Myde4naija:
you better learn from him, you dey think say u b oyinbo, hhhjmmmm, try such thing with ur husband then u will know all this African feminist are bloody liar.

APCsupporter:




Pej is the most useless first lady Nigeria has ever seen. She is a shameless thief and she doesn't care about her people.

@topic. Buhari should flog her or send her out of Aso rock

APCsupporter:




Pej is the most useless first lady Nigeria has ever seen. She is a shameless thief and she doesn't care about her people.


@topic. Buhari should flog her or send her out of Aso rock

todayboy:
If buhari can not manage is home

How can he govern nigeria

irynterri:
its obvious that nlders who post things as if all is well with the country are either kids who are still collecting money from their parents or pple who move from their high brow offices to their homes..those of us who go to the market regularly can see the hunger and pain in the eyes of the ordinary Nigerian..this country is a ticking time bomb waiting to explode,you do not need prophet Joshua to tell u that an uprising is eminent,I pray we can hold up till 2019,let all who mean well for this country pray for our leaders because at the end of the day,the uprising will only affect the poor and the middle-class

finalboss1:
aisha is just dumb...that's why you it's bad give women chance, see now we gave them education see how they are using it.... pls Aisha you belong to kitchen living and the other room.. fish brain woman

kabrud:

She is a citizen of Nigeria and entitled to her opinion, very true but next time, she may be airing those her opinions in her father's house in Adamawa, not as a wife of the president.

MarieSucre:


Do you even understand the implication of what you're. saying?

Okay let is expand it. If Aisha Buhari speaks out against her husband, she will be sent packing. What of an outsider. Is Buhari also allowed to use force or violence to silence that outside critique? You do not know that evil does not manifest as a whole but as little drops of evil bot stemmed then allowed to amass into downpour. This is the same with tyranny. Be careful of what you support it can come back to bite you in the ass.

kabrud:

@ the emboldened, that is why I said she is allowed to speak against the president in the public but not as the wife of the president. Certainly in her father's house, she is an outsider and she will be treated like any other outsider, not necessarily with force. If she makes any statement that is unfounded, a court action can be taken against her, in which case, she is free to get her lawyer. Why should the president be sleeping under the same roof with his enemy who masquerades as a wife? For security reasons, it is not advisable. We can't have two captains on a ship. My wife has her right as a Nigerian but if she feels that I don't deserve her respect, she can as well go back to her father's house, cos the two of us can't be masters of equal ranks.

MarieSucre:


After thoroughly reading your reply I have a couple of questions that I'll need clarifying on.

PLS ANSWER THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS

1) Where does it say in the constitution that as the wife of the president she cannot criticize the president?

2)Did she make any statement that is unfounded?

3)Why should the court take actions against her? Should the court also be allowed to take actions against other Nigerian citizens who criticize the president? Does this constitute misuse of authority or not?

4)Do you know the definition of enemy? Pls can you state it here for us? Using this definition, does Aisha qualify as an enemy? Do i also qualify as your enemy since I am "criticizing" your comment?

5)Do you really intend to mean that Aisha would kill her husband?

6)Did Aisha ask to be a captain of the ship? Are all the Nigerians online who also criticize Buhari's policies as Aisha has done in that interview also asking to be captain of ship? Should they be also classified as security threats to the president?

7)I don't know why you brought your wife's issue here but should wife having respect for you mean that she cannot have a dissenting opinion especially concerning the country is also her own just as much as it is yours?

Is your dream woman an electronic robot with a WiFi remote control?

THANK YOU. I AWAIT YOUR REPLIES.

kabrud:

1. She is very free to criticise but certainly not in public. The issue of constitution does not apply here because it never allocated any office to her. But if the wife of the president is now asking if the constitution stops her from criticising her husband in public, then they are certainly no longer couples since cases that should be resolved in the bedroom now requires legal backing. It is married couples we are talking about here not business partners.
2. It seems u have problem with comprehension. I said in her father's house, she is free to criticise the president and she will be treated like any other outsider and if she makes any unfounded statement, a legal action can be taken against her (or words to that effect). The "if" in that statement suggests that she has not made any unfounded statement yet. But if she leaves, it is possible she indulges in such, in which case, a necessary legal action can be taken as applied to any other outsider.

