Me too! Older women tend to have an edge over the younglings intellectually, emotionally and most importantly, sexually. They are usually not shy, are way more mature, plus they are hotter and ‘fuller’ than most of these young babes.

They also hardly pester one for money and have better taste.

Try discussing with a 39 year old lady then go discuss with a 22 year old chick and you would marvel at the vast difference. Obviously the former would make for a more deeper and worthwhile conversation.

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Do as you wish, bruv. You need not seek validation or advise from anyone because you are perfectly normal. If fact, you are only ahead of your peers. Your mates would drool in envy when they see you with an older lady. So, stave off the doubts you have about it.

Some younger guys are like the op.
It's funny and weird when I notice younger guys of 20 to 26 saying they are inlove with older ladies in their 30s...
Sorry op, I find it weird
One of my colleague's son, he's in school. 20years old and he's infatuated with me. Cos I can't call his feelings love. He looks at me those teenage lovestruck eyes.. Lol
There was one time, he summoned courage and complimented my looks and outfit. I was like what? I didn't see it coming, then.. And there was a more matured friend of his father next to him that day. His dad's friend just looked at him and was like, wetin carry your eyes go there! See this small boy o..
Lol
The young guy had a defiant look in his eyes and replied back and so? Don't I have eyes? There is nothing wrong in me complimenting her. I felt a bit embarrassed, I then butt in and told the man, he's just like his dad.. His dad likes my outfits to work.. So u shouldn't take it that far.. The dad's friend then said, I will tell your dad when he comes
He replied, tell him nah! What's there.. I just smiled and walked away.. Lol
The young man has shown me all signals, that he's inlove... But Me, I pretend I didn't notice.. Lol
Op, I feel your story.. Lol

It's weird society has issue with a man dating an older woman yet turn a blind eye if the man is in a relationship that can be best be described as borderline peadophilia. Bro if you are into older woman do your thing. You are an adult.

Amelian:
Some younger guys are like the op.
It's funny and weird when I notice younger guys of 20 to 26 saying they are inlove with older ladies in their 30s...
Sorry op, I find it weird

Do you also find it weird that women of 23-24 are dating men in their mid 30s?
What's the difference between the two, or is it a divine mandate that women can date older men but men cannot date older women? That's rather selfish don't you think?

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I say it depends on the nature of the relationship and what your definition of ‘love’ is.

If it's love that leads to marriage then no, I cannot have that for an older woman, but if it's ‘love’ that just means we relate on an intellectual level, do not become emotional encumbrances to each other, and also a share a no-string attached sexual intimacy, then yay, I'm completely game for that.

Does that sound weird too?

One of my colleague's son, he's in school. 20years old and he's infatuated with me. Cos I can't call his feelings love. He looks at me those teenage lovestruck eyes.. Lol
There was one time, he summoned courage and complimented my looks and outfit. I was like what? I didn't see it coming, then.. And there was a more matured friend of his father next to him that day. His dad's friend just looked at him and was like, wetin carry your eyes go there! See this small boy o..
Lol
The young guy had a defiant look in his eyes and replied back and so? Don't I have eyes? There is nothing wrong in me complimenting her. I felt a bit embarrassed, I then butt in and told the man, he's just like his dad.. His dad likes my outfits to work.. So u shouldn't take it that far.. The dad's friend then said, I will tell your dad when he comes
He replied, tell him nah! What's there.. I just smiled and walked away.. Lol
The young man has shown me all signals, that he's inlove... But Me, I pretend I didn't notice.. Lol
Op, I feel your story.. Lol

Infatuation, inveterate leachery, and sexual perverseness over older ladies are a different kettle of fish. That brand of anililagnia seems to be what your colleague's son had for you. Or it could be that he sincerely liked your outfit and you're merely over-thinking things.

Those three that I listed up there are way different from having a harmless attraction toward older women. Which is what I'm sure OP speaks of.

Ask Nick Cannon, older püssies rock.

truthfully, op my last 2 relationships has been with ladies 3 years older than me . they show more love. understanding and care and when you meet the down to earth type will help you sort out ur issues especially character wise without controlling u . I just miss Cynthia . but I am willing to try someone within my bracket now or lower just that I don't even know how they will react when we relate cos they never seem to understand me

KillerPriest:


Do you also find it weird that women of 23-24 are dating men in their mid 30s?
What's the difference between the two, or is it a divine mandate that women can date older men but men cannot date older women? That's rather selfish don't you think?

