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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Ishilove: 1:15pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
soonest:I totally concur 2 Likes |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Ishilove: 1:20pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
lezznjr:How am I backtracking? The lady made her decision, I wished her well and unfollwed the thread so where's the back tracking here? 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by crackhaus: 1:43pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Lol, watch the guilty scramble by throwing words around. 5 Likes |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by crackhaus: 1:49pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
SalomonKane:Yea, he cried for a baby he says he didn't care about and even wanted aborted. Clap for yourself, nothing has changed bro. Lol 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by SalomonKane: 1:51pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
crackhaus:Indeed, what has changed, did his feeling for the baby's mother change? 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by crackhaus: 2:11pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
SalomonKane:Bro it hasn't changed — A sad and unfortunate ending to justify an advice is usually the comfortable explanation. It's kind of a human thing though, most people will prefer a narrative that offers them opportunity to tell that unfortunate person " hey I told you so, but you didn't listen".. (Condescension) This is one way to identify a deceitful person, and the sad part is that most of the time, the person doesn't even realize they're deceitful. **** All that aside, I'm wondering how you even know what the guy is feeling at this point by looking at your screen. Perhaps you could share what you know about him. 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by SalomonKane: 2:34pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
crackhaus:Simple. The lady never said how the guy feel/felt about her. She said "he cried when he saw the baby". Not he cried for me and the baby. Now a man who truly feels for a woman will show his feeling, especially at this present time to the woman who brought the baby he cried for into this world. I've seen men who don't give a hoot about women who birth their kids. I know just what they're capable of. 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by crackhaus: 2:47pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
SalomonKane:Lol, but isn't this the point we the petty men of family section are trying to make? I have seen such men too (in fact an uncle) and I also know how bad it can get, but you don't see me projecting all of that onto a random situation like this from which I can't possibly form an objective judgment on. 2 Likes |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 2:48pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
SalomonKane: I have tried so much to ignore your statements but I just can't understand why you are pushing so hard for a bad ending. Haba! What will you gain if it ends in disaster. Let it rest, let this post die but no, you must win. Okay... Just so you know, two days ago he admitted I'm the best decision to ever happen to him (believe it or not). I don't care. I'm already scared and extremely worried but I choose to see a bright light at the end of the tunnel. Let it rest, all you can do is wish me the best. Thank you. 10 Likes |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 2:52pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Salomonkane, I really don't mean to be rude and I'm sorry for my harsh words. |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by SalomonKane: 2:54pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Maaamaaa:Em, pardon me, I never said you Were rude, did I? 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by SalomonKane: 2:55pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Maaamaaa:Oh now I see. Well forgive me for stating the obvious. Next time I won't meddle in your affair. Thank you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
I just felt I was rude. |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by SalomonKane: 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
crackhaus:That's you, brah, and last I checked, you ain't me. Or are you? 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Maaamaaa: 3:00pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
SalomonKane: I'm not saying your advice was not helpful but I saw and read everyone's advice and I thought about it for a while and took my decision. Do you feel I'm not scared or I'm not worried? But I choose to be hopeful to keep my sanity. But I'm really hurt when I see new posts everyday suggesting it won't end well. I'm human and I have my doubts but I'm trying to be strong. 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by misspicy(f): 3:01pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Ujoan:Have you suddenly forgotten that men are superior to women? They should go scot free with whatever,accept that like a woman you are As for me though,I will never make the mistake of getting unwanted pregnancy,and if it happens,I will never marry a man that ask me to abort,then goes ahead to treat me bad.Mbanu I be human being not goat,fvck the 'Mrs' title. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by crackhaus: 3:20pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
SalomonKane:LOL.. I never said I was you, or you I. But hol' up, did you just admit that you're projecting and not being objective when you assume that this dude doesn't care about her? |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Osama10(m): 4:00pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
Maaamaaa: Lovely. |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by joseph1832ng: 8:17pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
crackhaus:What's objective in what she said in her opening post. A man who clearly showed his disdain for her, and used unforgiveable words on her? Someone who didn't even acknowledge her presence after seeing the kid she bore him? Come on. People don't change like that. This ain't a Nollywood movie, you know. 1 Like |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by YungChorus(m): 10:14pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
joseph1832ng:guess who this bro ? |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 10:22pm On Oct 30, 2016 |
lezznjr: These women are mostly hopeless. Terrible upbringing, bad marriages have marred them for life. A lot are on their 7th husbands and are looking to normalise their degeneracy by recruiting others to join their demonic fold. God pass them. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 3:27am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Maaamaaa: crackhaus: She must marry him because he pays for his bills and provides money for his feeding? Or because the expenses are divvied up between them? Is she the one supposed to provide money for his feeding or to pay his bills, especially when they are only still living in concubinage? She must marry him because of the afore even though he feels manipulated and like she rode roughshod over his emotions, even though he does not like her, and even though that twinge of possibility lingers forebodingly that he c/would probably transfer that smouldering dislike that he has for her onto his unborn child? Does that ring like a prudent gamble to you? Or how possible is it for a union built on the foundations of manipulation and pique to bloom into a giant bouquet of marital bliss, or bear good fruits that would last? ... Why is your reasoning so inferior? Why is your mind so dank and unimaginative? Is it natural or do you choose for it to be so? ... Now do not reply this -- just sit in front of the proverbial mirror and think deeply about the things you say, and ask yourself whether you think they make any sense, or whether you are only meting them out in grams and litres to earn the high watermark of validation from some set of people. (You and I both know that this is true -- you can deny it all you want) And do remember that WORDS are powerful agents and affect people positively or negatively, or in both ways -- so instead of flinging them around lackadaisically to feel good about yourself for only an ephemeral moment; or because you are not directly affected by the issue and so think that madcap opinions of any complexion would suffice; even though freedom of speech is to be accorded as much latitude as possible, sometimes it is best to stay mute as wise silence not only trumps boisterous blunders that have not been given even a jot of thought, it actually does not confirm one's unintelligence. ... If that woman marries that man, and by happenstance one thing or the another opens up a Pandora's box of unsavory events, and he beats her, mortally wounds her, or even kills her – after all he never really did liked her –, then know that her blood would be on your hands and on the hands of all of those in support. Always think before you type. 23 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 4:53am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Timbuktou: The only frustrated person I see here is you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by 4nobody4every1: 5:28am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Chai, No dull moments on Nairaland, Lol @ 7th husbands... buhahahahah 2 Likes
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Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 5:32am On Oct 31, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: Errrm, oga please be careful ooh. Very soon they will start accusing you of being a woman masquerading as a man. . . . Just for the record, you too much! 3 Likes |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by Nobody: 5:34am On Oct 31, 2016 |
4nobody4every1: A woman who can get 7 men to marry her in this husband recession period must be something nah. . . She deserves my respect! 4 Likes |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by 4nobody4every1: 5:35am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Ujoan: |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by joseph1832ng: 7:38am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Now that's harsh. |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by joseph1832ng: 7:41am On Oct 31, 2016 |
YungChorus:I suck at guessing. |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by MrObontami(m): 8:05am On Oct 31, 2016 |
joseph1832ng: |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by joseph1832ng: 8:07am On Oct 31, 2016 |
MrObontami:Yes oh. |
Re: A Frustrated Woman by MrObontami(m): 8:18am On Oct 31, 2016 |
joseph1832ng:how va bro |
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