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John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by chie8: 8:37pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
See earlier threads : https://www.nairaland.com/3470797/john-edobor-man-accused-breaking This was shared by human rights lawyer Emeka Ugwuonye.Below is what he wrote...... 'UPDATE ON THE CASE OF IVIE EDOBOR: THE NEED TO KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE BALL As the Americans would say: "Always keep your eyes on the ball". The best way for the opponent to defeat you in any conflict is to force you to take your eyes away from the ball. That is is practically the move that Mr. John Edobor has made against Ivie Edobor, once he realized the gathering dangers around him. When DPA first got involved in this case, I realized that the case possessed every element that is needed for mud slings - sex, scandal, betrayal, power, litigation, violence, pain and suffering. I pitied Ivie because she was clearly at a disadvantage. First, she is dealing in an environment where it is so easy to blame the woman. Second, she faced physical incapacitation with the attendant economic hardship that would prevent her from fighting a good fight. Her enemy took her out in the first round of the fight. John remained a manager in Zenith Bank throughout the period. For five months, he used his presence and continued employment in Zenith to prepare to battle his estranged wife. It was only a matter of time before John would brandish his weapons of mud and sleaze. He only waited this long because he thought he was in control of the dynamics of this conflict. But he was wrong. The tide turned last week after DPA entered into the picture. (By the way, I use this opportunity to assuage some DPA members who felt that the role of DPA in this case has not been adequately acknowledged. We need not ask for any acknowledgment. Our work speaks for itself). But make no mistake: DPA pushed for the upgrading of the charge from assault to attempted murder. That was the sole reason I went to court last week. (I didn't go to court just to show solidarity) Also, DPA has clarified the narrative and focused attention on the unfortunate and highly questionable position of Zenith Bank. Keeping our eyes on the ball requires us to stay focused on the issues that matter, regardless of attempt to alter the narrative through manipulated and selective evidence peddled on the personal walls of the accused man. One thing is this: John is defending a case that could send him to jail for the rest of his life. The incentive is too high that he would do anything to escape. Lying is the least thing he would worry about. Once John lost his job and now faces homicide-related criminal charges, you must prepare to expect the worst he is capable of. Since last week, Ivie has feared many dangers from John. John who had been threatening her since the past 5 months, suddenly began to plead for reconciliation. Ivie was so worried that John was getting to the verge of mental crack up and his stability was much in doubt. She feared for her safety and safety of her children. John was clearly becoming suicidal. I advised her on how to stay calm and on how to be cautions. I must say that if all that John ended up doing was to lie against Ivie with doctored chats logs, then we are relieved that he did much less than we had feared. Keeping our eyes on the ball demands that we remember the following: (1) Ivie and John were separated since the past two years without any intention to continue the marriage. (2) Prior to the separation, John committed domestic violence on Ivie multiple times. (3) During the time of separation, John has been with multiple women in sexual relationships, as shown by the picture attached in which John and a woman (not Ivie) were in bed. (4) On that faithful night in June, John came to Ivie's house at night and attacked Ivie with weapons and clearly with intent to kill her. The above facts are indisputable. Now let's us consider the fabled evidence that John has conjured up in his defense. John says: 1) That he and his wife agreed to separate in order to evade creditors. (You know that is a lie. John is a banker. He knows that such is not a way to evade creditors when your children remain in the same school for a whole year after separation. Indeed, the reason the children remained in Ajah school, while Ivie was shuttling them from Badagry (where her father lived) to Ajah each day for school was because Ivie did not have money to register them in another school near her father's house). 2) John claims that Ivie got pregnant and aborted it. (Again, you know that is likely a blackmail. John who could not feed three children he already had would not spend nights and days crying that his estranged wife aborted pregnancy with twins. Besides, if that was the case and John felt so bad about that, why would he go to fight Ivie in her house? He should have been eager to divorce her). 