I don't know how to start buh lemme start anywhere sha.
Am 19 years old, a virgin. I started dating @ d age of 17. I left my first BF cos of sex issues.
I decided to stay single until am ready for sex buh I met anoda guy last year around August, he asked me out, i fell in love with him n we started dating. all through our relationship, we did every thing except sex. He doesn't complain actually lyk dat, he told me he loves me not becos of Sex, he can b patient with me till am ready.
So yesterday, I went to his place n after a while, he asked me "How long are we going to continue lyk this" (talking abt romance without sex). He told me all sort of things ranging from how much he loves me to how he might cheat on me n look elsewhere if I continue treating him lyk dis since "he sef b human being". I actually broke up yesterday cos of dat statement cos I cnt share my Man with anybody. Buh he later begged n said it was a joke, even @dat, I still broke up.
Seriously, I understand him, I feel for him, I would love to give him my virginity buh am scared of Sex. am circumcised n scared I won't enjoy it n he won't enjoy me too. I don't want to b used n dumped. (truth is, I don't always enjoy pre-intimacy, most times, I fake my Moans anytime we did it cos I don't want him to feel less of a man or see me as a stick)
Now,
Since yesterday, I cnt stop thinking abh him.
I love dis guy soo much n he has become a part of me. Dunno if I should just let him go or call him n tell him am sorry.
I always come here as a guest buh today, I joined dis forum cos of this issue.
Plz nairalanders, wat do u advise I do

Buy a cucumber

Justycxx:
Buy a cucumber

how can a virgin use cucumber? plz use ur brain

mehn guys are trying

2dice01:
mehn guys are trying

how? I don't understand

Let him go others will come, wait till you are ready to lose it then go into a reLationship

Faking moans, pre-intimacy...virgin kwa!.

BeautyBaebee:

how can a virgin use cucumber? plz use ur brain

corrupt mind, you can eat the cucumber with groundnut

Justycxx:
Buy a cucumber

Lol.
Maybe you missed the part where she said she is circumcised. Her sexual needs is compressed, so no need for a cucumber.

The way I run from circumcised women eh.

Benita27:
Faking moans, pre-intimacy...virgin kwa!.

you were never a virgin , original tokumbo like you , how you go understand

Justycxx:
corrupt mind, you can eat the cucumber with groundnut

lolz. I tot it's d other way round. d Miss Anambra type of Cucumber.
hahahaha!!! tnx 4 making me laf

judeefcc:
you were never a virgin , original tokumbo like you , how you go understand

Male Olosho!, who gave you an invite?.

judeefcc:

Let him go others will come, wait till you are ready to lose it then go into a reLationship

others sef fit bad pass d guy....

Obembem:
judeefcc:

Let him go others will come, wait till you are ready to lose it then go into a reLationship

others sef fit bad pass d guy....

boss the guy go cheat , me and you know lol, I no sabi deceive person for this kind matter

Benita27:
Male Olosho!, who gave you an invite?.

for fine girls not ur type

judeefcc:
Let him go others will come, wait till you are ready to lose it then go into a reLationship

I always feel lyk am ready buh just @d last minute, I get scared

BeautyBaebee:

I always feel lyk am ready buh just @d last minute, I get scared

you have to let go since you are not ready cause he will cheat and the pain will be worst

judeefcc:
for fine girls not ur type

See your cheap wears, dirty boy...whoever told you you're fine was mocking you.

Fyne dudes don't announce their looks, broke ugly attention seekers do.

I am inflatable, so can't be your type.

Just give it a shot. You never can tell, and going by your post, losing your virginity at this stage isn't gonna be big an issue for you. You're jes scared of making him feel like an 'underperformer' give it to him anyways, you're pretty good at faking moans after all

Benita27:

See your cheap wears, dirty boy...whoever told you you're fine was mocking you.

Fyne dudes don't announce their looks, broke ugly attention seekers do.

I am inflatable, so can't be your type.

who dey give you hope? I will show my gf your pix 2moro lie that you approached me , snap her insults and open thread

BeautyBaebee:

I always feel lyk am ready buh just @d last minute, I get scared

gal if you wan bleep,bleep and get it over with...then you'll have rest of mind

judeefcc:

boss the guy go cheat , me and you know lol, I no sabi deceive person for this kind matter

lolz....oshamo

judeefcc:
who dey give you hope? I will show my gf your pix 2moro lie that you approached me , snap her insults and open thread

Your girlfriend?, The silly thing you're fooling will have guts to insult someone.

I wish i knew her, just give her my nairaland moniker, she should come and insult me here, or better still give me her contact.

