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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by kolajoo(m): 12:54am On Nov 01, 2016
lola024:
Your first time with a new man can be a bit nerve-wracking , especially for the young and inexperienced.
Some girls just go in for the kill on the very first night but a lot of girls choose to make a guy wait … and wait… and wait…….hmmm… and wait.
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Now I’m not talking from experience here, but I have a friend who has done this and said it worked well for her. She made her new man wait 6 months (wow six months, most men I know would be gone in a few weeks) and said that it proved to her that he’s serious. Where are the days when guys would buy you roses and dress smart and be on his best behaviour to whoo us ladies?

They are gone because they no longer have to work for it any more. But how long should you make a guy wait for and how long is to long or too short? Back in the day it was all about waiting till the man puts a ring on it (all ma single ladies…lol) now it seems just wham bam thank you man and then he’s gone.

To be honest I would love to make guy wait months for it because as my friend says it proves his serious but then if you really like each other comes the problem of feeling you may lose him or even sexual attraction that may make you move to the bed to early.
Well here’s a scenario You’ve met a great buff new boyfriend.

The chemistry between you is good, you’ve kissed and cuddled, you have loads in common but then comes the big jump into having proper relationship with sexual intercourse. But when is the right time? How soon is too soon? There is the thing that we hear all the time and that is to wait till your married, but who does that nowadays? These are the things that fill us with questions and anguish.

It’s always tricky knowing how to go forward in a new relationship, but if you haven’t had many partners, or it’s your first time, the whole process can be a bit nerve wrecking if your trying to please your partner.

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Op i like your likes. I can even wait a whole year just been following and coping but the story will change immediately i hit the spot and i will start my own drama. Moral of the story, it shouldn't matter how long you kept him waited just pray for flesh of a flesh. I have this ex gf we did it the very first day we met and we had a wonderful experience together and i heart her so much till now.

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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 12:56am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
Op, six months is good thou but I prefer it longer than that. Fvck boys plenty everywhere.

All these gals saying 6 months too long. I hope y'all can also stay six month without asking for anything financially or expecting anything in this six month cheesy

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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 12:58am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
ofofo is your hobby.

Her life, her pussy and her decisions

Deep lifer, we don see you√√√


Lol you are the one doing ofofo in this case. You just can't stay away

Congrats on your NYSC. Why have you been using the 'sad' smiley all night long? Are you bored?

Lighten up and smile jare. Shogbo?
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:01am On Nov 01, 2016
Stelvin101:


All these gals saying 6 months too long. I hope y'all can also stay six month without asking for anything financially or expecting anything in this six month cheesy
I don't expect from him. I don't date to ask him because to some extent, I'm financially OK undecided.
What else can he bring to table except his diick, that's what I wanna know during my staying off sex

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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:02am On Nov 01, 2016
Generals03:



Lol you are the one doing ofofo in this case. You just can't stay away

Congrats on your NYSC. Why have you been using the 'sad' smiley all night long? Are you bored?

Lighten up and smile jare. Shogbo?
Stay away from who

Thanks but I don't remember telling you undecided. I'm not sad or bored bro amebo.
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:05am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
I don't expect from him. I don't date to ask him because to some extent, I'm financially OK undecided.
What else can he bring to table except his diick, that's what I wanna know during my staying off sex

Well u defend urself pretty well and if truly u are that type of independent lady then u gat my respect. I love such gals not the liabilities ones with bad mouth wey nor dey allow person hear word for Instagram and Facebook
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:08am On Nov 01, 2016
Stelvin101:


Well u defend urself pretty well and if truly u are that type of independent lady then u gat my respect. I love such gals not the liabilities ones with bad mouth wey nor dey allow person hear word for Instagram and Facebook
Well, you attract your self to yourself. I don't know if you get it.


Buenas noches Niño

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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:09am On Nov 01, 2016
Yea, just one...lolzz cheesy smiley
SmartyPants:


Is there a man you have ever trusted fully?
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by SmartyPants(m): 1:12am On Nov 01, 2016
ICQuinn:
Yea, just one...lolzz cheesy smiley

Kinda curious...you still with him?
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:12am On Nov 01, 2016
Banned grin
Generals03:


What happened to your other moniker?
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:12am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
Well, you attract your self to yourself. I don't know if you get it.


Buenas noches Niño

En primer lugar no soy un niño. Soy un bebé orgulloso papá. No use esa palabra chico en mí bien. buenas noches
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:12am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
Stay away from who

Thanks but I don't remember telling you undecided. I'm not sad or bored bro amebo.

