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Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Kweenesther(f): 10:25am On Oct 28, 2016 |
The man shared his story showing just how he has been caught between the devil and the deep blue sea. Below is what he wrote: I am 32 years old and my girlfriend is 31 years old. We’ve been together for 5 years and now live together in a nice house. Sometime ago, I had serious medical problems and she gave me one of her kidneys to save my life. However, things have been slowly fizzling out and I’ve been feeling like we don’t belong together for a few months now I feel like if I don’t make a decision soon we will be married and I will feel this way forever. But on the other hand, getting a kidney transplant has changed my life for the better in so many ways. I feel like staying together is the right thing to do even if I’m not in love anymore. I’ll never be able to pay her back. I’m so torn and conflicted and feel like I have to make an impossible choice. If I stay with her, I’ll always feel trapped and in a loveless relationship. If I break up with her, I’ll forever feel like an evil person for dumping someone who literally put their life on the line for me. Guys, Urgent advice needed!! If it were you, what would you do?? |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Talasuma(m): 10:28am On Oct 28, 2016 |
I'll do nothing, cus I can't be such an ingrate. 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by ghettowriter(m): 10:30am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Whoever wrote this should go on and marry her, then leave the matter in God's hands for the grace to overcome every challenges that comes along the journey of a married life. Marriage is not all rosey to begin with. if she stood by you then, she'll definitely do it again tomorrow. #my 2¢. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Nobody: 10:30am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Fix it, don't abandon it |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Usjimy(m): 10:32am On Oct 28, 2016 |
If I were the girl, I'll cuddle him, speak some sweet nonsense into his ears, make his favourite meal and watch him purge out the kidney with such a lovely smile on my face. So romantic... |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by talktonase(m): 10:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Will you go and maintain your status quo in that marriage! If you no gree,oya give her back her kidney now now now! |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by pacino26(m): 10:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
O boy, what you're feeling is natural to all men. Once in awhile we've this feeling that we're making the wrong choice and tactically withdraw ourselves from committed relationships. So my advice to you is simple; get the ALL SPARK! tell her to win you over again that you're feeling lost. That's just it. You don't hate her and from your post she's got no issues. It's all in your head and it's thriving on the fact that you guys have been living a ROUTINE. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by nicerichard05: 10:35am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Meanwhile Wherever 2 or 3 girls are gathered there is CUCUMBER in their midst |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Laveda(f): 10:37am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Men! |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Kweenesther(f): 10:40am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Usjimy: Hahahaha....this guy tho |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Loyalblak007(f): 10:41am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Endure... |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by falconey(m): 10:45am On Oct 28, 2016 |
nicerichard05: evidently yeah |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 28, 2016 |
No big deal. Women leave men, who have made major sacrifices for them, everyday. But, he should return her kidney if she'll accept it. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Kweenesther(f): 10:58am On Oct 28, 2016 |
SerRento: How will he return her kidney without dying? |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by alatbaba1(m): 11:03am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Pls return her kidney. Show her that you can live without her. You don't want to feel trapped in the marriage. I guess it's okay for you to feel trapped in the coffin. I'm sure if she was the one with health issues you will never donate your kidney for the transplant. The Devil sef they fear you |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Kweenesther:That's his problem. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Jenny1010(f): 11:15am On Oct 28, 2016 |
this is the right reason why people kill people |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Usjimy(m): 11:23am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Kweenesther: Seriously the act of that guy isn't tenable in any honest setting. That's why I render any form of assistance I can without looking forward to any payback. It makes it easier to move on in cases like this. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Raina80(f): 11:23am On Oct 28, 2016 |
You owe her honesty, that will be your biggest gift to her. There is nothing that is as horrible as being stuck in a relationship with someone you do not love. You owe your improved life to her but that does not mean you have to be held ransom by that act alone. A loveless marriage with children is not a healthy environment. I am sure you will get a lot of stress from family and friends as is evident by some of the comments here but you deserve to be happy and so does your girlfriend. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by AlexCk: 11:25am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Kweenesther: U just have a feeling that y'all don't belong together Which feeling biko, That's not a solid reason joor If someone can give a part of themself for u to live, then that person can totally reason with u to boost the relationship. U look for love, u get it in abundance, n after several months or years, u have a feeling,( not spiritual, or anyone) , just a freaking feeling, omo, u need to go for a MRI. Sometimes, u need to fight to make something work well, not just fold ur arms n say "ya had a freaking feeling!" |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Nightie(f): 11:26am On Oct 28, 2016 |
rubbish! |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:11pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
This one no hard na...Give her kidney back, then break up......make we see how you wan survive enter "lovefull" relationship....nonsense |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:12pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Laveda: wetin do Men? |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Laveda(f): 2:17pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Nah una way. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:21pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Laveda: let me not insult you in public...but this is annoying |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Nobody: 2:25pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
After donating her kidney or bf? are u okay in the head?na kill i go kill you! |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Laveda(f): 2:27pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:What's stopping you? |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by makydebbie(f): 2:28pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Confused set of people Laveda: |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:30pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Laveda: you know better...stop pushing my buttons. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Laveda(f): 2:42pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: bounce. |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by Nobody: 2:50pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
He should stay with her and rekindle the love. All those things they did at the beginning of their relationship, he should do it all over again. He should also talk to the lady. Those little things that seem unimportant can bring back the love. Goodluck to the dude |
Re: Guys!! Come In Here, See What You Caused!!! by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:53pm On Oct 28, 2016 |
Laveda: me?.....i no blame you na.. |
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