Benita27:
You just sounded like l.ezz, is this an alternate?, and with those words you could win an angel over.

I would have bet you could smell me a thousand miles away.

It took you time but you did eventually. I consider it a failure personally when I don't brand an intelligent girl mine.

I have watched from my cold virtual cell of incarceration. Waiting until you come within contact, and only intelligent discuss can pull you over.

Berbierklaus:
[b]You have to be more open minded OP,this is 21st century and 2016,there is no "shock" if a girl dates as many guys as possible until she meets the right one,because in this century,there is nothing a man is entitled to that a woman is not allowed to. The world has evolved from dictating what a girl should do or not do to her simply because a has a Vjay or a weaker sex.


Personally though,I believe anybody,(both boy and girl,gender segregation is a great sin to me) should think well and get to know their partners before dating, and If it's not working out,they can easily end it,Dating is just trial and error,until you are satisfied with the one that you can cope/tolerate/love for a very long time.Which is why in marriage there is no going back,the first question any sane person will ask when marriage blues start and a couple complains is "did you court your partner?"

There is nothing like what a girl is "supposed to" that is a very sexist statement. She is a human being with the brains to think for herself not a piece of property,if you think her ideas is a mistake,let her make her own mistakes.
So Safarigirl, a girl should date as much as possible while considering her best option.

PS:Even If it involves sleeping with them all,she owns her body,The world has evolved beyond judging "girls" or boys with what they use their own body for[/b]

I cuncur

BloodOnMyHands:
I would have bet you could smell me a thousand miles away.

It took you time but you did eventually. I consider it a failure personally when I don't brand an intelligent girl mine.

I have watched from my cold virtual cell of incarceration. Waiting until you come within contact, and only intelligent discuss can pull you over.

You're a limited edition here, so could easily notice your write-up.
You never get tired of being incarcerated, like peak...it's in you!.

Dnt misunderstand me @ finalboss1


M sorry tho

sinaj:
Dnt misunderstand me @ finalboss1

M sorry tho

no problem,i understand..

Benita27:
You're a limited edition here, so could easily notice your write-up.
You never get tired of being incarcerated, like peak...it's in you!.

A number of mods consider me their favourite outlaw. I can leave with that.

What's unbearable is never having heard your voice.

BloodOnMyHands:
A number of mods consider me their favourite outlaw. I can leave with that.

What's unbearable is never having heard your voice.

Of course, when you don't give a damn about the rules, they won't mind reminding you with a long ban.

Berbierklaus:

This is not a matter if feminist or not.

And right here and now,I am not copying western cultures,I am only saying what should be fair to me as a girl.

A girl should not be compelled to stay in a loveless,nonfunctional or even violent relationship,because there is a limit she can go with the number of men she has been with. that's hogwash.

A girl should not remain single and forfeit her happiness because the society has given her the grace to be with a certain number of guys,that's another hogwash there.


PS:I am perplexed and shocked that you could go so low,then again,we are humans,we don't stop surprising ourselves

I am with you on this.
There should not be a Limit to the number of men that a girl should date before marriage.
Every one should have as many partner as they want Irrespective of the gender. What every reason they Chose to date that person becomes their business.

Benita27:
Of course, when you don't give a damn about the rules, they won't mind reminding you with a long ban.

Lolz, yet 6 months for rule 2 is flattering. Maybe they calculate my jail time with the scourge of my diatribe or it's something personal. Either way, I care less.

The virtual world holds its importance for me because of the people I find here and you have broken many stereotype I have long held about females. Don't get me wrong , you're no saint ,but you're rare in many ways.

BloodOnMyHands:
Lolz, yet 6 months for rule 2 is flattering. Maybe they calculate my jail time with the scourge of my diatribe or it's something personal. Either way, I care less.

The virtual world holds its importance for me because of the people I find here and you have broken many stereotype I have long held about females. Don't get me wrong , you're no saint ,but you're rare in many ways.

6 months for rule 2, that's much...you must have had a misunderstanding with the mod cos it's vindictive...was complaining of the two months i got.

Yeah!, ain't a saint...hope i haven't given anyone such impressions?.

