Pls all mamas I need candid advice. I see u all as a family can't pick up my phone without breezing in here.
What would u do if u were in my shoes.
My younger attended my aunt's Hubby's burial from Owerri to Osun state. Now she informed me that she is coming to Lagos with my cousin and would stay at my aunt's place. I know she would want to come to my place and for now, no one knows am preggy. Her lifestyle isn't straight forward when it comes to men she is 23. As the eldest, I have talked tire. I don't even trust any of my siblings at all that is how bad it is. I heard a lot she said about me getting married. One of them is that I should have waited and to help train my siblings bf getting married. I married at 25 ooo and now my last girl and niece stays with me. I won't want her to come to my place, she is an adventurous person always looking for where to go. Help me abeg what do I come up with?

firsttymum:
team february
if u r team february indicate and add urself.


Chanbaby
Amjane
firsttymum
Kuhuz
Nneka3000
Realdentist (assistant captain)
Lala4sure
kittana
Ayatiraj
Mom2015
Itissettled3 (captain)

our story is mother alive, baby alive, daddy happy and plenty money available
team february for supernatural delivery. it is good news for us all.
oya answer present

. Chai!!!!' I haf die, what is realdentist name doing in your team?,. The mama na confirm march mama though she dey eye February.

Yesitsme:
pls ooo whas realdentist doing here

she dey team february na

callola:
. Chai!!!!' I haf die, what is realdentist name doing in your team?,. The mama na confirm march mama though she dey eye February.

na february mama o

realdentist:

U go fear my levels na. Only me Acting Captain for March and Assistant Captain for February.

u suppose b captain sef.. na because u b acting captain for march

kataleya:
Congrats to mamas that have given birth and more grace to those waddling, God will see us through ijn. pls o mamas we are 20weeks today and since two days back i have not been myself, i have intense heartburn and only get relief when i throw up and this has affected my diet, no appetite and tiredness .I feel my lo's movement alot especially when i eat something spicy and i also feel intense pressure at my abdomen/ pelvic region and it feels uncomfortable, is this normal at this stage?
cc all mamas

thanks o all mamas for all the anwers i didnt receive. i understand today is monday and most of us are busy with work. so....being a ftm i didnt knw the difference btw my lo's movement and contactions, i had contractions all tru the night, the pressure in my pelvic region was hellish, i cudnt stand up straight, when i lie down no relief i jst kept having this continuos contractions. I managed to get to the hospital this money and all i have been able to achieve is being shuffled from anc to emergency to labour ward still to be attended to.....i am not bothered though cos Jehovah jireh's got me, he has said i will not cast my young, and the fruit of my womb is blessed so these babies have to sit in and bake some more for the nxt 17weeks. Have a great day mamas

firsttymum:
she dey team february na

madam no lemme look for u

kataleya:

thanks o all mamas for all the anwers i didnt receive. i understand today is monday and most of us are busy with work. so....being a ftm i didnt knw the difference btw my lo's movement and contactions, i had contractions all tru the night, the pressure in my pelvic region was hellish, i cudnt stand up straight, when i lie down no relief i jst kept having this continuos contractions. I managed to get to the hospital this money and all i have been able to achieve is being shuffled from anc to emergency to labour ward still to be attended to.....i am not bothered though cos Jehovah jireh's got me, he has said i will not cast my young, and the fruit of my womb is blessed so these babies have to sit in and bake some more for the nxt 17weeks. Have a great day mamas

thot, I was the only one experiencing it ooooo, even saw blood after using the toilet on saturday. Was scared but everything just end there. I saw my nurse and she said we are fine but I don't trust her. Its well my dear, we shall overcome

kataleya:

thanks o all mamas for all the anwers i didnt receive. i understand today is monday and most of us are busy with work. so....being a ftm i didnt knw the difference btw my lo's movement and contactions, i had contractions all tru the night, the pressure in my pelvic region was hellish, i cudnt stand up straight, when i lie down no relief i jst kept having this continuos contractions. I managed to get to the hospital this money and all i have been able to achieve is being shuffled from anc to emergency to labour ward still to be attended to.....i am not bothered though cos Jehovah jireh's got me, he has said i will not cast my young, and the fruit of my womb is blessed so these babies have to sit in and bake some more for the nxt 17weeks. Have a great day mamas

my teamie so sorry u didn't get a response on time. U wil NVR cast ur young, d balm of Gilead is made available for u, my God would strengthen u, ur lo wil hear d voice of d lord and feel d touch of d lord so he would b patient enof to bake well. it is well with u

Mamas, longest time o, I av on ghost mode for long because am depressed as I just dey home. I am seriously searching for work ever since my company retrenched me from work. I don't mind if dia is any mama here dat help me out. Aside other office jobs, I can teach very well, I av MSc in Analytical Chemistry.