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I say it depends on the nature of the relationship and what your definition of ‘love’ is.

If it's love that leads to marriage then no, I cannot have that for an older woman, but if it's ‘love’ that just means we relate on an intellectual level, do not become emotional encumbrances to each other, and also a share a no-string attached sexual intimacy, then yay, I'm completely game for that.

Does that sound weird too?



Infatuation, inveterate leachery, and sexual perverseness over older ladies are a different kettle of fish. That brand of anililagnia seems to be what your colleague's son had for you. Or it could be that he sincerely liked your outfit and you're merely over-thinking things.

Those three that I listed up there are way different from having a harmless attraction toward older women. Which is what I'm sure OP speaks of.

Ask Nick Cannon, older püssies rock.

I hear.. But I don't buy your idea on a younger guy of below 26, hoping to have sexual fun with an older lady of 30s.
Its weird having to make love or have se3x with such a young guy? Wow, I can't even imagine it..sorry but it doesn't look appealing to me at all.. It's gross
And younger ladies of 20s dating men of say 55years and above is so gross..
Anyways do whatever rocks your boat..best of luck !
And am comfortable with what rocks mine.

Op me and you deh d same lane

Team older ladies all the way,cos they tend to be more matured from a particular angle. That should be at the right time though

Amelian:

I hear.. But I don't buy your idea on a younger guy of below 26, hoping to have sexual fun with an older lady of 30s.
Its weird having to make love or have se3x with such a young guy? Wow, I can't even imagine it..sorry but it doesn't look appealing to me at all.. It's gross

LOL, is that your photo on your profile? You don't look like you're in your 30s. Too bad you're not into young bulls or I would have decided to shine your Congo.

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Many women find guys younger than they are to be hot and attractive, so I can surely live with Amelian finding it gross.

And younger ladies of 20s dating men of say 55years and above is so gross..
Anyways do whatever rocks your boat..best of luck !
And am comfortable with what rocks mine.

What rocks your boat is boring. Why not try engaging in something that's not restricted to the confines of the conventional box?

You could start by allowing me show you what you've been missing in younger guys – I'm not saying you're older than I am anyway. I'm merely assuming that you are.

If that's you in your profile pic then you are in your 20s, not 30s.

Parpor:
Team older ladies all the way,cos they tend to be more matured from a particular angle. That should be at the right time though

And they know how to fück as well. Why is no one stating this which also happens to be one of their sterling qualities due to their many years of experience and practice?

KillerPriest:


And they know how to fück as well. Why is no one stating this which also happens to be one of their sterling qualities due to their many years of experience and practice?

I haven't dated any before,so I can't confirm their many years of experience. And BTW, life/relationships ain't about Bleep

Either ways,I hope to get a fantastic one soon

matured ladies all the way....... this set of ladies wont make love miserable for you, the understand you faster than a girl within your bracket. Being frank i havent dated a gal of my age or younger than me more than 4 mnths i tend to dislike them so soon...... But my advice to the OP is that be careful of those that are desperate for marriage the can finish your career and your life within a flash

krissconnect:
I'm just 21, but sometimes I find it awkward when I look at most of my colleagues and learn their girlfriends are younger than them. I've never stopped admiring older women, I can't go a long way with girls younger than me when it comes to mutual consent. I've tried my best to get myself engaged with someone younger, but then I conclude they are way below my scope. I may end up marrying someone who is way older than me, because I can't help it. Please advise a brother.
Note: I don't do sugar mummy issues, I can only roll with ladies of .

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I prefer older women, more sensible and much respect.

krissconnect:
I'm just 21, but sometimes I find it awkward when I look at most of my colleagues and learn their girlfriends are younger than them. I've never stopped admiring older women, I can't go a long way with girls younger than me when it comes to mutual consent. I've tried my best to get myself engaged with someone younger, but then I conclude they are way below my scope. I may end up marrying someone who is way older than me, because I can't help it. Please advise a brother.
Note: I don't do sugar mummy issues, I can only roll with ladies of 24-30.

Cc: lalasticlala, toks2008,tosyne2much,naijasinglegirl,cutehector,smellymouth.