Benita27:
6 months for rule 2, that's much...you must have had a misunderstanding with the mod cos it's vindictive...was complaining of the two months i got.

Yeah!, ain't a saint...hope i haven't given anyone such impressions?.

Maybe I trolled a mod's alternate or took his girlfriend.

You don't come off as a saint, if you did, I won't be crowding you . You're balanced like the right blend of maggie and salt in a tomato stew

BloodOnMyHands:
Maybe I trolled a mod's alternate or took his girlfriend.

You don't come off as a saint, if you did, I won't be crowding you . You're balanced like the right blend of maggie and salt in a tomato stew

"Different strokes for different folks"...to another here "I act like a saint or i'm fake". but, i don't say stuffs to please people, unfortunately some are keeping tabs on you while you know nothing of their whole existence here...so funny of how petty some peeps could be.

BloodOnMyHands:
A number of mods consider me their favourite outlaw. I can leave with that.

What's unbearable is never having heard your voice.

oga toast woman its live with that not leave , myndd44 lezz spotted

BloodOnMyHands:


No matter the swing of conventions and societal adaptation, body count matters for girls.

A girl's ability to bound with her husband, should she marry, is directly influenced by how many, and the number of men who has fücked her in the past.

It is inbuilt and codified in their DNA by evolution. Education and 'civilisation' may give girls liberty but biology never lies.

I've been viewing some of the stertorous comments here but this is a meticulous master piece that posits the very fact of this argument. Not some odalisque showing their faulty ludicrous reasoning.

Thumbs up bro!

I don't know

KissChrix:
Some ladies find their guy at the first try ,so it's not about numbers

exactly

safarigirl:


Ten guys before marriage is not you being liberated, it's you seeking validation from men or having daddy issues so you need a man in your life.


My dear, you're not more feminist than I am, but the sad truth most feminists fail to realise it that both genders have different genetic make-up. Hence, the rule of "see them as equals" will never apply. What Paul can do with zero attachments, Paula can't do in same manner.

I started this because women are much more guided in their choice of partners, they are analytical, not spontaneous. They NATURALLY do not just jump into bed or relationships with anyone because they feel like it, that's what men do.


Women do not see relationships as some free-for-all candy store you can just walk into and pick the flavour of your choice, no, they think of feelings and emotions and if you think your heart can pass through 10 men before you land a husband, then your poor husband will end up being your therapist


Even Chimamanda would wonder about a woman going through men like a pack of cards. It's not normal

Let me buy you lunch for this reasonable post.

Berbierklaus:

This is not a matter if feminist or not.

And right here and now,I am not copying western cultures,I am only saying what should be fair to me as a girl.

A girl should not be compelled to stay in a loveless,nonfunctional or even violent relationship,because there is a limit she can go with the number of men she has been with. that's hogwash.

A girl should not remain single and forfeit her happiness because the society has given her the grace to be with a certain number of guys,that's another hogwash there.


PS:I am perplexed and shocked that you could go so low,then again,we are humans,we don't stop surprising ourselves

You can practice what you just wrote but don't sing it for every girl to copy.

Left to people like you, there wouldn't be moral standards.

judeefcc:
oga toast woman its live with that not leave , myndd44 lezz spotted

And what evil spirit lurks and hovers in my cyber stratosphere?

You're deluded, son and your assumptions only exist in your fantasy.

Myndd44, can you deter this fellow from cyber-stalking me? I planned on having a smooth weekend for me and my swizzle alone.

To start with, the topic says 'date' so i wonder why everyone is assuming every relationship is a sexual one.

That being said, I also have a problem with the word 'supposed' like there should be a standard every lady must conform with and any lady who goes beyond this standard is a LovePeddler who will never find a man to settle with. I personally think the world has moved past all these unnecessary standards. There are hundreds of reasons why a lady can date a handful of men before settling down, so who are we to sit behind our computers and dictate what is ideal and what isn't?

Why is it okay for the man to date as many ladies as she wants before he finds the one but judge a woman who does the same.@Op, If the general opinion here is that a lady must not date more than 3 men before settling down, does that mean if you're in your third relationship and there are clear signs that it isn't what you want, you will stay put because you don't want to be judged by people or seen as wayward?