There is another reason y am not happy, Sis in law gave birth yesterday but it was still birth. Before d incidence, she complained she had been having back ache and all her body is swollen too. Later, she was told to be placed on bed rest due to high Bp in Igando Gen Hosp. so dat she can be monitored.

According to her, she left d hospital when dia was no improvement and resulted one alagbo place. She claimed she felt better after she had taken concoctions. I personally called her and told her to ensure she delivers her baby in d gen hospital for d fact dat it's her first child. I asked if she had gone backed to d hospital for check up, she said yes.

She is also using private hospital around her place, so I think wen she was complaining again, she went d private Hosp and they told dia dat d baby is dead inside her womb already and a CS would done. They went to d alagbo place and she delivered d still birth dia.

The reason y am posting did is dat I want us to learn from it. Although I am not an advocate of agbo, but it works right. Don't rely on traditional medicine alone and believe it will do miracle. Always seek medical advice and follow dia instructions.

My is dat d baby might have in distress ever since her bp rose wen she was asked to be on bed rest. Had it been she stayed dia, I guess all efforts would put in place to ensure mother and child alive. Hubby was her sisters and his mum yesterday dat they all caused it due to dia ignorance. He advised them same way I told my SiL but didn't listen o. she claimed to stay home with her sister to be on bed rest. What annoys me most is y she refused to go to gen hosp again.

Anyway let me stop my ranting here, planning to go and see her tomorrow.

This is soo sad @Aim07. may the lord console your family at this trying time.
I've never likeed the idea of traditional medicine, my reason being that what scan will easily detect within a few minute, Iya alagbo might not see it in a year. Although it works well for some people. May God save us.

When I first got pregnant my mom and mil almost killed me with their traditional beliefs. As if its the only way that works. After so many arguments I decided to do their wish, hubby took me to one ijaw woman's place.
first things was her place was very dirty and then I laid on the mat and she started massaging my tommy as if she was looking for something. I was so scared that I told hubby that the woman has broken my baby's head. Then she gave me powder to swallow with water, only God knows what it was that day.........
After we got home I started feeling serious abdominal pain which was the result of d massage. I told Dh that I'm never going back to that place and since then we've been lying to our moms that I'm still going.

Mamas pls let's be very conscious of our baby's movement, especially in 3rd trimester. CS is not a bad thing at all.

realdentist:

U go fear my levels na. Only me Acting Captain for March and Assistant Captain for February.

Na u be d mama on top.lolx

kataleya:

thanks o all mamas for all the anwers i didnt receive. i understand today is monday and most of us are busy with work. so....being a ftm i didnt knw the difference btw my lo's movement and contactions, i had contractions all tru the night, the pressure in my pelvic region was hellish, i cudnt stand up straight, when i lie down no relief i jst kept having this continuos contractions. I managed to get to the hospital this money and all i have been able to achieve is being shuffled from anc to emergency to labour ward still to be attended to.....i am not bothered though cos Jehovah jireh's got me, he has said i will not cast my young, and the fruit of my womb is blessed so these babies have to sit in and bake some more for the nxt 17weeks. Have a great day mamas

mama nothing will happen to u and ur LOs, u must surely end it in praise for our God is in control.

Aim07 and florena dats how a friend lost her baby last month. She was in labour, went to the hospital was asked to go home and come back later only for "dem say people " to refer her to one trado birth centre where the woman assured her that the baby will rush out after taking one concoction like dat. The baby did rush out but the placenta refused to rush out, she was eventually taken bk to the hospital and the baby died from distress.

No vex ma. I saw ur question. but I didn't answer cos I'm also a FTM. You will not cast your young

kataleya:

thanks o all mamas for all the anwers i didnt receive. i understand today is monday and most of us are busy with work. so....being a ftm i didnt knw the difference btw my lo's movement and contactions, i had contractions all tru the night, the pressure in my pelvic region was hellish, i cudnt stand up straight, when i lie down no relief i jst kept having this continuos contractions. I managed to get to the hospital this money and all i have been able to achieve is being shuffled from anc to emergency to labour ward still to be attended to.....i am not bothered though cos Jehovah jireh's got me, he has said i will not cast my young, and the fruit of my womb is blessed so these babies have to sit in and bake some more for the nxt 17weeks. Have a great day mamas

tiwatopebam:
Good morning mamas, how is the ministry? JUNE 2017 MAMAS, time for roll call.
If you are here, answer PRESENT,

Nobledeals
MumFiyin
Tiwatopebam
Tikosdear
Mzleemah
Orente27
Ariegurl
Toriella
BlossomedCherry

TEAM JUNE 2017 FOR SUPERNATURAL DELIVERY

Ma, Its Orente21 nt 27, am present ma. 10weeks&2days now. No morning sickness yet bt appetite gettin low each day.

