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Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by jabojafa(m): 8:36am On Nov 02, 2016 |
if you are sure dt God revealed to you then go back to Him and tell Him d difficulty you are passing thru. He shd also reveal it to d lady in question. Becos i wonder why He wud reveal ur wife to be to others and hasnt cared to do same to d people concern. Secondly dont act to desperate wen wooing her. See it as fun, dnt act as if ur life depend on her. Let her knw dt she is nt indispensible and dt u will always be fine with or without her. Lastly keep praying and serving God remember Matt 6:33, as u are serving God, He will add all this tings including wife. 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:30am On Nov 02, 2016 |
truthsayer007: You're the mumu one here. Since you can't comprehend issues and respond to same with decorum and wisdom. I pity your ignorance 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:33am On Nov 02, 2016 |
Amelian: Can't you see you're devoid of meaningful and wise contributions to the issue at hand? Must you comment and thereby display your lack of morals and intelligence? Instead of you to learn as a child that you are, you're busy calling people names. What a pity! 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:40am On Nov 02, 2016 |
kayzat: She's not in any relationship. She told me that categorically and I found out about that too myself. She has called me twice after I told her I am sick and she was mad at me I didn't tell her much earlier as she would have called me often, she asked what's the cause of the sickness, what I've used and who's taking care of me. Unfortunately I can't ignore my gifts, which are seeing visions, dreams and their interpretations and hearing of God's voice. It is because of my spiritual assignment on earth that I can't afford to marry anyhow lady out of flesh and sentiments. Who I marry is very crucial to whether I fulfil my God given purpose in life. Hence my going all spiritual about this. |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:52am On Nov 02, 2016 |
yetseyi:God bless you my sister, I appreciate you. I have actually surprisingly showed up at her church one Sunday morning and I make bold to say that was one of the turning point in our 'relationship' so far. She was surprised to see me and because she was the Head of the Hospitality unit, she was the one that attended to first timers. She just smiled and asked me who invited me in a sarcastic manner and I said she's the one. That was the day I broke the ice cos she became more free with me, tried to give me her IV to enter a state function later in the evening when we met there (cos my IV was with someone coming late) and she surrendered her BlackBerry PIN to me that evening. As for dates, she is begging me to be patient with her on that. Maybe she's scared of what might happen when people must have seen us a couple of times on a date and then we are no longer an item. Just my thought. I am no longer rushing her, in fact I've stopped calling and texting, she is the one doing that now even if it's not everyday. |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 10:07am On Nov 02, 2016 |
jabojafa:Thanks bro, that's what I'm doing now. I've stopped chasing, calling and texting. I have handed everything over to God cos I hold on to the promise of God and His word which says the heart of the King is in the hands of God and he turneth and twisteth it as He pleases. So if she is the one, she will not rest until she comes around and accept me as her man even if I am not what she envisaged her husband to be. Trust me, no woman can marry me and regret it, even though I am not perfect |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by yetseyi(f): 11:06am On Nov 02, 2016 |
Loveprotocol: If she's saying you should be patient be patient , I do think you should call her too. But not bombardment with calls oo. I do understand the people seeing together and then if it doesn't work toungues will wag part especially church people ![]() She knows your intention, you know your intention , You have done your part (the chasing/ expression of intention) just wait it out. Besides you can always talk to God about it since he's the one that led you. Invite us to the wedding oo ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Nobody: 11:08am On Nov 02, 2016 |
Loveprotocol: You are the one who Lack morals and intelligence. And you claim to be a Pastor in the making. I laugh in Chinese.. U threw the first shot of calling. Me names, so I followed suit.. Why are you crying now... Better portray yourself as a good model than deceiving your self thinking u are called by God.. Prophet my foot.. Smhhh. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by doveweed(m): 12:08pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
Amelian:Op please forget this lady that looks possessed by a marine spirit and focus on your life. Learn to ignore some nincompoops here on Nairaland. Be patient and see her reaction towards you over time. What will be will be. Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
doveweed: Who Call your name? U see your life, bloody nincompoop.. When people like u and your op starts with insults and u get it back in full cups.. Body go dey pepper una. If u people want to be respected, respect yourselves first. Wizards. |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Atk1nson(m): 2:02pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
Loveprotocol: Just ignore, it's not every post that merits a reply and you should know why 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by haggai247: 3:32pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
Loveprotocol:you have prayed and God have shown you,other men of God have also confirmed and you are still worried smh and you call yourself a xtian 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 3:39pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
haggai247: There's nothing wrong in seeking others opinions or what do you think? I have handed everything over to God anyway, I know He is a God that does everything perfect in His own time. Thanks all the same 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by confun: 5:20pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Loveprotocol:eh eh eh, see ds man o, tinz are falling in place now,wen everything becomes rossy, he won't remember his nairalanders again o....anyway I foresee a sweet union between both of you.....shalom 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by munezo(m): 11:02pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
She already likes you and is just playing along with the IGG (Initial Gra Gra) principle. I hope you are not too fast to have quickly mentioned marriage to her, because you are supposed to consider a lot of things before you say the mega magic word to her. All the same, keep her on your trail, go see her and get words out if her mouth because you have to know her, very important. All the best 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by munezo(m): 11:30pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Oga Loveprotocol, Sometimes this is not the best place to get counsel. I have read comments and I am really disturbed. As far as I am concerned, you have seen your wife. I assure you she loves you more than you love her, her friend already confirmed that to you. She is only taking her time because of her past hurt. Please stay with her and assure her with whatever means you can, that she is yours. Please do not be disheartened by some replies you got here, she is your wife, don't brood over some bad belle comments here, I beg you. Stay with her. Sometimes, this is not the best place to get sound counsel, I tell you. Please, I say it again, stay with her. She wants you to prove yourself beyond every reasonable doubt. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by doveweed(m): 12:47am On Nov 04, 2016 |
munezo: Op listen to this advice. It's spot on. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 12:51am On Nov 04, 2016 |
confun: You're funny bro. Thanks for your advice 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by automatix: 10:56pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
Loveprotocol:what is the update? |
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