AfonjaStinks:


Are you trying to say that a woman should get married to a financially independent man while she's still financially unstable ??

kazyhm:


"cater" should mean providing basic needs not expecting an outrageous lifestyle

you people don't even want understand anything apart from spending more

in facts, any event that didn't require spending "money" is not romantic



the funniest is if a gal knows you have money and you refuse to spend at a particular time/event for whatever reason(s) you become irritating instantly

dollyjoy:
That is a total ball game!

kazyhm:


just why I won't be performing a husband duties when we are still boy friend/gal friend

AfonjaStinks:


That's what your brain told you

If you can't find love, try looking for money
Why can't you just go get a job and be able to afford whatever you want ??

I'm very sorry for your parents, what have they done to deserve this intelligent lovely girl like you

Jarizod:


this meme is for u swiri

To y'all Ladies.. It's really good for you to marry someone that is loaded.. Personally I won't even let my sister marry someone that isn't "comfortable" to an extent** But still for goodness sake Why don't u also work on yourself A career or sum'n!!??

These days some (not all ooo) ladies just look for already made men...((reason they almost wait for eternity)) then if they find one they sit down for house all day watching telemundo or making their nails and other irrelevant shit..

Then if the man goes broke..they start crying upandan about the witches using their destiny as tissue paper

Aunty if u had a job at least u'll be able to support ur hubby b4 he gets back on his feet!!!!

#Dontonlyofferpussy
#Dontbealiability!!!

dollyjoy:
YES!

Men are designed to cater for women, deny it all you want but that is the honest truth, a Man that cannot cater and provide for his family shouldn't be thinking of getting married.


BTW, i don't understand why some of you ladies form saint online even when the truth is staring clear at your face, if you are not working yet but dating someone who is working, dump him and go for your class. After all, in your "world" a woman who is not working shouldn't get married..

Toks2008:
Ok it is no longer news that some ladies can sell themselves for money and when they do, they always hide under the umbrella that they are in love with the said rich guy even if he is the exact opposite of what they want in the real sense.

Most women want to marry a rich guy or "financially ok" guy and i honestly do not see any biggy in that but i would like to ask some ladies who have made it a do or die affair to be with a rich guy this questions;

1.What if you marry a rich guy and he becomes very broke after marriage, would you leave him or stay with him?

2.

dollyjoy:
YES!

Men are designed to cater for women, deny it all you want but that is the honest truth, a Man that cannot cater and provide for his family shouldn't be thinking of getting married.


BTW, i don't understand why some of you ladies form saint online even when the truth is staring clear at your face, if you are not working yet but dating someone who is working, dump him and go for your class. After all, in your "world" a woman who is not working shouldn't get married..

Complain left,right,and center,yet men are marrying women every Saturday.


Its yet another Saturday,y'all broke things should work your ass off and get paid,No woman is gonna settle for your rat ass confused people.






Quote me,ko gba ke

AfonjaStinks:


Are you trying to say that a woman should get married to a financially independent man while she's still financially unstable ??

Swissheart:
The thing is.... It is not a sin to desire a man who can provide for his household (wife) financially, materially, emotionally,spiritually and all the 'lly' you can imagine. The bible supports it. However, it becomes dangerous and stupid to place the financial capability of a man above all other criteria for marriage.
To your question....... If an unwise girl marries an affluent man who couldn't decode a good woman from a LovePeddler,it becomes their problem, their headache... their pot of soup. He has no right to report. God is not even interested.
Our fair weather Sis won't find life funny too. She'll pay. Yeah...somehow She will. Posterity won't forgive her either.

icedbeatz:
Pls what are women designed to do for men?

AfonjaStinks:


Who designed men to Carter for women ??

Please mention me whenever she replies.

Viking007:
Please mention me whenever she replies.

AfonjaStinks:


She's not smart enough to come up with an answer

and she was so serious typing those epistles, only to end up making zero sense.

kazyhm:


"cater" should mean providing basic needs not expecting an outrageous lifestyle

you people don't even want to understand anything apart from spending more

in facts, any event that didn't require spending "money" is not romantic



the funniest is if a gal knows you have money and you refuse to spend at a particular time/event for whatever reason(s) you become irritating instantly

bitchcrafts:
Nonsense talk jarey. So because he is rich, that automatically disqualifies him from possessing some other desirable qualities right. Oh boy! Go sit yo ass down somewhere and start ruminating on how to make this money. Owo ni koko! Self pity is the last thing I wanna hear tonight, if she left u cos u ain't got the doe to go, let your pains motivate u. Dalu!

McBrooklyn:
I felt like crying this morning when a lady was telling a handicap in my presence that he is very romantic and walks in a sexy manner, all because the dude was about to use an ATM machine


I swear some girls will not just die, but they will just disappear

Toks2008:


I like your intelligence

Toks2008:
In my world,being "rich" is relative and i also believe that any responsible and reasonable lady will understand the need to work hard and become financially independent so that she can be with a man for the right reasons and will not really make it a do or die affair to be with a rich guy but with one who has the zeal and drive to make wealth regardless of his present financial status hence, any lady who has made it a must to marry a rich guy is a hopeless leech even if she is also rich..Believe it or not,in this present day,a lady who is not also financially independent has no business going into marriage just to be a liability to the man.