Besea:
Aim07 and florena dats how a friend lost her baby last month. She was in labour, went to the hospital was asked to go home and come back later only for "dem say people " to refer her to one trado birth centre where the woman assured her that the baby will rush out after taking one concoction like dat. The baby did rush out but the placenta refused to rush out, she was eventually taken bk to the hospital and the baby died from distress.

Jesu!!

That's really sad after 9months.

Besea:
Aim07 and florena dats how a friend lost her baby last month. She was in labour, went to the hospital was asked to go home and come back later only for "dem say people " to refer her to one trado birth centre where the woman assured her that the baby will rush out after taking one concoction like dat. The baby did rush out but the placenta refused to rush out, she was eventually taken bk to the hospital and the baby died from distress.

Mama, good for you, that means you are free from morning sickness, no more cramp, no morning sickness too.

Orente21:
Ma, Its Orente21 nt 27, am present ma. 10weeks&2days now. No morning sickness yet bt appetite gettin low each day.

Yesitsme:
Pls all mamas I need candid advice. I see u all as a family can't pick up my phone without breezing in here.
What would u do if u were in my shoes.
My younger attended my aunt's Hubby's burial from Owerri to Osun state. Now she informed me that she is coming to Lagos with my cousin and would stay at my aunt's place. I know she would want to come to my place and for now, no one knows am preggy. Her lifestyle isn't straight forward when it comes to men she is 23. As the eldest, I have talked tire. I don't even trust any of my siblings at all that is how bad it is. I heard a lot she said about me getting married. One of them is that I should have waited and to help train my siblings bf getting married. I married at 25 ooo and now my last girl and niece stays with me. I won't want her to come to my place, she is an adventurous person always looking for where to go. Help me abeg what do I come up with?

Well she hasn't indicated interest in coming over to your house yet! But since it's a likelihood she will want to why not tell her you won't be around? Or say hubby's brother is around and using the spare room so no space for now?

Modified I see you have girls staying with you already and she may want to share their room.

Ok what exactly is your fear?

She knowing you are pregnant?

Her lifestyle?

Since both of you don't seem to get along nicely tell her not now maybe some other time.

Besea:
Aim07 and florena dats how a friend lost her baby last month. She was in labour, went to the hospital was asked to go home and come back later only for "dem say people " to refer her to one trado birth centre where the woman assured her that the baby will rush out after taking one concoction like dat. The baby did rush out but the placenta refused to rush out, she was eventually taken bk to the hospital and the baby died from distress.

Can u imagine, sure d baby would have been saved if she returned back to d hospital. Thanks for buttressing my points, I am going to tell her all dis so dat she can open her brain next time. I forgot to add that she EDD is next month o

Florena:
This is soo sad @Aim07. may the lord console your family at this trying time.
I've never likeed the idea of traditional medicine, my reason being that what scan will easily detect within a few minute, Iya alagbo might not see it in a year. Although it works well for some people. May God save us.

When I first got pregnant my mom and mil almost killed me with their traditional beliefs. As if its the only way that works. After so many arguments I decided to do their wish, hubby took me to one ijaw woman's place.
first things was her place was very dirty and then I laid on the mat and she started massaging my tommy as if she was looking for something. I was so scared that I told hubby that the woman has broken my baby's head. Then she gave me powder to swallow with water, only God knows what it was that day.........
After we got home I started feeling serious abdominal pain which was the result of d massage. I told Dh that I'm never going back to that place and since then we've been lying to our moms that I'm still going.

Mamas pls let's be very conscious of our baby's movement, especially in 3rd trimester. CS is not a bad thing at all.

Am happy for u that u did not learn ur lessons in d hard way.

TEAM JUNE 2017 FOR SUPERNATURAL DELIVERY [/quote
please guys when can I start antenatal?

kataleya:

thanks o all mamas for all the anwers i didnt receive. i understand today is monday and most of us are busy with work. so....being a ftm i didnt knw the difference btw my lo's movement and contactions, i had contractions all tru the night, the pressure in my pelvic region was hellish, i cudnt stand up straight, when i lie down no relief i jst kept having this continuos contractions. I managed to get to the hospital this money and all i have been able to achieve is being shuffled from anc to emergency to labour ward still to be attended to.....i am not bothered though cos Jehovah jireh's got me, he has said i will not cast my young, and the fruit of my womb is blessed so these babies have to sit in and bake some more for the nxt 17weeks. Have a great day mamas

My dear teamie ooo. I'm so sorry, I saw ur post and was going to respond but somehow somehow I didn't get around to doing that. I'm glad you're in the hospital now, but what gladdens me more is your positive spirit. pls keep that up and don't let anything shake u, no matter what. keep up the positive confession. my prayers are with u.

are u carrying multiples? what did they say is the reason for d contractions? did u overstress urself in any way? any fibroids?

