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John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by GurlFriend: 5:47pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
See earlier threads and accusations: Ivie Edobor: Zenith Bank Staff Fractures Ex-Wife's Leg (Photos) https://www.nairaland.com/3360614/ivie-edobor-zenith-bank-staff Zenith Bank Sacks Staff Who Brutalised His Wife & Fractured Her Bones(photos) - https://www.nairaland.com/3464801/zenith-bank-sacks-staff-brutalised "My Wife Had Sex With A Married Man, Got Pregnant For Him & Aborted The Twin" - John Edobor http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/11/john-edobor-man-accused-of-breaking.html 3 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by GurlFriend: 5:48pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Start here The killer and the cheat...the true Story of Ivie Edobor... 7 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by GurlFriend: 5:50pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Continue Since Ivie was living in Surulere despite my several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to come join me in Yaba notwithstanding that Ivie and I looked for the apartment in Yaba for us to live as one family again, Ivie deceded to stay back in surulere and every Fridays she would come to sleep with me while on weekdays she kept sleeping with Matthew Agbaire who is married with his own kids. 1 Like 3 Shares
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by GurlFriend: 5:54pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
He narrates what allegedly happened on the night of the attack Since Ivie knew the consequences of her action she begged and pleaded that, she would need to go for confession which she did in June 5th, 2016 at Saint Dominic Catholic Church, Yaba. There she promised the reverend father Felix never to go back to such life again. Two days later I received a phone call from the house help that, Matthew came again to take her out and did not return until late in the night. When I asked Ivie she denied and she beat up the house help as well as collected her phone from her. 4 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by GurlFriend: 5:57pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Here, he debunks her allegations that he abandoned his 3 daughters and refused to fend for them. He attached proof of school fees receipts. Ivie has consistently told people that I have not been taking care of the children school fees (find attached the receipts of my children school fees till date for your perusal). She has push out false information to the public for her to continuously gain sympathy from the public, press, bloggers, the civil society and human rights activist. 4 Likes
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by GurlFriend: 5:59pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
And finally... It will shock you to know that Ivie was married to one Mr. Benedith Jatto on the 17th December 2002 a document she used in her NYSC and equally in her former place of employment while she was working with Airtel Nigeria. I got to know and see all of these when this issue came up and a copy of the document is available for your perusal. And up till date that married has not been dissolved which means ivie is legally married to two men. 18 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Onegai(f): 6:06pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Hmm, he's got enough to prove reasonable doubt. But there need to be witnesses as to the assault to say what happened. Because right now, that's his word against hers. Ivie claims he attacked her and her bf, he claims it was a 3-way brawl and she got hurt by her bf, both of them should provide witnesses. He is on trial for attempted murder of his spouse, not for not paying Child support. Though it was bad of her to lie about that to the media. I don't buy that first marriage one, St. Dominic's is very thorough about their vetting process. So they would have announced banns in her village so that some nosy neighbour would come forward and they will stop the wedding. He would have been informed of her previous marriage to another man. Catholic church doesn't play with banns in Nigeria. And they can subpoena her doctor in court to produce her medical history to prove a late-term abortion or not. So he should provide the name of the hospital in Surulere to the court. However, the wife says he kicked her out 2 years before the assault, the messages see her admitting that their marriage broke down 2 years before assault. How come he thought it was his? Unless they were still living together. If one looks at the dates from the payments, August 2014, they were in school in Abraham Adesanya, so it's either they still lived close to Laura Stephens. And that payment was for 2014/2015 session. But August 2016, they were paying for 1st term in a Surulere school. There is no 2015 schoolfees attached, so maybe she paid for that year. Why is her scan showing single gestational sac (one baby) yet he claims she aborted twins? Na so?? He's being charged with attempted murder (the NGO scaled up the charges from assault). The Law allows that a scuffle can lead to a slap in an argument with your spouse, but punches and visible beating and any broken limbs or anything that comes to the hospital is Assault. If he can get a good lawyer, someone that handles Criminal cases, he can prove reasonable doubt to the Judge that Ivie is a an untrustworthy plantiff so her version of the story cannot be trusted and insist on witness account around the area. Someone must have seen or heard something. If they were brawling with her bf, Surulere is not so quiet that someone won't have opened their window to peek and pokenose. Sometimes, an amebo neighbour can be a lifesaver o ![]() There are holes in both their stories. The fact remains, he was at her Surulere residence at a time he should not have been. That is why he is being charged with Attempted Murder, the only reason he would show up at his estranged wife's house at 1am is because he went there looking for a fight. So, all this may help him but he will definitely get a charge on his head. I suspect this info dump is to sway the court into dropping the Attempted Murder charge to Assault. His lawyer is trying to show that Ivie has a history of extreme provocation towards John. So that yes, he went to look for a fight/confront her and her lover but he did not plan on things escalating. It doesn't matter if you married the devil, you are not allowed to attempt to physically beat him up and get away with it. You are expected to divorce the devil or reconcile with the devil but not get into a fight with it. 152 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Viking007(m): 6:13pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
After God, fear Nigerian women. 374 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by deeplow: 6:15pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
One has to read/hear both sides of a story before one concludes. Nigerian media, na first come, best served. Everybody is already with ideas that the man is evil, even myself. May God provide good wife for us and husband for the ladies. Al these stories sef dey scare person. 194 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by LifeIsGuhd(f): 6:16pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Hmmm! But why are you coming out now to spill the beans after you lost your job? Why now? 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by rvpbae: 6:23pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Bullocks! Bullocks!! Bullocks!!! This doesn't justify why or how her leg got shattered. So ordinary fall led to broken bones? All this story is for an entirely different case, let him sue for defamation or carry matter go customary court. He is being charged with assault and battery or that kind thing, two different cases. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by peterdrury: 6:29pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Who could have imagined that the persons involved were good lovers prior to the incident. I'm not trying to take side with him or her but after reading this, I feel they should settle out of court. Who knows, they might fall in love again. Love can be found in a hopeless place. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by NevetsIbot(m): 6:30pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