Nevertheless, there are still some ladies who are hell bent on marrying a "rich" guy and would make it a do or die affair so i would like to ask such ladies this very innocuous question.

What if you marry a rich guy and he becomes very broke after marriage, would you leave or stay with him?

Toks2008:
In my world,being "rich" is relative and i also believe that any responsible and reasonable lady will understand the need to work hard and become financially independent so that she can be with a man for the right reasons and will not really make it a do or die affair to be with a rich guy but with one who has the zeal and drive to make wealth regardless of his present financial status hence, any lady who has made it a must to marry a rich guy is a hopeless leech even if she is also rich..Believe it or not,in this present day,a lady who is not also financially independent has no business going into marriage just to be a liability to the man.

Nevertheless, there are still some ladies who are hell bent on marrying a "rich" guy and would make it a do or die affair so i would like to ask such ladies this very innocuous question.

What if you marry a rich guy and he becomes very broke after marriage, would you leave or stay with him?

skywalker240:
The rate nigerian ladies run after made men is so so alarming.they always despise men with little beginings and so therefore go after rich old men in their 60s...they are the most lazy and most selfish creatures even when a struggling guy who have ambitions comes they brush him aside they are only concerned about the present. They would spend 24 hours of the day watching Z world and telemundo and spend eternity on social media posting pics,gossiping and looking at celebrities and then one mugu comes and take them to a fast food joint and you see her ordering large and enourmous quantity of what she has not and will never be previllaged to taste in her fathers house. A typical nigerian girl would see you today if you are broke or struggling and vow never to touch you even if it means their life, but these same idiots will eat their words and run after you when you become made....

FEAR GOD, AFTER GOD MY BROTHERS FEAR NIGERIAN LADIES

And as for that girl up there who said

IF U CANT FIND LOVE, FIND HIS MONEY....MTCHWWWW

U BE

amokeme:
You guys should chill in your generalizations please.

dollyjoy:
YES!

Men are designed to cater for women, deny it all you want but that is the honest truth, a Man that cannot cater and provide for his family shouldn't be thinking of getting married.


BTW, i don't understand why some of you ladies form saint online even when the truth is staring clear at your face, if you are not working yet but dating someone who is working, dump him and go for your class. After all, in your "world" a woman who is not working shouldn't get married..

pocohantas:
Before this turns into a case of Nigerian ladies are this and that, let's take a moment to ask how many Nigerian men are actually RICH.

Some people would confuse being financially stable to being rich.

That a woman desires a financially stable man isn't materialism or parasitism. It's nature playing out, it's common sense (in Ben Bruce's voice), it's her being real and pragmatic. Men are natural providers, while women are care-givers.
Twist I any how you want, it is what it is.

I keep seeing people ask this question (what if he goes broke), but in reality what's the actual ratio of men that go 'broke' after marriage to those that get richer. This is just a case of extremes, it doesn't always play out like that.

Now for those ladies that desire a man all because of money, it isn't even the worst thing to happen. We all desire the other for something. The man himself probably wanted a trophy wife...I think that makes them a perfect match. If he isn't discerning enough to know the real from the fake, that's his luck.

You men should be more discerning, don't end up with parasites then come crying and generalizing.
Stop nagging...some men want figure 8, some say it must be a graduate, men have even taken over in the search for financially stable females. We haven't killed them...it's all individual choices. People would keep on marrying for reasons other than love, get used to it.

pocohantas:
Before this turns into a case of Nigerian ladies are this and that, let's take a moment to ask how many Nigerian men are actually RICH.

Some people would confuse being financially stable to being rich.

That a woman desires a financially stable man isn't materialism or parasitism. It's nature playing out, it's common sense (in Ben Bruce's voice), it's her being real and pragmatic. Men are natural providers, while women are care-givers.
Twist it any how you want, it is what it is.

I keep seeing people ask this question (what if he goes broke), but in reality what's the actual ratio of men that go 'broke' after marriage to those that get richer. This is just a case of extremes, it doesn't always play out like that.

Now for those ladies that desire a man all because of money, it isn't even the worst thing to happen. We all desire the other for something. The man himself probably wanted a trophy wife...I think that makes them a perfect match. If he isn't discerning enough to know the real from the fake, that's his luck.

You men should be more discerning, don't end up with parasites then come crying and generalizing.
Stop nagging...some men want figure 8, some say it must be a graduate, men have even taken over in the search for financially stable females. We haven't killed them...it's all individual choices. People would keep on marrying for reasons other than love, get used to it.

Toks2008:


You know what amazes me most about some posters on nairaland?

They are not intelligent enough to address the subject but rather the poster.

Did I write about me? HE'LL NO...

Please receive common sense abeg..I'm a freelancer and a very creative one at that so don't ever make the mistake of juxtaposing my write ups with my person and in fact you deserve an e-slap.

sparkleRed:
But it is nt a crime to go where rich pple re and marry for love