Ode!,

To give birth to girl dey fear me

Benita27 and Judeefcc. plz u guys should not quarell o. I opened a thread for advice not a boxing ring.
thanks

BeautyBaebee:
I don't know how to start buh lemme start anywhere sha.
Am 19 years old, a virgin. I started dating @ d age of 17. I left my first BF cos of sex issues.
I decided to stay single until am ready for sex buh I met anoda guy last year around August, he asked me out, i fell in love with him n we started dating. all through our relationship, we did every thing except sex. He doesn't complain actually lyk dat, he told me he loves me not becos of Sex, he can b patient with me till am ready.
So yesterday, I went to his place n after a while, he asked me "How long are we going to continue lyk this" (talking abt romance without sex). He told me all sort of things ranging from how much he loves me to how he might cheat on me n look elsewhere if I continue treating him lyk dis since "he sef b human being". I actually broke up yesterday cos of dat statement cos I cnt share my Man with anybody. Buh he later begged n said it was a joke, even @dat, I still broke up.
Seriously, I understand him, I feel for him, I would love to give him my virginity buh am scared of Sex. am circumcised n scared I won't enjoy it n he won't enjoy me too. I don't want to b used n dumped. (truth is, I don't always enjoy pre-intimacy, most times, I fake my Moans anytime we did it cos I don't want him to feel less of a man or see me as a stick)
Now,
Since yesterday, I cnt stop thinking abh him.
I love dis guy soo much n he has become a part of me. Dunno if I should just let him go or call him n tell him am sorry.
I always come here as a guest buh today, I joined dis forum cos of this issue.
Plz nairalanders, wat do u advise I do

I honestly appreciate your sanity and right thinking.
I totally understand the circumcision part too.
I have dated someone like that and I tell you this guy would bounce too because I'm guessing he is young.

While you think your circumcision can be a problem, remember love conquers.
Wait till you are married but try to marry early too if you can. Endeavor to tell the man you want to marry about it.

Trust me I have first hand experience and I don't want you to get to a point where this thing becomes a huge mental and sexual problem for you.

BeautyBaebee:
I don't know how to start buh lemme start anywhere sha.
Am 19 years old, a virgin. I started dating @ d age of 17. I left my first BF cos of sex issues.
I decided to stay single until am ready for sex buh I met anoda guy last year around August, he asked me out, i fell in love with him n we started dating. all through our relationship, we did every thing except sex. He doesn't complain actually lyk dat, he told me he loves me not becos of Sex, he can b patient with me till am ready.
So yesterday, I went to his place n after a while, he asked me "How long are we going to continue lyk this" (talking abt romance without sex). He told me all sort of things ranging from how much he loves me to how he might cheat on me n look elsewhere if I continue treating him lyk dis since "he sef b human being". I actually broke up yesterday cos of dat statement cos I cnt share my Man with anybody. Buh he later begged n said it was a joke, even @dat, I still broke up.
Seriously, I understand him, I feel for him, I would love to give him my virginity buh am scared of Sex. am circumcised n scared I won't enjoy it n he won't enjoy me too. I don't want to b used n dumped. (truth is, I don't always enjoy pre-intimacy, most times, I fake my Moans anytime we did it cos I don't want him to feel less of a man or see me as a stick)
Now,
Since yesterday, I cnt stop thinking abh him.
I love dis guy soo much n he has become a part of me. Dunno if I should just let him go or call him n tell him am sorry.
I always come here as a guest buh today, I joined dis forum cos of this issue.
Plz nairalanders, wat do u advise I do

You said you love him, so why fight it? Besides there's nothing bad in losing your virginity at your age just give it to him and with time you guys will get to enjoy each other.......... And if you are scared of him using dump you, let go of him, wait for the guy you're sure will stay with you till Jesus come..

nmreports:


I honestly appreciate your sanity and right thinking.
I totally understand the circumcision part too.
I have dated someone like that and I tell you this guy would bounce too because I'm guessing he is young.

While you think your circumcision can be a problem, remember love conquers.
Wait till you are married but try to marry early too if you can. Endeavor to tell the man you want to marry about it.

Trust me I have first hand experience and I don't want you to get to a point where this thing becomes a huge mental and sexual problem for you.

tnx soo much dear 4 dis advice, I appreciate. Yea, I promise to tell whoever am going to marry abt it

iamharkinwaley:

You said you love him, so why fight it? Besides there's nothing bad in losing your virginity at your age just give it to him and with time you guys will get to enjoy each other.......... And if you are scared of him using dump you, let go of him, wait for the guy you're sure will stay with you till Jesus come..

hmmmm. till Jesus comes?

Nawaoo! How does a virgin knows all these?
You know you are not going to enjoy the sex.
Like seriously? How do you know that miss virgin?
You fake moans. Are you fvcking kidding?
What do we call this version of virginity?
You aff spoilt miss v

He did not notice you were circumcised? Or did he not get to see things down there? If you start with deception it's very difficult to be honest later on. Females feel pleasure inside as well as outside their privates. You will feel more from the inside but that is not an option for you. The problem here has been all this playing at sex with no actual sex , he is human. Men don't switch off and on like engines. If it's on it can stay on simply by thinking. You need to ask yourself what would happen if you get married and the guy finds out about your situation after the fact? It's not fair on him.