nd I was believing this woman That person up there asking if an ordinary fall broke the womans leg.... Did you even read the report well? 136 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by cococandy(f): 6:41pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
I'm lost. What's the genesis of the story? Lagos marriages. One week one trouble. 9 Likes |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by 5minsmadness: 6:44pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
The world has changed. Silence is no longer golden.. He should have spoken out earlier oh, but i'm glad he has evidence to substantiate most of his claims. Barr Shebi u now see what i was telling you, to take it easy, make proper investigations before taking this case? You think nigerians are like the whites where you were doing your law practice for decades, its a different ball game over here oh, they will just use victim mentality to rubbish the good name you have built. Our women are not as angelic/innocent as you think! I warned you sir, i warned you! 62 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Onegai(f): 6:45pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Ladies and gentlemen, if you're fighting with your spouse, save your messages. Email your Whatsapp and BBM messages with spouse to yourself. This is simple Spousal Battle Tactics 101. ![]() 148 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by 5minsmadness: 6:52pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Onegai(f): 6:58pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
cococandy: He broke her leg. She's currently on crutches. The case got charged to court. His place of work was pressured to sack him. She took his gist to the bloggers as a deadbeat dad. He's defending. Very boring Assault case. I've heard of much more interesting cases, nothing like a man dying and multiple kids and multiple wives. They can bring their babalawo to court ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Kennedymac(m): 7:03pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
bros hw u cum marry ashawo in place of a wife sotey she cum get belle for another man but yet............. it's still not enough for the kinda design wey u abi na the mathew gave her for her legedence benz ooo people always call the devil a he bt .......i think the devil is a woman 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by TheArchangel(f): 7:11pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Keep the sh!t coming pipu!!!! Entertainment galore Meanwhile, there is no evidence of multiple pregnancy as the scan is showing Singleton gestation. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Ahmeduana(m): 7:12pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
AND FOR INSIDE THIS ONE SOME GROUP OF PEOPLE ARE PROMOTING FEMINISM! 10 Likes |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Onegai(f): 7:15pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
TheArchangel: Grab your popcorn! 2 Likes |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by nnamdibig(m): 7:19pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Women! Women!! Women!!!
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This man is really very patient 74 Likes |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by TheArchangel(f): 7:20pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Mimzyy(f): 7:21pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Thank goodness i was nt quick to judge. 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by 5minsmadness: 7:30pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
cococandy: They broke up following irreconcilable differences i.e she had an affair and got pregnant. He works in zenith. She works as a businesswoman. She lives in a posh area of lagos state. Rent is through the roof. Xomplained that the man abandoned her and the kids i.e child support and stuff. However she is making good money from her buisness. Man ignored her complaints. Sge claims that one day sge was coming out of her gate when the man attacked her and broke both her legs with a hammer and walked off. Has been demanding compensation. He has been quiet She approached a well respected lawyer who is very passionate about domestic violence. He was outraged by her story and took the case as one of senseless domestic violence. He put pressure on his workplace(zenith bank) He got sacked. Now he is responding. Says he never broke her legs. Her lover did it by mistake while trying to hit him. Says she had affairs and has veen bringing out proof. Says he has been paying for the kids(which she refuted) and has brought out proof. You can read the rest. You're up to speed. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by cococandy(f): 7:33pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Thanks you guys. As much as I hate domestic violence, I think false accusations are worse. Does she have witnesses to the assault? Or is it a he said/ she said thing. If she lied about him not supporting the kids, even if he broke her leg, without witnesses, it will be hard for people to believe her. Onegai: 5minsmadness: 11 Likes |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by 5minsmadness: 7:49pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
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Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by LCASHMAN(m): 8:00pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
WHENEVER I READ STORIES LIKE THIS I BEGIN TO IMAGINE THAT AT SOME POINT THESE TWO USE TO BEND OVER AND RAM SHAFT IN THE HOLE.if I say atam cucumber chidima, fruit sellers association of naija will attack me 27 Likes |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Nobody: 8:07pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Eyah, sorry. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by kidman96(m): 8:07pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Hmm... Women! Women! Women!...hmmm.. I fear una ooo! May God help us men. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by eyinjuege: 8:07pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
5minsmadness: I've read your previous posts. Now, let's try and apply logic to this issue, devoid of all sentiments. Let's even assume she's a prostitute and a fraud, and he's a saint. What was he doing in front of her house at that time of the day?. It was early hours of the morning, from the initial story. What's the probability he wasn't there to cause trouble? Did he call her earlier he was coming to see his children? Why trespass on someone's property, if not to cause trouble? The truth is, he started the whole brouhaha. By even being there uninvited is suspicious. The outcome of the fracas was all because he didn't have self control. Relationships break down, but everyone should just carry their wahala and go. They don't have blood ties ( they're not related- as we can't choose our relatives, but we can choose who we want to spend our lives with), so why stalk her? She could have lost her life. He's on trial for attempted murder, so any reasonable company will wash their hands off him,. That's the way of the world, its not personal. They would even deny they ever knew him if they could. I sincerely don't believe the woman has mental imbalance or on psychotropic drugs not to know who assaulted her. I'm just trying to be objective here. The same way I can never side a housewife who goes to her husband's mistress house to fight her, or a housewife pouring hot water on her husband because he's cheating, or the one that poisoned her step son. Just walk away. See your children at arranged times, weekends, holidays or whatever. They're the ones that are your blood, and should be your utmost concern. What some call love is just obsession, and it always makes people irrational. 34 Likes 5 Shares |
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