These things are out in the open for those who care to READ. Your insult only reflects YOU.

Haba
Where did I insult you now ehn

Irishrena1:
OP if he's addicted to the videos, just remain contented with the fact that its a nonhuman he's releasing on. Believe me i met someone that said he's addicted to watching pornography and it doesn't matter how much sex he gets in a day, if he hasn't masturbated he still will be missing something. And his way of masturbating too was odd. He never uses his hand to stroke, he can be in public, lie face down on the floor like he's resting but unknown to others, he's masturbating. In that kind of case, there's no amount of lovemaking you give him that will cure him.

When next you meet him doing it, don't frown, just let him. When he's gotten a perfect h**don, open for him while the porn is still on. Try it and see how much he'll open up to you from thenceforth about why he's addicted to the videos. You might just need to be watching those porn with him when he feels like it and let him not use his hand, let him into you. Then gradually withdraw the videos from your lovemaking sessions. Remember its gradually

N O N S E N S E

iphanyiuma:
Collect his phone and hide it keep Ur t.v,dvd all electronic device inside the house
Nd do nt nt keep orange at home too
It can be dreal nd use too......
Lol..

Read very well
She said her husbandi not her adolescent son.
So she should just seize his phone and hide all electronics?
You would have said She should just kunk his head and ground him from parlour till he stops
Advicer no 1

Mtchew
Lubbish

carmag:


she is the problem and she knew it

Don't just make assertions. Explain how she is the problem

kokosari2:

No one is forcing anything. It's clear you don't have the ideas I requested so why comment? I should stop watching when I wake up on him doing it or I walk in on him while in the act. Mtchew

young lady why did you create this thread if you are not going to listen to people's advice...with this kind of attitude I doubt you are going to see your husband change for a very long time....your attitude is the reason why your husband is in this mess. So it's up to you to fix it by changing yourself, learn to listen and observe more than talking

kokosari2:


You don't need to be pained. Next time learn not to comment if you don't have reasonable contribution

Idioot shut up and get off here. Stop ur lesbian acts with ur girlfriends and he will stop wanking. U are too full of itself, u don't respect ur husband. U HV killed whatever softspot he has for u. why won't he toe the alternative

kokosari2:

Lol, but we all have some crazy fantasies at one time or the other. Self control and discipline is the key thing. I've discussed it with him on several occasion and he doesn't have any cogent reason for going into the act, probably when I start mine, he will see how disgusting it looks and this will make him stop.

You are part of the problem. You have been denying him his due. The man decided not to cheat on you.If you think well you will understand me. sex-starved men do that to relax.

Ranchhoddas:
Don't just make assertions. Explain how she is the problem

see kwesion !!

the topic should have been...How do I satisfy my husband because I feel bad seeing him masturbate

Na over feeding they worry your husband,...

I remember when we small, if any kids that suck hand, dem go cut his hand. rod am with bitter leave,.. so I think you need to cut your husband dick. rod am with salt and pepper

You have not told us how often you do it. You have not told us either if the only style you know is the conventional way of making love ( Man on top when you are under) You have not told us if you yourself enjoy sex or not, if you are always eager to have sex with him.
See a lot of factors force a married man into such act.
It may sound judgemental but you are the reason he has not stopped or may be the reason he started it in the first place.
Check yourself and try and figure out what you do that don't make him enjoy having sex with you because if he does enjoy having sex with you no Devil can entice him with masturbating especially when you are even on bed with him, he would rather almost kill you with request for sex.

1. Is it only climb on me method you know? the way our fore father's have been doing it since the time of Adam and Eve. Pls change your style look for other methods. Go on the internet to do research.

2. Do you look appealing to bed, like a good shower, putting perf on smelling nice and wearing see through that would reveal all he would have be visualising in masturbating. I tell you even if he had the urge for it the moment he sees you in such a mood he would forget it an do it with you. There by gradually getting used to do it with you and masturbating will start looking less appealing.


3.How often do you have sex? Are you one of those " Look I'm tired " kind of women. Having sex with your husband 4 or 2 times a month. And Sex has become one of the items on roster.

If he needs it everyday give it to him everyday, sacrifice for him if you love him. If he wants it early in the morning before going to work and late at night going to sleep, sacrifice to satisfy him.

I TELL U YOU ARE LUCKY HE STILL MASTURBATE IN YOUR PRESENCE, IT MIGHT EVEN BE HE IS USING THAT TO PASS A MESSAGE ACROSS TO YOU INTENTIONALLY AND U ARENT GETTING IT.

BY THE TIME HE GOES ALL OUT TO HAVE REAL SEX WITH WOMEN THAT ARE GOOD IN BED. IT WONT BE FUNNY.

YOU WILL JUST DISCORVER THAT MASTURBATING AND PORN ARE CURED WITHOUT HIM DEMANDING SEX FROM YOU EITHER.

SHALOM

carmag:


see kwesion !!

the topic should have been...How do I satisfy my husband because I feel bad seeing him masturbate

You haven't answered the question. How is she the problem?

Ranchhoddas:
You haven't answered the question. How is she the problem?

with that topic your question have been answered

carmag:


with that topic your question have been answered

Oga, e be like say you no get anything to talk.

Ranchhoddas:
Hahaha. Lets's hear your testimony.

Let me save it bro

Dyt:


Haba
Where did I insult you now ehn

*just saw ur post in my followings, and I thought I would blow a few kisses before going to the next thread*

How body? Hope it still dey inside cloth?
Or lying bare under d bed covers, about to be warmed up.

Bushdiri:
Please talk to your husband to get God's help, no doctor can help him except God, tell him to come and worship at OPM ( Omega Power Ministry) Port Harcourt, the man of God will pray for him and give him a prayer assignment, you don't pay money, its free.

This the G O's mobile number (08033385271) call him now.

My mail address maxwelldiri6060@gmail.com

I am a believer and I believe in the sure efficacy of Gods power. Faith without work is dead. The woman too has to do something. She should make sure she demand for sex often and make sure the guy enjoys it. Habit are not dropped in a day. gradually the man will stop bot porn and masturbating.

Many men were into one or the two habits at a point in their lives but with Prayer and the help of a loving caring wife many that I know left such habits, including myself.

Having a peaceful home depends on the woman,
And having a trouble home depends on her too.
God has given the woman power to make and unmake her home.

That's why the Bible says " A wise woman builds her home and the foolish one pulls it down with her own hands"