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Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by RZArecta(m): 10:46pm On Nov 11, 2016
This guy broke up with a girl and got married soon after to another beautiful girl. Funny thing is both ladies are friends from church but wifey doesn't know that her "bestie" used to date her husband. Now that's not the problem. Madam gave birth recently and bestie offered to come and stay over for a while and madam agreed so she's been at the house for some time now. But neither ex girlfriend or Oga husband has deemed it necessary to tell wifey that they once dated just before they got married.

Ladies, if you were in this situation what would you do ?

Ps it's a true story going on right now cool
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:09pm On Nov 11, 2016
Hmmmm....Ok, i wanted to hmmm but i dnt wanna waste the ftc, so, let me just commentgrin


1.What led to the break up of the ex in the first place...was it on a good or bad note??

2.What's the current relationship between the husband and the ex like...

3.Telling the wife might stirr up some rigorous thoughts in the wife that will with time cause despair or suspicion in the home, just saying sha....

If you can answer the above questions we can connect from there....

O holy sh!t it's past 11:19pm.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Nov 11, 2016
"Ignorance is bliss"...the wife doesn't have a problem.

Now, is left for the man/wife's bestie to either tell the woman or not...is not good that his ex is in his house, quite tempting for any reason.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by maxti: 11:20pm On Nov 11, 2016
Bestie indeed!

She also didn't attend the wedding.
Brides mum didn't offer to come,but "Bestie" did.

Welldone
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:20pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
"Ignorance is bliss"...the wife doesn't have a problem.

Now, is left for the man/wife's bestie to either tell the woman or not...is not good that his ex is in his house, quite tempting for any reason.
You never sleepundecided
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Nov 11, 2016
firstking01:
You never sleepundecided
My brother!, some days are like this. grin
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:23pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
My brother!, some days are like this. grin
I kuku go vigilgrin
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Nov 11, 2016
firstking01:
I kuku go vigilgrin
Fear God!, so na from vigil you dey type from?. cheesy

Which church be that?.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:26pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
Fear God!, so na from vigil you dey type from?. cheesy

Which church be that?.
Hehehe....i'm in the overflow....btw, the fear of God is in the heartgrin
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by NemzySeries(m): 11:29pm On Nov 11, 2016
d Lady shd jst cum & do her omugwo, chop food, bath baby & collect transport fare wen itz time to go home but servicing oga is not part of d deal Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Nov 11, 2016
firstking01:
Hehehe....i'm in the overflow....btw, the fear of God is in the heartgrin
Hmm!, which of the churches?.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by talktonase(m): 11:29pm On Nov 11, 2016
The husband and bestie may have a secret agenda...they both may intend to be kpanshing each other under wifey's nose.I saw it in one Nigerian movie once..

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Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by micfoley: 11:30pm On Nov 11, 2016
True story? Wahala dey o
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:31pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
Hmm!, which of the churches?.
Honestly i dnt even know....my guy invited me.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Nov 11, 2016
firstking01:
Honestly i dnt even know....my guy invited me.
So you don't know the name of the church you're in right now?. cheesy cheesy

Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:35pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
So you don't know the name of the church you're in right now?. cheesy cheesy
Maybe it skipt my memorygrin
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Nov 11, 2016
firstking01:
Maybe it skipt my memorygrin
Too bad!.
Pray for me...in Darey's voice. grin
Gudnyt!.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:45pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
Too bad!.
Pray for me...in Darey's voice. grin
Gudnyt!.
I no sabi prayembarassed....Btw, you left me starving...where's the poridge yamangry
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Nov 11, 2016
firstking01:
I no sabi prayembarassed....Btw, you left me starving...where's the poridge yamangry
Come get it.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Nov 11, 2016
Sometimes it's better left unsaid... Leave it like that since they both been reluctant to tell it the wife... But the thing tho, how can this girl keep up with her ex in the same house sad
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by firstking01(m): 11:51pm On Nov 11, 2016
asuo27:
Come get it.
Oya nah...let's go that waygrin
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Tocheagle(m): 12:04am On Nov 12, 2016
THIS ISSUE CAN BETTER BE HANDLED BY DOCTOR GOOGLE
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by RZArecta(m): 1:10am On Nov 12, 2016
firstking01:
Hmmmm....Ok, i wanted to hmmm but i dnt wanna waste the ftc, so, let me just commentgrin


1.What led to the break up of the ex in the first place...was it on a good or bad note??

2.What's the current relationship between the husband and the ex like...

3.Telling the wife might stirr up some rigorous thoughts in the wife that will with time cause despair or suspicion in the home, just saying sha....

If you can answer the above questions we can connect from there....

O holy sh!t it's past 11:19pm.
the guy broke up with ex, dunno what happened .
The husband and this lady are quite friendly but I honestly see no reasons why he would allow her sleep over at his place worse still without telling his wife their previous history.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by vicstar(m): 1:13am On Nov 12, 2016
girls and all this bestie crap undecided I don't buy that shiiit

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Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by RZArecta(m): 1:17am On Nov 12, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Sometimes it's better left unsaid... Leave it like that since they both been reluctant to tell it the wife... But the thing tho, how can this girl keep up with her ex in the same house sad
ex says she's still madly in love with Mr Husband, (queried her fellow choir girl who knows in on the whole mess)

A responsible man wouldn't put his wife through all this insult no matter what. Even ex's mom has told her to leave the house but she has bluntly refused to do so
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 1:18am On Nov 12, 2016
RZArecta:
This guy broke up with a girl and got married soon after to another beautiful girl. Funny thing is both ladies are friends from church but wifey doesn't know that her "bestie" used to date her husband. Now that's not the problem. Madam gave birth recently and bestie offered to come and stay over for a while and madam agreed so she's been at the house for some time now. But neither ex girlfriend or Oga husband has deemed it necessary to tell wifey that they once dated just before they got married.

Ladies, if you were in this situation what would you do ?

Ps it's a true story going on right now cool
I'll quit reading


pieces of poo
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by RZArecta(m): 1:21am On Nov 12, 2016
maxti:
Bestie indeed!

She also didn't attend the wedding.
Brides mum didn't offer to come,but "Bestie" did.

Welldone
bride is an orphan, she trusts this particular girl and that's why she allowed her stay over not knowing the recent history between the girl and her own husband
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 1:23am On Nov 12, 2016
RZArecta:
ex says she's still madly in love with Mr Husband, (queried her fellow choir girl who knows in on the whole mess)

A responsible man wouldn't put his wife through all this insult no matter what. Even ex's mom has told her to leave the house but she has bluntly refused to do so


Ooh I see... I think the final decision is on the hands of this "husband"...he dive into this mess and before it's getting out control, he shud better find ways to kick her ex's azz out of the house if he doesn't want problems with his wife...
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by RZArecta(m): 1:23am On Nov 12, 2016
Berlynn:

I'll quit reading


pieces of poo


you can call it whatever you like. Your choice cool
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by Nobody: 1:26am On Nov 12, 2016
RZArecta:
you can call it whatever you like. Your choice cool


k.
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by maxti: 7:30am On Nov 12, 2016
RZArecta:
bride is an orphan, she trusts this particular girl and that's why she allowed her stay over not knowing the recent history between the girl and her own husband

Ok.

Thanks for clarifying
Re: Ladies, What Would You Do In This Situation ? by sainty2k3(m): 7:39am On Nov 12, 2016
Berlynn:



k.
Don't mind this super story and Africa magic writer

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