3) John claimed that Ivie had relationship with another man during the time they were separated. He uses manipulated social media chat logs to buttress such contrivance. (But, really, even if were true, which I have refused to enter into, it is most unreasonable to expect that after 2 years of separation, your spouse would remain sexually loyal to you, especially when you had started living with another woman). Now, go over all the excuses and reasons that John has given. The only reason missing is the reason why he attacked Ivie Edobor so viciously? John will never find one reason to justify the attack on Ivie. That is the ball that we must keep our eyes on. What is the justification for his action? You must know that John was arrested at the scene. He alone was arrested. So, nobody else committed a crime that night. Nobody else attacked anybody other than John. Also, note that after arrest, John made statements and other witnesses made statements. At the end of it, the police decided to arraign him for assault. Note also that even after the case had commenced in court, the government felt that assault was not strong enough. They found that John had an intention to kill Ivie. That was why they changed the charge to attempted murder. It all means that nobody who has examined the evidence from a professional standpoint so far could buy the nonsensical stories John is now peddling. And I urge DPA members to disregards such nonsense. We shall keep our eyes on the ball and we are interested only in one thing - John's excuse for attempting to kill Ivie. NOTE: You will see among what John attached a letter that Ivie purportedly wrote to Zenith apologizing for allegedly dragging Zenith's name to the mud. You are smart. You would wonder what kind of Bank would go to the extent of forcing a victim who was still in the hospital to write such a letter. That letter is actually a smoking gun against Zenith. In fact, with that letter, we can upgrade out accusations of Zenith Bank from breach of its social responsibility to active persecution and harassment and obstruction of justice. They forced Ivie to call the incident a family dispute that should be resolved within the family, even while the state is prosecuting it as a crime against the Nigerian public. The reason they forced her to describe the incident as such was actually to influence John's indictment and make it appear that it was indeed a family matter. That is called obstruction of justice. This case is just setting. I think that John has grossly miscalculated what is at stake here. The stories he peddles on his Facebook wall do not cut it at all, and DPA members and the general public will keep their eyes on the ball. Written By Emeka Ugwuonye, Esquire' Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/11/zenith-bank-staff-who-accused-his-wife.html 3 Likes
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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by herzernn: 8:41pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Looks like a Photoshop to me... 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by amuijiji: 8:56pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Sincerely marriage aint worth it any longer..... 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Theyveedo(m): 9:03pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
This is getting interesting 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by CecyAdrian(f): 9:07pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
This case is sensitive and very deep! The so called husband is just playing smart by half, what led him to attack a woman he separated from for over two years or he expects her to remain faithful to him while he pursues anything in skirt despite not together anymore. This lawyer seems to know his onions well and if he pursues that point about Zenith bank breaching its social responsibility to active persecution, harassment and obstruction of justice, then that abusive husband is fried for life because even Zenith bank will strive to clear it's name from this messy case. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by meezynetwork(m): 9:14pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
interesting |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by abrahamakede555: 9:25pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
It is not all that glitters that you see as gold. Since this matter has generated to this point let all parties prepare well because from what I see from this, someone will pay... And interestingly, it could be the Innocent among the two. 6 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by peterdrury: 9:25pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
It's no longer two sides of the story and the truth. It's now four sides. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by ojun50(m): 9:45pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Next don't post d people story here d whala has nt help any body 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:46pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
abrahamakede555:Both parties involved are guilty of all the aforementioned accusations..... Both parties cheated ,ivies own is much talked abt because she's a woman.....I pity none of them but the children. 17 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by J4parry(m): 9:51pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Where is the evidence of their separation or divorce according to the woman? There are so many sides to the story. Only two of them know who's deceiving who not the public that will take side based on sentiments. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Afonjatribeguy: 10:09pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
They should leave the public out of it and settle in the other room 5 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by zanebaddo(m): 10:43pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Sex is overrated 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Franchise21(m): 10:52pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by fineboynl(m): 10:58pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
since we have heard from both parties, now we need to hear from third & fourth party. marriage is a scam after waste of money and time. baby mama is the future. 13 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by maxti: 11:06pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
This Lawyer sounds more like a trouble maker to me. Sounds more like he has a lot to gain by making sure the man is prosecuted. #myopinion #saynotoGBV 61 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by HtwoOw: 11:17pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