3. From 2 above, a court action can be taken against her. Anybody can criticise the president but while exercising this right, care must be taken not to overstep bounds. Eg, when Ayo Fayose of Ekiti state levelled some allegations of Aisha's involvement in some money laundering, if he cannot prove it and a court action is taken against him, this cannot be equated to misuse of authority. Similar thing may be said against the president and where such cannot be substantiated, whosoever is involved may be sued for defamation of character.
4. When someone doesn't wish success for u, he qualifies for ur enemy. One of the ways u can initiate my downfall is to announce my secret to the whole world thereby making me an object of ridicule and that is exactly what Aisha just did.
5. Aisha will not kill her husband but since she can go on air and announce to the whole world some classified information, security of top secret information cannot be guaranteed with her continued stay in the Villa.
6. Aisha did not demand to be a co-captain but insisting that things should be done her own way suggests that. Other Nigerians criticising Buhari cannot be qualified to be tagged as such cos they are not close to the seat of power.
7. My wife may have a view different from mine but when she insists that hers must prevail especially on matters that it is me that will carry the responsibility in the event of failure amounts to having two captains on a ship. And for her to go public and announce it shows total lack of respect.
8. Nay! But whenever there is any disagreement in decision making, as the head of the house, my decision supersedes. And if she disagrees, I look at it as lack of respect. Both she and our children answer my name and not the other way round.

MarieSucre:


1)Why is she not free to criticize him public? The constitution applies because she is a CITIZEN and citizens are free to criticize government policies or am i wrong?

2)What unfounded statement did she make?

3)Why should a court action be taken against her? Do you support such tyranny?

4)Where did she not wish Buhari success? What secrets of his did she reveal? Does criticizing someone's policies mean you do not wish them success? How well do YOU take criticism?

5)What classified information did she release? (pls answer with evidence).

6)When and where did she insist things must be done her way? (pls answer with evidence).

7)a-Unlike your case in BUHARi's case, is he the only one that will be criticized if the government fails? Do people not still criticize Patience Jonathan and Turai Musa Yar'adua?

b- Where did she ask to be co-captain?

And if your decision just like Buhari's is affecting your home as his is affecting our economy?

last bullet:- The first present you should buy your wife should be a book called DYING IN SILENCE, ensure she reads the chapter called HOW TO LIVE WITH A TYRANNICAL HUSBAND, there is also sub-section called YOUR HUSBAND IS ALWAYS RIGHT EVEN WHEN HE IS WRONG.

finalboss1:
aisha is just dumb...that's why you it's bad give women chance, see now we gave them education see how they are using it.... pls Aisha you belong to kitchen living and the other room.. fish brain woman

kabrud:

From ur response, it is quite evident u didn't read the interview granted by Aisha.
U asked questions and answers have been provided only for u to ask exactly the same set of questions again, are u that slow? I ask, if u cannot sacrifice ur decision in favour of that of ur husband, pls what exactly constitutes respect. When u tell some women that they lack respect for their husbands the next thing they will ask u is that when has disagreement constituted lack of respect? My question is, what are the ways women respect their husbands? Is it by calling them pet names, welcoming them from work or because of their domestic chores which are even taken care of by house helps. Pls I want to know, for all these women that say they respect their husbands, how exactly do u show respect because if a woman insists that her decision must prevail over that of her husband, then where does the respect actually lie then. I now know why my neighbours are always fighting all the time. Both husband and wife are claiming head of the family. From the way things are going, it seems some of us that are not married may end up just signing contract of may be just 5 yrs and after two kids, the marriage expires cos I can't imagine one woman who doesn't even know how I struggled coming to lay some yeye claims in the name of being my wife. Thank u for letting me know what women are. Bye.