Any lady that allows society dictate to her or set standards for her lacks self love. Because at the end of the day, you alone bear the consequence of your action and in actions. As a human being, you should have your set standards and it sure doesn't have to align with that of the society.

And that is why some ladies will rather tell their men what they want to hear and not the truth when it comes to admitting how many relationships they've been in because they want to appear the way society wants them to. Having failed relationships doesn't necessarily mean one is wayward. It takes two to keep a relationship. So no one should dictate what an adult should do with her life.

That being said promiscuity should be discouraged for both genders. Those proudly admitting they can have sex with random girls wvout being emotionally attached are Jokers. It's nothing to be proud of. STIs are not gender specific and I have zero respect for anyone involved. Nothing is cool about sleeping around whether you're a male or female.

Benita27:

"Different strokes for different folks"...to another here "I act like a saint or i'm fake". but, i don't say stuffs to please people, unfortunately some are keeping tabs on you while you know nothing of their whole existence here...so funny of how petty some peeps could be.

I prefer to consider them as odd admirers for that's what they truly are.

Remember the only prerequisite for NL membership is a phone and internet data.

BloodOnMyHands:
I prefer to consider them as odd admirers for that's what they truly are.

Remember the only prerequisite for NL membership is a phone and internet data.

Sure!.

Benita27:
Sure!.

Benny everywhere I go

your enemies are multiplying daily, I just they laugh una

Maxi112:
Benny everywhere I go


your enemies are multiplying daily, I just they laugh una

What happened?, you've been scarce on whatsapp.

I don't have enemies.

CplusJason:
I've been viewing some of the stertorous comments here but this is a meticulous master piece that posits the very fact of this argument. Not some odalisque showing their faulty ludicrous reasoning.

Thumbs up bro!

Thanks brother. I just stated it as it is.

This is the age of gender equality and "justice" and female "empowerment". A lot of truth has gone under those catchphrases. While frowning at random sex of both sexes, the fact is men and women are wired differently biologically and emotionally.

Women suffer more from past sexual relationships and it isn't entirely down to societal norms or conventions, it is how women are genetically built and made.

And no amount of gender reeducation can change biological truth.

Benita27:
What happened?, you've been scarce on whatsapp.

I don't have enemies.

you don't notice them but I do


I lost my phone, some hooligans attacked me, they made away with some few items along with with me


same day we chatted last

Maxi112:
you don't notice them but I do


I lost my phone, some hooligans attacked me, they made away with some few items along with with me


same day we chatted last

They're inconsequential, and can't add a value to my life so why should i care?.

Sorry about the phone.

Benita27:
They're inconsequential, and can't add a value to my life so why should i care?.

Sorry about the phone.

both of will make a perfect couple in future, I can bet my dry ass to it


yeah, I will be back online soon, waiting for glo to retrieve my line, I went to their office at aba road after GRA bus stop today, they promise to retrieve it in two days time. til then, offline things

Maxi112:
both of will make a perfect couple in future, I can bet my dry ass to it


yeah, I will be back online soon, waiting for glo to retrieve my line, I went to their office at aba road after GRA bus stop today, they promise to retrieve it in two days time. til then, offline things

Why was it not retrieved immediately?.
No p.

Benita27:
Why was it not retrieved immediately?.
No p.

glo with their wahala, my mtn was retrieved few hours late, i made a call with it.

they said is system and network issue, I got tired and left

Gender equality aside, the reality is that there are intrinsic characteristics that each gender desires in the other. That's why no matter how rich or physically powerful an average lady is, she'll still enjoy receiving gifts from her man, and cherish his 'protection'. Same way guys get jealous at the thought of their 'property' being used by another dude, no matter how promiscuous said guy may be. Its all psychological you see. Even in the animal kingdom, females secrete pheromones during mating season to attract males, yet she doesn't jump on every male that comes along. Even after scaring off rival males, the victor still often has to basically force her to comply. I guess females really do lack the philandering gene.

Do ladies even care about the count as far as anything goes? Relationship has become a money making venture to ladies. It is like full time job, an occupation where they earn their living.
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