The man shared his story showing just how he has been caught between the devil and the deep blue sea.

Below is what he wrote:

I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old.
We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house.

Sometime ago, I had serious medical problems and she gave me one of her kidneys to save my life.

However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now
I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever.

But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways.
I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore.

I’ll never be able to pay her back.
I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice.

If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me.


Guys, Urgent advice needed!!
If it were you, what would you do??

I'll do nothing, cus I can't be such an ingrate.

Whoever wrote this should go on and marry her, then leave the matter in God's hands for the grace to overcome every challenges that comes along the journey of a married life. Marriage is not all rosey to begin with. if she stood by you then, she'll definitely do it again tomorrow. #my 2¢.

If I were the girl, I'll cuddle him, speak some sweet nonsense into his ears, make his favourite meal and watch him purge out the kidney with such a lovely smile on my face.
So romantic...

Will you go and maintain your status quo in that marriage! If you no gree,oya give her back her kidney now now now!

O boy, what you're feeling is natural to all men. Once in awhile we've this feeling that we're making the wrong choice and tactically withdraw ourselves from committed relationships.

So my advice to you is simple; get the ALL SPARK! tell her to win you over again that you're feeling lost. That's just it. You don't hate her and from your post she's got no issues. It's all in your head and it's thriving on the fact that you guys have been living a ROUTINE.

All the best.

Men!

Usjimy:
If I were the girl, I'll cuddle him, speak some sweet nonsense into his ears, make his favourite meal and watch him purge out the kidney.
So romantic...

Hahahaha....this guy tho

Endure...

nicerichard05:
Meanwhile Wherever 2 or 3 girls are gathered there is CUCUMBER in their midst

evidently yeah

No big deal. Women leave men, who have made major sacrifices for them, everyday. But, he should return her kidney if she'll accept it.

SerRento:
No big deal. Women leave men, who have made major sacrifices for them, everyday. But, he should return her kidney if she'll accept it.

How will he return her kidney without dying?

Pls return her kidney. Show her that you can live without her. You don't want to feel trapped in the marriage. I guess it's okay for you to feel trapped in the coffin. I'm sure if she was the one with health issues you will never donate your kidney for the transplant. The Devil sef they fear you

Kweenesther:



How will he return her kidney without dying?

That's his problem.

this is the right reason why people kill people

Kweenesther:




Hahahaha....this guy tho

Seriously the act of that guy isn't tenable in any honest setting. That's why I render any form of assistance I can without looking forward to any payback. It makes it easier to move on in cases like this.

You owe her honesty, that will be your biggest gift to her. There is nothing that is as horrible as being stuck in a relationship with someone you do not love. You owe your improved life to her but that does not mean you have to be held ransom by that act alone. A loveless marriage with children is not a healthy environment. I am sure you will get a lot of stress from family and friends as is evident by some of the comments here but you deserve to be happy and so does your girlfriend.

Kweenesther:

However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now

U just have a feeling that y'all don't belong together

Which feeling biko,
That's not a solid reason joor

If someone can give a part of themself for u to live, then that person can totally reason with u to boost the relationship.

U look for love, u get it in abundance, n after several months or years, u have a feeling,( not spiritual, or anyone) , just a freaking feeling, omo, u need to go for a MRI.

Sometimes, u need to fight to make something work well, not just fold ur arms n say "ya had a freaking feeling!"

rubbish!

This one no hard na...Give her kidney back, then break up......make we see how you wan survive enter "lovefull" relationship....nonsense

Laveda:
Men!

wetin do Men?

JeffreyJamez:


wetin do Men?

Nah una way.

Laveda:


Nah una way.

let me not insult you in public...but this is annoying

After donating her kidney or bf? are u okay in the head?na kill i go kill you!

JeffreyJamez:


let me not insult you in public...but this is annoying

What's stopping you?

Confused set of people

Laveda:
Men!

Laveda:

What's stopping you?

you know better...stop pushing my buttons.

JeffreyJamez:


you know better...stop pushing my buttons.

bounce.

Laveda:


bounce.

me?.....i no blame you na..