MarieSucre:



Unlike you i will not be rude. Because i believe in availing myself of different view points.

I have not repeated any question.

I went through the interview.

You said she insisted her decision must prevail. PLS WHERE DID SHE SAY THIS IN HER INTERVIEW OR ANY OTHER FORUM? thank you.

As for the other things you typed. What do they have to do with this?

kabrud:



U did not repeat any question u said?

U need to re-read ur questions in the two posts. U simply changed the words asking the same thing.

Infact, there is one which was even verbatim;

"what unfounded statement did she make?"

The only one that looks different is "what classified information did she reveal?"

And this is why I asked "did u read the interview?"

Now, u have asked a different question. And I will react accordingly.

If she had not insisted that HER DECISION must prevail, what was she criticising in the public? Her HUSBAND DECISION on how HIS administration should be, which is against WHAT SHE WANTED. And to make things worse, it is not even a family matter, but strictly an issue bordering on how the president should do the job HE WAS ELECTED TO DO. So, the disagreement is not even on family matters, but an interference on the official assignment of the president and she wants it done her own way even when the vice president who is very pivotal in the electioneering process and duly recognised by the constitution is not complaining. I hope u are aware that a vice is a requirement to be elected as a president and a wife is not.

Meanwhile, I really want to know, how do ladies actually respect their husbands? I ask this because some of the fights between husbands and wives and in some cases leading to separation, are actually as results of both of them not agreeing on the family decision and when the ladies are advised to respect their husbands, they always say, "I respect him". Now, in which forms have they been showing these respects if they don't take the decisions of the husbands at the expense of their's?
Or, how else do ladies respect their husbands? U can't insist that ur opinion prevails and still be telling me u respect ur husband na. For the sake of emphasis, I ask again, what and what constitutes respect from a woman to her husband? Calling him on phone? Picking his calls? Calling him darling? Greeting him in the morning? Which pls? I want to know.

Pls I need answer to this cos it is related to the topic. The topic is about a man and his wife.

MarieSucre:


Pls Mr Kabrud i don't how else to rephrase it for you to answer me.

Pls how is saying that Buhari does not know those in cabinet mean she want her decision to prevail?

How is her acknowledging that THE SITUATION OF THE COUNTRY IS BAD mean that she is trying to push her own interests?

I don't know how husbands and wives resolves their issues.

But She is criticizing BUHARI HER PRESIDENT not BUHARI HER HUSBAND. Does she not have a right to?

Should I and the rest of the Nigerians also wait for the inept and almost invisible VP to criticize Buhari before we allowed to criticize him?

kabrud:

She criticize Buhari as a president and not as her husband, hmm. Pls in what capacity was she talking if not as the wife of the president? Did she use words like "my husband" or were words like "ur husband" used while questioning her?
Also, why did u ignore my question? I asked, how or what are the ways women show respect to their husbands if they cannot allow the decision of their husbands as the head of the family to prevail over their's? Pls I really need to know.

oluwaahmed:
D funny tin is he said it in front of a woman president. Anyways its Islam dats ow dey want deir woman 2 be, sex slaves nuttin more

MarieSucre:


" I asked, how or what are the ways women show respect to their husbands if they cannot allow the decision of their husbands as the head of the family to prevail over their's? "

You are saying what I am saying, Did she criticize him as the HEAD OF HER FAMILY OR AS THE HEAD OF GOVERNMENT? Very simple. She could say Mr President or Her husband. But the message still stands.

Now pls provide evidence from the transcript of the interview of Aisha wanting her decision to prevail.