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Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by BrutalJab: 4:12am On Nov 18, 2016 |
Lie lie Looking for one way or the other to make the man guilty. We ain't buying this. 32 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by talktonase(m): 4:37am On Nov 18, 2016 |
amuijiji:honestly it breaks me to smithereens every time I hear such stories and further makes me have disbelief in the institution... 5 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Nobody: 5:07am On Nov 18, 2016 |
herzernn: You must be his friend 6 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Tunmmyzhe: 5:57am On Nov 18, 2016 |
there are 3 faces to the case o The husband side The Wife side and The Truth With what I have been reading so far both the husband and wife have fault in one way or the other but women always play gender game sa. But what I know is that no Lawyer will enter the Kingdom of God The thing called "marriage" is overrated!!! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Jayboi(m): 6:44am On Nov 18, 2016 |
this aint photoshop o. only God knows the truth 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by ednut1(m): 6:45am On Nov 18, 2016 |
amuijiji:bros i tell u. na big time set up. the society nd parents will hoodwink u into it. when d gobe start na only u go bear am. just imagine wat dis will do to their kids chai 3 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Kingbuhari(m): 6:47am On Nov 18, 2016 |
best thing so far is contract marriage or contract children after set and done I settle you, take my children and u get ur ass out of my life, bad wife is a nightmare... TUFIAKWA 4 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Pennywise(m): 7:02am On Nov 18, 2016 |
Emeka Ugwuonye may be a lawyer but in this write up, he plays the role of an amateur fictionist. I don't know him from Adam but it is regrettable he had to resort to desperate measures to clean up a discredited, morally fetid and repugnant client (he is clearly playing the role of her lawyer, whether he has her brief or not). He has blackmailed Zenith bank into unjustly sacking an employee who may yet be innocent at the end of the day. Whose only crime apparently now is marrying the wrong woman. Emeka Ugwuonye with the DPA in tow is free to upgrade the charges to murder if it suits them. But they still have to prove their case in court. The evidence in public domain reveals that Ivie and John still carried on as man and wife even while living apart. Ivie while still married to John carried on with an amorous affair while confessing she had changed. Thankfully no life was lost in the face of this extreme provocation of a helpless man. It would seem his motive for being present at the scene was to tell Ivie that I have caught u again in spite of your numerous assurances of change. The violence that ensued in the presence of the equally morally depraved lover becomes a footnote. If John was actually responsible for her injury and wanted her dead, he would aim for her head and not her leg. The incident there for could not have been more than a mere accident caused by a perpetually adulterous wife and a thief. The public will expect any reasonable Judge to understand this. John has simply suffered enough. He is the true victim here. Ivie is every prospective husband's nightmare. She wrecks everything she touch. From her job in airtel, to starcomm to STANBIC IBTC. They all check out. Her business? Double check. Her marriages? check. Matthews marriage? Check. Ivie makes a very bad case for use as a domestic abuse victim. There are many truly innocent ones suffering silently. 105 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by aAK1(m): 7:13am On Nov 18, 2016 |
The lawyer is daft. He is not saying for sure,That the man lied. He is more or less justifying the woman's actions. 16 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by otimize(m): 8:07am On Nov 18, 2016 |
Hmmm...... Signs of end time! Where is the love At the end marriage is all about looking at for each other not just Sex!!! |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by abrahamakede555: 10:09am On Nov 18, 2016 |
fineboynl: Let's not forget... The law does not consider the truth because actually there is no truth in the court. It is how well both parties can build their strong case and evidence to follow that determines who wins. Since the real case is how the lady became crippled, I think the man should start planning on what to say and how to say it, because I don't think he has proof that they were three victims involved, as opposed to the womans claim. Am also sure if the man was actually right, the woman should have settled the security men that interveined because she was in her territory. But either ways, if you are waiting to hear the truth, you will only wait in vein because there is no truth in court. 10 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by chudyprince: 10:14am On Nov 18, 2016 |
My battery remains only two bars after reading the whole bullshit |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by Adeoba10(m): 11:06am On Nov 18, 2016 |
After i wasted my time to read d formal post with whatsapp chat, receipt n co, you are asking me to continue with this bullshit... To hell with u n ur wife.... What i know z dat only you, your wife n God knows d truth, we, d spectators are just being fed with lies... 6 Likes |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by freeman95(m): 11:07am On Nov 18, 2016 |
FUCKERY |
Re: John Edobor Caught In Bed With Another Lady (Pics) by freesinzu(m): 11:07am On Nov 18, 2016 |
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