My Nairaland peeps, your advice is needed here. Abeg no insot o, ejor. This lady got married about 7 years ago and has a set of twin boys with an infant (who is also a boy). She got married to her husband because a spiritual leader she consulted then told her that the man she was in a relationship with then was not meant for her do she presented names of other guys asking her out and he husband was picked. She liked (not loved) him and believed the love would grow with time. Anyway years after everything had gone downhill as they were always having issues ranging from family , the guy consulting his mom over everything, his family judging her calling her spoilt because she is from a wealthy background, the man keeping in touch with exes and sharing his family issues, taking decisions without her input ati bee bee lo. They were separated for a while but the church reconciled them and the husband still downloaded gist saying she begged to return whereas this babe didn't even want to go back. She was depressed and suicidal at a point and it took inner strength and God for her to fight. The man after everything has decided he loves his wife but she has said she wants a divorce. Close friends are still mediating and are advising her to stay. She says she does not love him and is not attracted to him any more. For her she never loved him and only took the advice of he spiritual leader

This is where the wahala is big sis...she has been talking to the guy she was dating and they have seen each other 4 times. 2 have been in an enclosed environment and they have kissed like animals on heat. This guy has a girlfriend out of town but he is not that serious with her. He says he still has very deep feelings for my friend.

I don't know why she told me this as we are not that close. I saw her last at her wedding where I was surprised to see the man she married. I asked if I could talk to you and she agreed hence this story

She doesn't want to marry her ex but she said she's still in love with him and can't predict what will happen next time they see.

First time they were together they kissed, last time they dry humped.

Biko, wetin una reason?

Me too I need advice

eezeribe:
Me too I need advice

Lollz

dis is a serious matter dat needs urgent attention... some nairalanders will Neva post somtin as serious as dis... dey will rather discuss their favourite zombie n wailers ish.... I pray u get mature.... now to d urgent matter jare..... my sis... wen next they see... tell her to hump him like mofedaku!!! afterwards tell d both of them to knee down ask for forgiveness n go their separate ways... only for dem to come back again for serious humping... I think ma advise really help....

biazarre:
dis is a serious matter dat needs urgent attention... some nairalanders will Neva post somtin as serious as dis... dey will rather discuss their favourite zombie n wailers ish.... I pray u get mature.... now to d urgent matter jare..... my sis... wen next they see... tell her to hump him like mofedaku!!! afterwards tell d both of them to knee down ask for forgiveness n go their separate ways... only for dem to come back again for serious humping... I think ma advise really help....

Bros this your advice sha o, e be as e get...

You don't love him, you have who you loved? Love grows? Any thing that cannot happen in relationship barely get settled in marriage. You have choosen you home and divorce is not an option. Besides some men will purposely marry that stubborn girl to punish her.

excellencyabia1:
Besides some men will purposely marry that stubborn girl to punish her.

The bolded above got me thinking

Jopasdaughter:

The bolded above got me thinking

this is the reason why people should be carefull. If you don't have inner peace to stay with someone let that person know but if you want to accept, just do it because not all seen teeth are laughing

excellencyabia1:
this is the reason why people should be careful. If you don't have inner peace to stay with someone let that person know but if you want to accept, just do it because not all seen teeth are laughing

Talk about height of wickedness, and such a man would go ahead and raise kids with that woman--all in the process of teaching that woman a lesson. Reminds me of Sidney Sheldon's Master of the Game, where a certain male character got the daughter of a man he had grievances with pregnant and married her, for the simple intent of finishing off the wicked old man. Never did he show that girl any love. It was horrible.

Three children and she did not want to be with him in the first place but was advised to marry him and she did. Men are not stupid , she was probably giving him " i can do better than you vibes" who wants a wife like that?No one. Well its marriage it is never easy the children need their father she owes it to them to provide a stable home.

Raine80:
Three children and she did not want to be with him in the first place but was advised to marry him and she did. Men are not stupid , she was probably giving him " i can do better than you vibes" who wants a wife like that?No one. Well its marriage it is never easy the children need their father she owes it to them to provide a stable home.

Hmnnnn

I am not commenting on this until I hear the other side of the story.

Meanwhile, religion is the opium of the masses.

Always behaving like people wey God no suffer to create and give brains.
But that brains, they can't use.