Remember I told you to tell your wife that once she gets married to you she should read a book called MY HUSBAND IS ALWAYS RIGHT EVEN WHEN HE IS WRONG.

kabrud:

The emboldened is the more reason ur argument is lame. if she isn't the wife of the president why must she know all the people being appointed by the president? Is that the duty of the wife of the president? (She said , neither she nor Buhari knows 5 out of 50 of the people he appoints), must she know them? (This on its own is nepotism, although that is not my argument here).
She wanted the party members to dominate and apparently, the president did not give her listening ear, hence her public criticism. That public criticism is an indication that she wasn't satisfied with the decision of her husband and this takes me back to the question; if a ladies cannot allow the decision of their husbands to prevail especially on official matters in which they hold no serious stakes, constitutionally, how do ladies actually respect their husbands? Keep jumping upandan and be running away from this question.

kabrud:

The emboldened is the more reason ur argument is lame. if she isn't the wife of the president why must she know all the people being appointed by the president? Is that the duty of the wife of the president? (She said , neither she nor Buhari knows 5 out of 50 of the people he appoints), must she know them? (This on its own is nepotism, although that is not my argument here).
She wanted the party members to dominate and apparently, the president did not give her listening ear, hence her public criticism. That public criticism is an indication that she wasn't satisfied with the decision of her husband and this takes me back to the question; if a ladies cannot allow the decision of their husbands to prevail especially on official matters in which they hold no serious stakes, constitutionally, how do ladies actually respect their husbands? Keep jumping upandan and be running away from this question.

MarieSucre:


"She wanted the party members to dominate and apparently,
the president did not give her listening ear, hence her public
criticism. That public criticism is an indication that she
wasn't satisfied with the decision of her husband and this
takes me back to the question"

HOW DID YOU GET THIS FROM HER SPEECH? EVIDENCE PLS THANK YOU

" if a ladies cannot allow the
decision of their husbands to prevail especially on official
matters in which they hold no serious stakes,
constitutionally, how do ladies actually respect their
husbands? Keep jumping upandan and be running away
from this question."

WHAT DO YOU MEAN SHE HAS NO SERIOUS STAKE? IS HSE NOT A NIGERIAN CITIZEN TOO? IF BUHARI DOES NOT REFORM HOSPITALS IS SHE EXEMPT FROM THE SUFFERING? IF ROADS ARE NOT REPAIRED FROM THE SUFFERING? IF BUHARI'S PEOPLE ARE CAUGHT WANTING AND EFCC STARTS INVESTIGATIING IS SHE EXEMPT FROM FROM PROBING?

Then you keep talking about husband up and down yourself. DOES BEING A HUSBAND MEAN THAT YOU ARE EXEMPT FROM CRITICISM AS A LEADER? JONATHAN, ABACHA, BABANGIDA WERE HUSBANDS HOW DID THAT HELP THEIR LEADERSHIP?

Finally, DOES BEING A HUSBAND MEAN THAT YOU'RE ALWAYS RIGHT EVEN WHEN YOU'RE HURTING YOUR COUNTRY?

PLS I AM PLEADING WITH YOU, I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR OWN REASONING, IT MIGHT BE CLOUDED WITH BIAS, PLS AND PLS I WANT TO SEE DIRECT EVIDENCE FROM HER TRANSCRIPT SPEECH ABOUT HER WANTING TO SUPERSEDE HER HUSBAND IF NOT YOU'RE JUST THROWING OUT RANDOM ACCUSATIONS AND SLANDERING HER.

Thank you and might i mention that I am enjoying this conversation. I await your reply.

kabrud:


@ the emboldened, I'm not enjoying it cos the circus is getting boring. Bye

MarieSucre:


Its boring because you're sexist and refuse to accept it. You keep attacking the messenger and not the message. And your assertion that because someone is a husband, a wife should follow him blindly is just plain silly. A man does not just attain ultimate wisdom by virtue of signing on the dotted lines and becoming a husband.

Respect is earned its not naturally endowed.

APCsupporter:


All mothers are not like yours. My mother has sense, has money and has given birth to a blessed child unlike you who has an extremely low IQ. Your leaders are looting from you and you are here foolishly defending them. I think you were paid. Send me your account details so that I can better your miserable life