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How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by Infoparlour: 12:21pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Most of the time, we do not even know how we get into the friend zone because even though we are doing things to prevent us from being zoned, we still end up being zoned some of the time. People try as much as possible not to be friend zoned by the person they like and want to start a relationship with and sometimes people get mixed signals so they actually cannot even figure out if they have been friend zoned or not. It is not only guys that get friend zoned, even ladies get zoned by the man that they like but it is the males who get zoned most of the time and by the time they realize that they have been zoned, they are already deep into the friend zone which make it impossible and late for them to come out of it. If you are one of the people who are confused, here are some of the signs that you are deep in the friend zone. 1. They Will Tell You About People They Like When the person that you like has frequent conversations with you about someone they like and they gush about someone that they like to you, then I’m sorry to inform you but you have been friend zoned. People are only comfortable discussing about people that they like with someone they are not emotionally attached to. It might get worse by asking you what to do, tips on how to act and win the person’s heart. People only have this kind of conversations with friends that they do not plan to have anything else apart from friendship with them. 2. They Are Not Really Conscious When They Are Around You The irony of the matter is, when you meet someone that you like and the person is a potential partner, you will be conscious of the way you act around them because you see a possibility of them being your partner so you do not want to do things that will make them run away from you and as time goes on, you do not have to be conscious around them. But if the person that you like is very comfortable with doing gross or annoying things and they do not put any efforts into their physical appearance, they do not try to look good in your presence especially when you are just meeting them, it means they either do not want you around or they have made up their mind that you are not relationship material, therefore, what you think does not really matter. They do not have any form of attraction towards you and that is why they do not put any efforts into looking good. Friend zone has the attributes of a family member. You do not bother about how you act or what you say and how you look around your family member because you know that they are not going anywhere and it does not really matter what they think right. That is the same way it works in the friend zone, the person is comfortable with telling you anything and acting anyhow. Also, if the person asks you about what to wear on their date and tips on how to behave on their date, you have been zoned. They are asking you for tips because they feel you will understand your gender better and you will be able to give great tips on how to get the person to like them, but you are not that person and they do not see you in that way. 3. They Often Tell You How Great You Are As A Friend If the person you want to be in a relationship with keeps telling you about how an awesome friend you are, how your friendship means so much to them, how you have been really sweet and cute, how you have been a good shoulder to cry on and how they wish that they meet someone like you to start a relationship with because you are a sweet guy and they will want their partner to have your kind of character and how any girl will be very lucky to have you, then you are very deep in the friend zone. You will begin to wonder why they want to be with someone that has similar character as you but they do not want you, this is simply because they don’t just see you as someone they can be romantically and emotionally attached to. Some will even tell you that you are like the big bro or big sis that they never had and that they are glad that they have finally met someone that they can call family, my dear; you are too deep in the zone. 4. They Do Not Have Emotional Conversations with You When they never make sentences or do things that indicate that they will like to have more than friendship with you, it is probably because they don’t. Anytime you want to have emotional conversations with them, they either tell you to postpone the topic, the shrug it off and say thanks or they flare up and say things like they thought you were different from the other people who try to hit on them, then they do not see you as anything more than a friend. If they felt the same way, they will be glad that you are bringing up the topic and their reactions will let you know that you both are on the same page. Note that if as a guy, you have a lady that wants you to follow her everywhere and run errands with her, from the saloon to the grocery store to the boutique to the make up shop etc, it could be that she likes you and always want you around, it could also be that she already see you as a male version of her girlfriend because she is not emotionally attached with you and she only want to do things that she does with her girl friends with you. Am sorry bro, but you have been zoned. Source: http://informationparlour.com/article-dating-relationships-how-know-you-are-the-friendzone You can read other interesting Articles at informationparlour.com 1 Like
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Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by RoyalBlak007: 12:26pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
The dreaded zone.. ..check the "HookerZone" out 1 Like |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by Infoparlour: 12:37pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
which one be hooker zone, u must be a bad boy |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 8:13pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
You must be a very good carpenter cos you really hit the "nail" on its head. I am giving you 13 lbs of muscles for this. Take it.
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Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by daviddagreat: 9:00pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
not really sure wat zone I am ryt Nw buh I love It we beng, she tells me about her boyfriend, crush, and we remain gud friends. its awesome meanwhile
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Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by Infoparlour: 9:54pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES: Lol, you must really be bruce lee's cousin with this your 5.89kg of muscle for one hand |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by Infoparlour: 9:55pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
daviddagreat:ahhhhh..... no be friend zone you dey oooo......ure own nah gigolo zone |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 9:11am On Nov 09, 2016 |
Infoparlour: You need those muscles to keep posting good stuffs on a back to back basis. |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by daviddagreat: 9:21am On Nov 09, 2016 |
Infoparlour: a gigolo receives some sort of financial gratification and I don't plus I have my freedom. well I don't care wat u call it she smoking hot n and am tapping it anytime I want. call it whatever zone you want AM HAVING FUN n dats all dat matter to me ryt nw 1 Like |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by menscareng(m): 9:42am On Nov 09, 2016 |
their are many |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by firstking01(m): 10:49am On Nov 09, 2016 |
How can a full grown guy see all these signs and still don't know he's in the friendzone |
Re: How To Know You Are In The Friendzone by Infoparlour: 7:16pm On Nov 09, 2016 |
daviddagreat: enjoy bro, nah your time firstking01: they believe if they are diligent in the friend zone, they will one day get promoted, what they dont know is that friendzone and lover zone are different carreer, they no resemble |
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