schumastic:

madam v seen it all n my story us more or less like the op but a lil diff seven yrs no b beans but that aside, we all v our share in all this drama called love n trust..v learnt n u understood more about it n moved on with my life...so you see why I stand with my opinion the other time on that thread, is base on my experience n what v learnt over the years

Chicent:
Op i will tell u this..... Take Heart!!!





But you just got the reason why she doesnt ask you for money!! Dont be decieved, most girls are not 'go getter' as you would take them to be, they source for their funding giving you the impression they are very hardworking and not dependant to your money.

You made a mistake not turning up for her to see you, she can deny it and you got no proof. "A hole once drilled is forever drilled" (you would have showed up, she sees you bury her head in shame and you in turn congratulate the guy) Na man him be.

Now listen mister, you dont have to loose your job over a girl who dont care about your wellbeing. She has chosen her career part, stand firm with yours. If you loose your job, u will suffer more.

So bro..... Forget her and focus on your job. A better wife material will come along in due time.


"Karma is still a living bitch, everyone will surely get served"

Berbierklaus:
Your head correct well.
cc Schumastic.
Brings me to the question,what do men really want? confused set

cekhoe:
so do I stand by mine, cos I have seen women who built their men from scratch

Berbierklaus:

Your head correct well.

cc Schumastic.

Brings me to the question,what do men really want? confused set

schumastic:


yeah u can, why not..all am sayings that if she ain't your fiancee or wife don't do it so u don't com bk crying, or better put, s adviceable not to do it..

Berlynn:
ewwwwwwww I understand this situation perfectly


choi op move on God just saved you from karashika lol move on bro dont kill yourself over someone who doesn't give a fvck about you! but this is really really sad

cekhoe:
and women who do are what?, such double standards you have there. Some men pay outrageous amounts for one night stands,such a guy will obviously have no problem spending on his gf, hope you get the drift,and stop detailing the thread,face your opinion

Chicent:




can u differentitate btw "most" and "all"?? Unconfused set!!!

schumastic:


it goes both ways, am only speaking for the guys cus am not a trans...by the way stop speaking as if you carry fire for head is just 8:00am or do u want us to continue again..don't derail d thread

Berbierklaus:

Lolz,relax we are on the same page.

I was referring to girls who seem like the go getters that don't ask their boyfriends for Nada but secretly cheating to fund themselves

cekhoe:
I will take the bolded as a complement,adiós

schumastic:


you r truly a character keep it up Chou

schumastic:


sincerely I wasn't expecting this ? from you,, did you read the op topic from down to up or did you confuse the op for a female lol, madam better read it again and ask the house what do women really want?

it was stated clearly the op was doing all he can to make sure they are ckose to each other.
2.for them to get married, cus he sees a wife material in her.
3.he loves n trust her n wants to spend the rest of her life with her.

so why are you asking the ?, what do men really want when he has made it clear wa he wants..
except if am not getting the angle u r coming from then u can explain better..but if what u meant is if a guy can't provide for his girl then she can source for money outside like the op gf did, all fine n good by me, I won't complain not even for once cus if a gf is also not available then the guy can source for sex outside as well..no 1 gets cheated that way.

What is this one typing

I was referring to see our earlier discussion about some girls acting the go getters while secretly cheating and making the guy believe they are the good girls,they don't demand from him.


Now go to the freezer,you know that upper part where we keep cold water abi,ehen,pick one very chilled bottle of water.. good,Oya open the cap,now raise the bottle to your mouth,pour the cold water directly into your throat,everything at once,ehen good boy.now drop the bottle I will refil it.

your blood dey boil

schumastic:


this one you understood the op so perfectly, r u the girl lol just kidding though but you sure sound like you r d girl

AuroraB:

schumastic:


you are laughing dear,us true cus fear catch me am sure d op would v checked her Dp to b sure lol..how s your day going so far

AuroraB:
Day's coming on fine, thank you.

Berbierklaus:

What is this one typing

I was referring to see our earlier discussion about some girls acting the go getters while secretly cheating and making the guy believe they are the good girls,they don't demand from him.


Now go to the freezer,you know that upper part where we keep cold water abi,ehen,pick one very chilled bottle of water.. good,Oya open the cap,now raise the bottle to your mouth,pour the cold water directly into your throat,everything at once,ehen good boy.now drop the bottle I will refil it.

your blood dey boil

schumastic:


so wa s your advice for d op, ladies r running from d thread cus a guy s d victim but if s d other way round all hell will b let loose..funny how some ladies up there r saying he is lying or the story look cooked up.

AuroraB:
You know, I doubted the story. But your assertion got me. Well, the guy should do the recharge card thingy someone suggested. Or, get the man she is with to let him in on whom she is to him.
I say this because, she'll have yet another lie if confronted without fact(s).
And this is an eye-opener to guys who feel cos she's not asking for money, means all is well. Even if she's not asking, little gifts go a long way. She's still searching for a job and she ain't broke sometimes. She be Udughan dughter ni and how come she's not gotten a job if she's born with a silver spoon
Flight my black foot

alexjohnson4945:
i am very grateful to you all for your concern and advice, but those thinking its a madeup story it's not, really it isnt....

What made them issue me a query at work was because i planted myself at home for 3days, without going to work and even without any prior notice to my employees about my unforseen absence..

She was still in the compound all along for 4days,"Sunday evening till Wednesday" she left Wednesday evening, under my watchfull eyes, without her noticing.

she has been calling me all along till now, but i cant pick her calls or reply her messages..

Till now i feel my whole world has crashed...

alexjohnson4945:
i am very grateful to you all for your concern and advice, but those thinking its a madeup story it's not, really it isnt....

What made them issue me a query at work was because i planted myself at home for 3days, without going to work and even without any prior notice to my employees about my unforseen absence..

She was still in the compound all along for 4days,"Sunday evening till Wednesday" she left Wednesday evening, under my watchfull eyes, without her noticing.

she has been calling me all along till now, but i cant pick her calls or reply her messages..

Till now i feel my whole world has crashed...

schumastic:


hahaha with words like this, no wonder you kept quiet...he should just let go..back then in school I was with my close pal n he had this female friend that came to meet us n was like, there is this man that want her to lure a call girl that spent the night with him over the weekend in enugu n stole his laptops,cash n the rest in the hotel...so the plan was for us to call the girl n see if we can hook up since she resides in lag, only for my friend to dial the call girl number n her name appeared on his phone, it happens to be that he knows the lady in ? and we were schooling in awka then, while the call girl stays in his area .you see how small this world is, that's y I didn't doubt it.