Why are you giving me this repulsive attitude?
Because I stated the truth? You know what's right as much as I do and you know what is wrong. So no need to pretend like you do not know all because you do not want to fall the hands of your friends here. SMH


Hmmm. That aside, trust me I look forward to CAMP for you. It will be one of the most memorable moments of your life.....
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:13am On Nov 01, 2016
Yes smiley
SmartyPants:


Kinda curious...you still with him?
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by SmartyPants(m): 1:27am On Nov 01, 2016
ICQuinn pospt=50667478:
Yes smiley

smiley nice... Keep him well
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 1:45am On Nov 01, 2016
I will wink
SmartyPants:


smiley nice... Keep him well
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Medunah: 3:13am On Nov 01, 2016
undecided

Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by LePrezident(m): 5:16am On Nov 01, 2016
kolajoo:
Op i like your likes. I can even wait a whole year just been following and coping but the story will change immediately i hit the spot and i will start my own drama. Moral of the story, it shouldn't matter how long you kept him waited just pray for flesh of a flesh. I have this ex gf we did it the very first day we met and we had a wonderful experience together and i heart her so much till now.

Totally agree with you dude. All these girls who think the longer you wait means blah blah blah. It doesn't matter how long you wait. If a guy likes you he likes you, it doesn't matter whether u wait 10years or 10 days to f*ck. There's no formula to matters of the heart. Me for one thing, it is this type of scheming and mind-games by a girl that would quickly kill the love.
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 5:36am On Nov 01, 2016
ICQuinn:
Until I know him and trust him fully smiley
are sure.. tongue

Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by vani86: 5:59am On Nov 01, 2016
themonk:

kiss fine sisi

That one wey don bleach even her ancestors

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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 6:01am On Nov 01, 2016
Generals03:


Why are you giving me this repulsive attitude?
Because I stated the truth? You know what's right as much as I do and you know what is wrong. So no need to pretend like you do not know all because you do not want to fall the hands of your friends here. SMH


Hmmm. That aside, trust me I look forward to CAMP for you. It will be one of the most memorable moments of your life.....

I'm not giving you attitude. I guess you know me? Or is this an alternate


I hope so
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 6:06am On Nov 01, 2016
Stelvin101:


En primer lugar no soy un niño. Soy un bebé orgulloso papá. No use esa palabra chico en mí bien. buenas noches
A proud dad? Sorry about that smiley. Regards to the family. Buenas días
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 6:09am On Nov 01, 2016
UrWorstNitemare:
undecided OP. do you tink itz me ya doing?

NO !!!

YA DOIN YASEF...

IF U REFUSE TA TENTEBO...

WHERE DA CALL GIRL ATs** tongue

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NO HOLD BARRED
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Enjoy yaself,playa smiley
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 8:16am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
A proud dad? Sorry about that smiley. Regards to the family. Buenas días

Está bien, aunque no estoy casado todavía, pero ya he caído una. Feliz mes nuevo y que tengas un buen dia
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 8:19am On Nov 01, 2016
Stelvin101:


Está bien, aunque no estoy casado todavía, pero ya he caído una. Feliz mes nuevo y que tengas un buen dia
Aiit. Now I understand. Easy with the Spanish please, I have to pick it one by one. I'm a learner and I just started learning.

Same to you wink
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by tiswell(m): 8:26am On Nov 01, 2016
Purpletee:
till am sure he is fully committed.
How do you measure commitment...?

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Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by lola024(f): 8:28am On Nov 01, 2016
dollarprincess:
tongue


Princess...... How much time will you make him wait?
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by lola024(f): 8:31am On Nov 01, 2016
kolajoo:
Op i like your likes. I can even wait a whole year just been following and coping but the story will change immediately i hit the spot and i will start my own drama. Moral of the story, it shouldn't matter how long you kept him waited just pray for flesh of a flesh. I have this ex gf we did it the very first day we met and we had a wonderful experience together and i heart her so much till now.



Your start your Drama, then I quit..... Its not reading meter dear
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 8:31am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
Aiit. Now I understand. Easy with the Spanish please, I have to pick it one by one. I'm a learner and I just started learning.

Same to you wink

Smiles. Ya did great and so far the only Nairalander I have come across who speaks understand Spanish. wink
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by lola024(f): 8:31am On Nov 01, 2016
tiswell:
How do you measure commitment...?


We surely do
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 01, 2016
Generals03:


Happy new month.

You are the cause ma'am. How can you declare openly without shame that you will remove your pants for a man after 3 months?

I mean what has the world turned into?

Can you have a little bit of self control and discipline? You need to change and discover the other side of chastity. There's more to your existence than meeting to exchange fluids and soul with men.

#Saynotosexbeforemarriage

Whatever I decide to do or not do with my body is none of your business. So please let me be, have a nice day cool

Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by Purpletee(f): 9:04am On Nov 01, 2016
tiswell:
How do you measure commitment...?
no cheating and seriousness
Re: How Long Will You Make Your New Man Wait Before Sex (ladies, Lets Talk) by lola024(f): 9:19am On Nov 01, 2016
MissHatey:
lol. Don't mind *IT*

Buenas nooches níno


Lol

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