Orente21:
Ma, Its Orente21 nt 27, am present ma. 10weeks&2days now. No morning sickness yet bt appetite gettin low each day.

@Orente21, u are so lucky mehn. in fact u don't know what God is doing for u.
am just 8weeks2days, nasoso vomiting o.not eating well too.always tired.spitting nko? e no get part 2.infact people in my office has started teasing me calling me "iyaibeji " and all

Ariegurl:

@Orente21, u are so lucky mehn. in fact u don't know what God is doing for u.
am just 8weeks2days, nasoso vomiting o.not eating well too.always tired.spitting nko? e no get part 2.infact people in my office has started teasing me calling me "iyaibeji " and all

aww sorry.try chew mint gum to hold off saliva.u wil b okay as time progresses.

i am in my first trimester nd second preg nd eating like kilode,no spitting or vomit.but i get tired and nauseaous at times.

try chew ata- rodo.lol to scare d saliva

Coldfeet:
Well she hasn't indicated interest in coming over to your house yet! But since it's a likelihood she will want to why not tell her you won't be around? Or say hubby's brother is around and using the spare room so no space for now?

Modified I see you have girls staying with you already and she may want to share their room.

Ok what exactly is your fear?

She knowing you are pregnant?

Her lifestyle?

Since both of you don't seem to get along nicely tell her not now maybe some other time.

She would want to visit of which I dont want ...she obviously won't stay at my place. I dont want her to know am preggy and am not in support of her coming to Lagos....

sweet mums plz i nid ur opinion on this.

where i work presently d pay is too low but had to take it coz it was my only option of aving a job after searching tirelessly.i av bin a staff for a year now and doing well in my duties.recently i got an interview invite to a bigger organisation which av initially applied to and neva tout they would call me.

i av attended the interview nd with God on my side i pray am called coz based on my performance in the written test the maths was a no go area for me coz i couldnt attempt any question but i cleared d english aspect well.

my present boss just increased salary by 10% effective nxt month salary.

incase the other organization calls me to resume, plz hw do i leave my present job peacefully witout upseting my boss.

NB; i am more like her secretary/PA

I handle major duties at work nd my leaving will surely make tins difficult for my boss cos its too sudden.

Yesitsme, since you don't want her to know u're pregnant, then you have to look for an excuse to prevent her from coming. u can tell her ur house is full for now or u're travelling or something, then send her small money to pacify her... just think of something...

Yesitsme:
Pls all mamas I need candid advice. I see u all as a family can't pick up my phone without breezing in here.
What would u do if u were in my shoes.
My younger attended my aunt's Hubby's burial from Owerri to Osun state. Now she informed me that she is coming to Lagos with my cousin and would stay at my aunt's place. I know she would want to come to my place and for now, no one knows am preggy. Her lifestyle isn't straight forward when it comes to men she is 23. As the eldest, I have talked tire. I don't even trust any of my siblings at all that is how bad it is. I heard a lot she said about me getting married. One of them is that I should have waited and to help train my siblings bf getting married. I married at 25 ooo and now my last girl and niece stays with me. I won't want her to come to my place, she is an adventurous person always looking for where to go. Help me abeg what do I come up with?

1. tell her ur u nd hubby nids to visit mother inlaw nd dnt know when xactly u wil b bak.

2 ur hubby has travelled nd u ar attending an important meeting on behalf of ur company .

3.ur house has bin fumigated nd wunt b safe to stay for now so u had to stay wit sis inlaw for d main time.

there ar lots of tins u can say dat wunt make intrested in visiting

OK so let me explain how I came to be in Feb n March...

I first went to see a gynae when I was 7 weeks pregnant, so with my LMP of 24th May, he did a mental calculation and told me my EDD would be 3rd March (which made me happy due to reasons I will explain in future).

But some days ago, out of curiosity I picked a calender and counted 40 weeks from May 24 and it landed on Feb 28. That was when I started saying I've ported to February . Scan even gave me Feb 24.

But I would still like to be March acting Cappo sha.... that is if March mamas don't mind, pending when Babyadorable shows up.

realtalk19:

aww sorry.try chew mint gum to hold off saliva.u wil b okay as time progresses.

i am in my first trimester nd second preg nd eating like kilode,no spitting or vomit.but i get tired and nauseaous at times.

try chew ata- rodo.lol to scare d saliva

Aww,thanks alot ma. will try all the aforementioned. bless u