FriendChoice:


To Mallam Demmy

Demmzy15:

lolaed:
This man always speaks nonsense anyway. I don't understand how come he has followers

Demmzy15:
**nods in affirmation**

iykedare:


You would also love to marry more than one woman if you were a man. What is the difference between marrying more than one wife and ladies dating more than one guy at a time?

lolaed:
Monogamy is the rule. Polygamy is not compulsory in Islam. There is a problem with making foolish people popular. That's the problem with so-called cleric, Muhyideen Bello

lexiconkabir:


Do not have hatred for polygamy, if you can't practice it, don't condemn people who practice or support it, POLYGAMY IS STATED IN THE QUR'AN BY ALLAAH, SO BY HATING POLYGAMY, YOU ARE HATING WHAT ALLAAH LEGISLATED.

SALAAM.

lexiconkabir:


Issoryt..... Wish the same for me

La yu'minu ahdukum, hatta yuhibbul akhihi ma yuhibbu li nafsihi.

lexiconkabir:


So the long and short of this superstory be say you are looking for Cinderella in Abaya abi? Or niqob sef.

Farmerforlife:



The thing is, fertility rate does not depend on the number of wives one marries. It depends on the number of married women of child bearing age, regardless of whether their husbands have only one or four. Since Muslim women are like the proverbial 'hot cake' and very rarely stay unmarried for long, marrying 2 or 3 or 4 will only make it harder for other Muslim men to get married, but will not increase birth rates. Whether the ummah is increased by my children, or my Muslim brother's children is not important.

@Empiree, I really have no intention, and barring some really extraordinary circumstance, like my having to live away from my wife, or some such unlikely situation, I will continue having no intention, insha Allah. Marriage is never a bed of roses.

lolaed:


What in my post suggests that I hate it. what I hate is idiotss making it appear like it is compulsory and pushing other men into the practice.

Every irresponsible man in a polygamy will be pubished by Allah for getting into it without having the means to cater for the wife and children.

They can't put their children in good schools or give them the proper attention they need for proper integration into society and will be shouting Allah says up and down.

what does Allah say about your responsibility in a polygamy? You hardly hear such lectures.

lolaed:


What in my post suggests that I hate it. what I hate is idiotss making it appear like it is compulsory and pushing other men into the practice.

Every irresponsible man in a polygamy will be pubished by Allah for getting into it without having the means to cater for the wife and children.

They can't put their children in good schools or give them the proper attention they need for proper integration into society and will be shouting Allah says up and down.

what does Allah say about your responsibility in a polygamy? You hardly hear such lectures.

Shafiiimran99:
But saying "monogamy is rule" is not ok either because u don't have evidence to back it.

lexiconkabir:


Your post suggested you hate polygamy, you even went as far as insulting thethe lecturer, you could've just stopped at who you feel is capable for polygamy or not.

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Shafiiimran99:
He does not understand that ayah provided u posted exactly what he said. Ok say one start with 2 wives, u now discover that u cope with them, is he trying to say we should divorce one by his explanation is totally wrong. By the way, those people are not scholar is just because many of us don't know anything about islam that why we do call them scholar.

Yes, but those who have the means shouldn't be discouraged.

You don't have to be super rich to practice it, now applying justice between your wives is the main thing, "justice" in this case means he should be just in material things, such as gifts, spending time and so on, as for his love for them, he can never be just with that because it is beyond his control, this is what is meant by the statement of Allaah;

“You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire

lolaed:
some irresponsible ones will be feeling fly when polygamy is mentioned even when they can't feed themselves. They end up littering everywhere with chdren they can't take care of.

Go under the bridge and see many of such ill bred children posing problems for the society.

lolaed:


What in my post suggests that I hate it. what I hate is idiotss making it appear like it is compulsory and pushing other men into the practice.

Every irresponsible man in a polygamy will be pubished by Allah for getting into it without having the means to cater for the wife and children.

They can't put their children in good schools or give them the proper attention they need for proper integration into society and will be shouting Allah says up and down.

what does Allah say about your responsibility in a polygamy? You hardly hear such lectures.

AideeSheks:

You were one brave little boy

abula112:
[s]This theory will only work in sharia countrys where your salary imcrease by number of wifes and children, dnt try it in Nigeria, use your brain.
That is first, secondly it is not compulsory to marry more than one wife, i see marrying more than a wife as a way to curb the female to male ratio, cis females are far in population than male, not in humans alone but in d whole animal kingdom..[/s]
just make your choice with wisdom, as for me one is ok

omosuper:
Thank God that it's not compulsory .I can't cope with too wives because I don't really like it.