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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Livefreeordieha(m): 8:46am On Nov 03, 2016
lol..oga warder ..so who made buying of condoms a man's role?abeg b4 its too late evaporate that poo from your brains..get flexible ,emancipate to the new world b4 u regret it..get hooked up with other things release ursef of some burdens..let the women around u feel free and safe..it doesnt mean they will disregard u or undermine your authority..can u imagine the comments am reading here from people juz cuz of who to buy condom or notordinary condom??chai nja is really an ape nation technically shocked shocked shocked
truthsayer007:


A woman that has condom in her bag is a prostitute, You have heard it !

Let your BF go and get condoms anytime you both are together, If he can't get it, thats he's business.

Allow him to play his role as a man.

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Youngpo413: 8:48am On Nov 03, 2016
2dugged:
The truth is if as a lady, you intend to have a serious relationship with a guy, don't ever carry a condom to his house, forget all this guys saying it's cool, you will only be sending the wrong signal, and if he doesn't have a condom, stand your ground and insist he gets one, and if he doesn't, close your legs, that will earn you more respect than bringing out one from your bag
ladies hates condoms, she will be more than glad if he has none, so she won't dare close her legs....forget the initial gra gra.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by danbrowndmf(m): 8:52am On Nov 03, 2016
wendycindy:
Have small sense na, it will help u a lot o
if to say u get small sense i for beg you small but you sef nor get grin
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Nobody: 8:56am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


when did buying condom become the role of a man? Like I have been saying since, as an adult I am responsible for my sexual health and keeping a condom ensures I protect myself always. The bolded is your opinion and you are entitled to it but that does not make it right.

My point is how would you feel if i go on a date with you for the first time & a condom falls out of your bag undecided

It may not mean you are a prostitute, but people will see you that way. This is Nigeria not yankee. Our moral standards are different.

Its just like when i'm introducing you to my parent for the first time, you are expected to dress modestly, you can't be putting on a Mini, else my mum might start seeing you as a wayward girl. not because you are actually wayward.

I hope you understand what i mean ?
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Livefreeordieha(m): 9:00am On Nov 03, 2016
my dear am a guy but i bet u am more irritated ...livefreeordiehard..people should get real..people bother about unnecessary things and wan.k over other people's biz..like this chidinma and buhari other room talk..this nonsense am reading here is a direct product of nigerian mindsets and its no better than wat chidinma or buhari did.am not a fan of ignorant and hypocritical people as a matter of fact they turn me off..fake life everywhere so u rather phuck without condom and face dire consequences cuz she is the one who brought the condom?or cuz u cant allow her to go and buyi smell dooms day lies..and to all the girls forming lux even if we know u are soda keep deceiving ursef dont go and buy condoms and carry..when u carry STDS and belle now..u go dey ask i thot u love meby then u will sabi dat salutation is not love..must i marry or love everyone i sleep with.dont ruin your life cuz of wat people will say protect ur life..your life has a purpose..and i dont think one of it is to die cuz of ignorance and timidity.
mizthorlu:


as in, comment here makes me wanna puke.
we need to lecture some of this old babies.
women are suffering in the hands of women and men in this part of the world.

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:05am On Nov 03, 2016
truthsayer007:


My point is how would you feel if i go on a date with you for the first time & a condom falls out of your bag undecided

It may not mean you are a prostitute, but people will see you that way. This is Nigeria not yankee. Our moral standards are different.

Its just like when i'm introducing you to my parent for the first time, you are expected to dress modestly, you can't be putting on a Mini, else my mum might start seeing you as a wayward girl. not because you are actually wayward.

I hope you understand what i mean ?

I understand what you mean totally but i'm trying to let Nigerians know that it is a wrong mentality. Honestly, I have learnt not to conform myself to society and do what is right for me. If a condom falls out of my bag I will pick it up and keep doing what I was doing, I don't care what pple will say or how they will see me. Nigerians are too judgemental and it is not right. That's why pple can't speak up about things that matter cos they are worried about what society will say. Sex is natural, it happens but it is a forbidden topic, you are supposed to whisper when talking about it, parents don't educate their kids on safe sex cos it's a taboo and these kids learn it from the wrong source and get into problems. We need to get rid of this holier than thou attitude and be bold enough to talk about these things.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by NIFEMMY002(m): 9:10am On Nov 03, 2016
gen2briz:
For wat
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Youngpo413: 9:11am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


my dear, I tire for the comments here. people saying that any woman that has condoms in her bag is a prostitute, someone that is sexually active and wants to look after her health is a prostitute and it's so called adults saying this. If this lady gets pregnant out of wedlock, this same idi.ots will say why didn't she protect herself?
these so-called adults, why can't they just get married and settle down instead of jumping from one dick to another.