...age is a nomba...you will be come real man only when you date light skin females!! ( true story)

KillerPriest:


LOL, is that your photo on your profile? You don't look like you're in your 30s. Too bad you're not into young bulls or I would have decided to shine your Congo.

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Many women find guys younger than they are to be hot and attractive, so I can surely live with Amelian finding it gross.



What rocks your boat is boring. Why not try engaging in something that's not restricted to the confines of the conventional box?

You could start by allowing me show you what you've been missing in younger guys – I'm not saying you're older than I am anyway. I'm merely assuming that you are.

If that's you in your profile pic then you are in your 20s, not 30s.

Smiles , you try . Yeah that's my pic but seriously am in my early 30s, am just blessed I look younger. I cant thank Baba God enough for my looks.. Lol
But on a serious note, I will pass on your offer.. Am not interested.. I know u are a young stud with hot blood flowing through your veins But nah.
Just leave me out of your adventurous imaginations.
Thank you. Byee

Amelian:

Smiles , you try . Yeah that's my pic but seriously am in my early 30s, am just blessed I look younger. I cant thank Baba God enough for my looks.. Lol
But on a serious note, I will pass on your offer.. Am not interested.. I know u are a young stud with hot blood flowing through your veins But nah.
Just leave me out of your adventurous imaginations.
Thank you. Byee

You look young indeed for someone in her 30s – no wonder your colleague's son was mooning over you -- he must have thought you were much younger.
You, Amelian, must be chugging the elixir of youth which keeps you semperjuvenescent. Care to share some?

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I don't know about young stud and whatever in tarnation's flames you mean by ‘hot blood flowing in my veins’. If by that you mean raging hormones, then you've got it wrong. I'm way past that stage.

Whenever you decide to change your mind, just remember that I'm only a PM away. Bye.

KillerPriest:


You look young indeed for someone in her 30s – no wonder your colleague's son was mooning over you -- he must have thought you were much younger.
You, Amelian, must be chugging the elixir of youth which keeps you semperjuvenescent. Care to share some?

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I don't know about young stud and whatever in tarnation's flames you mean by ‘hot blood flowing in my veins’. If by that you mean raging hormones, then you've got it wrong. I'm way past that stage.

Whenever you decide to change your mind, just remember that I'm only a PM away. Bye.

Oshe

Amelian:


Oshe

Awwwww...she's feeling the nucca. And I thought my skills were rusty.

KillerPriest:


Awwwww...she's feeling the nucca. And I thought my skills were rusty.

Who is feeling the nucca

Don't start daydreaming ooo
Am feeling nada

Amelian:

Who is feeling the nucca

Don't start daydreaming ooo
Am feeling nada

May the thunderbolts of probity jolt you out of the chasms of self-denial.

So this is how you cope with and handle those you have a crush on? You launch into a spiel of denial hoping it keeps them at bay. Interesting.

Hi sweetyzinta

Raine80:
It's weird society has issue with a man dating an older woman yet turn a blind eye if the man is in a relationship that can be best be described as borderline peadophilia. Bro if you are into older woman do your thing. You are an adult.

If your location is true, then I will have to admit that might BS the reason for this your post.

KINGinVAHALA:
Hi sweetyzinta

hey KINGinVAHALA

SweetyZinta:

hey KINGinVAHALA

How re you doing miss/mrs(which)?
Hope I haven't committed any crime saying hi to you?

KillerPriest:


May the thunderbolts of probity jolt you out of the chasms of self-denial.

So this is how you cope with and handle those you have a crush on? You launch into a spiel of denial hoping it keeps them at bay. Interesting.

Whats this one saying?

KINGinVAHALA:

How re you doing miss/mrs(which)?

Hope I haven't committed any crime saying hi to you?

Miss pls, you are yet to commit a crime

SweetyZinta:


Miss pls, you are yet to commit a crime

It soothe my heart to know you re a miss.
Lol, that means the possibility of committing a crime is feasible? But, don't you think that you shouldn't blame me if I later do since I do not know what your "RED LINE" entails?

KINGinVAHALA:

It soothe my heart to know you re a miss.
Lol, that means the possibility of committing a crime is feasible? But, don't you think that you shouldn't blame me if I later do since I do not know what your "RED LINE" entails?

wont say it

SweetyZinta:





wont say it

Lol, then you shouldn't blame me when I end up passing this red line of yours.
Godwin, you?

That's your preference...nothing abnormal about that