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Youngpo413: 9:14am On Nov 03, 2016
emynike2001:
God BLESS U, your are a WISE MAN. imagine those ladies despirate to hang their troubles on your head they can compromise d condom so that it will lick even when they knew u are Not d father of d child, if u are Not too careful they will be a liability to u.
all of them are liabilities.

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:17am On Nov 03, 2016
Youngpo413:
these so-called adults, why can't they just get married and settle down instead of jumping from one dick to another.

Marriage is not just about sex, it comes with a lots of responsibilities physically, mentally, financially and otherwise which some pple are not ready for, hence it is better you have safe sex until one is ready for marriage.
P.S: Pls don't quote the bible or quran to me about pre-marital sex being a sin, this is my opinion. If you must have pre-marital sex be safe.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Nobody: 9:20am On Nov 03, 2016
What's wrong with a lady having condoms in their handbags? I don't want to be caught offguard when a hottie comes along. You never can tell. Konji is a bastard. grin

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by ayamprecious: 9:28am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


Young man/woman you 1st called me a slut cos I disagreed with your opinion that's why I said you should grow up, but I see common sense is indeed not common to everyone.


Y did you have to tell iaminspired to carry his holier than thou attitude somewhere else unfortunately you just insulted me with that because that acct belongs to me
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by anigbajumo(m): 9:29am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


when did buying condom become the role of a man? Like I have been saying since, as an adult I am responsible for my sexual health and keeping a condom ensures I protect myself always. The bolded is your opinion and you are entitled to it but that does not make it right.

Lol,I don't even knw wat to say.This is coming from you I can't bliv. undecided undecided
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by niyi123: 9:30am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


Including guys right??

Are you trying to justify that because anything like this you people will always want to drag the guys to it, the question is centered on ladies.
Why should a reasonable girl be moving around with cd if not a low life fellow and sluts.

Moreso, a responsible guy will not do that....
There is more to life than carrying cd up and down.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Youngpo413: 9:31am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


Marriage is not just about sex, it comes with a lots of responsibilities physically, mentally, financially and otherwise which some pple are not ready for, hence it is better you have safe sex until one is ready for marriage.
P.S: Pls don't quote the bible or quran to me about pre-marital sex being a sin, this is my opinion. If you must have pre-marital sex be safe.
they are not adults then.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:31am On Nov 03, 2016
anigbajumo:


Lol,I don't even knw wat to say.This is coming from you I can't bliv. undecided undecided
.

You better believe, I don't pretend. I am very factual about life, sex happens, it's natural and it's only reasonable to be safe
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:32am On Nov 03, 2016
Youngpo413:
they are not adults then.

So your definition of an adult is someone who is married

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:33am On Nov 03, 2016
ayamprecious:



Y did you have to tell iaminspired to carry his holier than thou attitude somewhere else unfortunately you just insulted me with that because that acct belongs to me

Young man/woman. I have had enough of your tantrums pls, have a nice day.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:36am On Nov 03, 2016
niyi123:


Are you trying to justify that because anything like this you people will always want to drag the guys to it, the question is centered on ladies.
Why should a reasonable girl be moving around with cd if not a low life fellow and sluts.

Moreso, a responsible guy will not do that....
There is more to life than carrying cd up and down.

Well, your opinion, you are entitled to it as I am entitled to mine.At the bolded, a reasonable girl will have condoms in her bag cos she knows her sexual well being is her responsibility as long as she is sexually active. Judge pple that have condoms in their bag if you like, it won't take or remove anything from them. I believe pple should do what is right for them as long as they are not hurting anybody. Anybody can have an opinion, does not mean they are right.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Youngpo413: 9:37am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


So your definition of an adult is someone who is married
adults should be able to face the responsibilities that comes with marriage, not just jumping from one dick to another all in the name of relationship.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:40am On Nov 03, 2016
Youngpo413:
adults should be able to face the responsibilities that comes with marriage, not just jumping from one dick to another all in the name of relationship.

Marriage is not compulsory you know and it's not for everyone. Sex is natural, live and let live.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Youngpo413: 9:44am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


Marriage is not compulsory you know and it's not for everyone. Sex is natural, live and let live.
lol, you win, have nice day.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:45am On Nov 03, 2016
Youngpo413:
lol, you win, have nice day.

lol, have a nice day too smiley
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by anigbajumo(m): 9:47am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:
.

You better believe, I don't pretend. I am very factual about life, sex happens, it's natural and it's only reasonable to be safe



I knw you don't always pretend but sincerely u are intelligent than this comment am seeing from u here or it is me nd the other guy that doesn't gat it right?? I don't think so,Directly or indirectly u are telling us here that it is normal coz sex is natural,it doesn't show any iota of decency or whatsoever if anybody caught you with that even in the eyes of some female colleagues.If not a LovePeddler,why will a lady should be carrying condom,it means u are not sincere with ur man or u see it as a profession.It has nothing with my mentality is just a basic fact....

Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 9:52am On Nov 03, 2016
anigbajumo:




I knw you don't always pretend but sincerely u are intelligent than this comment am seeing from u here or it is me nd the other guy that doesn't gat it right?? I don't think so,Directly or indirectly u are telling us here that it is normal coz sex is natural,it doesn't show any iota of decency or whatsoever if anybody caught you with that even in the eyes of some female colleagues.If not a LovePeddler,why will a lady should be carrying condom,it means u are not sincere with ur man or u see it as a profession.[b]It has nothing with my mentality is just a basic fact....

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Sorry to bust your bubble, but it has everything to do with your mentality. Who says having a condom in your bag means you have multiple sex partners Yes sex is normal for adults cos it's natural, let's stop pretending pls and I don't care what pple or so called female colleagues think of me, the reason why we should have condom handy is to have safe sex always. If your partner does not have it at that time, you should have it so there will be no excuse for having unsafe sex.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by EMIOMOADEOYE: 9:57am On Nov 03, 2016
The only reason I would carry a condom is that I expect to have sex with someone on that very day or at least sometime very soon. An I am not even a lady.

So if a lady does that, it means she plans to have sex with someone. A condom is not an "in case of incasity" item. Its an item that is meant to be used, planned to be used.
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by niyi123: 10:03am On Nov 03, 2016
awakeuche:
Babes with very active boyfriends should always carry condom to limit the possibilities of unwanted pregnancies...... My babe always carries one around and frankly it never bothers me

It will not bother you now, she is just your sex slave that you wont end up marrying her.

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Nobody: 10:05am On Nov 03, 2016
Youngpo413:
ladies hates condoms, she will be more than glad if he has none, so she won't dare close her legs....forget the initial gra gra.
And just how many ladies have you met to come to that kind of conclusion that all ladies hate condoms?
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by Nobody: 10:05am On Nov 03, 2016
niyi123:


It will not bother you now, she is just your sex slave that you wont end up marrying her.
That just went from 0-100 real quick!
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by ajokeade920: 10:05am On Nov 03, 2016
summerflame:
. I checked your dp and can see that u are still a minor.. There is a big deal in that unless if that was how your sister trained u. U are still in secondary school right?.. Don't waste your free etisalat 10mb contributing to the topics that belongs to the elders and matured minds. Your mates are in education section of nairaland
My view ,Your headache. tongue

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Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by ayamprecious: 10:06am On Nov 03, 2016
uzolexis:


Young man/woman. I have had enough of your tantrums pls, have a nice day.


I warned you...

You shouldn't have quoted me.....

Sore loser
Re: Is It Ok For Ladies To Carry Condoms In Their Bags? by uzolexis(f): 10:08am On Nov 03, 2016
ayamprecious:



I warned you...

You shouldn't have quoted me.....

Sore loser

We are not competing my dear, I would be insulting myself to stoop low to your standards and compete with you. Now run along child, it's past your bedtime.

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