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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by H2Ossss(m): 10:03pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
dollyjoy: And with such dirty language you expect me, if I happen to be your bf to respect you and give u money? I now see y u gals get nothing , cz u re not respected. Behind up girl... Speak with courtesy and see your life change for the better... Thank me later 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by firstking01(m): 10:04pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:And you think you got it |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Valprof: 10:08pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
dollyjoy:do u gv ? 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 10:10pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
firstking01:ehn nah.. It's Saul jare |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Valprof: 10:12pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
miremoses:na so dat girl egocentric bitch dy do......i neva knw wetin dy pain am |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by firstking01(m): 10:13pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:Who succeeded him? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 10:16pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
firstking01:David jor who dosnt knw dat1 |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by firstking01(m): 10:18pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:For your mind you sabi bible ba? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 10:20pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
firstking01:abi is it Nebuchadnezzar ? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by jezuzboi(m): 10:21pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:And "maybe" money too? Why "MAYBE?" Why not "and money too?" Sounds "stingy." |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 10:23pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
jezuzboi:ok.. And obviously money too dear |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by firstking01(m): 10:24pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:Nope, you got it right. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 10:27pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
firstking01: |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by jezuzboi(m): 10:37pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:What about stingy girls? Should guys keep them? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Valprof: 10:40pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:givingb dnt make me feel lyk a real man.......givin a man cud as well make u feel lyk a superwoman |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 10:44pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
miremoses: These are the kind of guys we have in this generation
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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by jezuzboi(m): 10:44pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez:Is the guy the only one entitled to share with u? Can't u also share with him as part of love? Or it is not in a woman's place to also be generous with money and those other little things? I'm confused here... |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by sinizia: 10:45pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
JLopez: Why did you edit out your other story? To make your reply doesn't fail the second time? Well, that guy in your story is super stingy and his case is pathetic. I would complain too if I was his gf. Between me and you, I'll tell you this - relationships are between two people. It takes two to tango. the love, affection and time you said you bring to a relationship in your first post, a man can bring that too. A man can give you love and time too. If it's the sêx, you both enjoyed it and sêx is cheaper these days anyway and a man can get enough from other sources. What matters is what else you can bring to a relationship apart from the normal attributes you listed up there. See, men are naturally less stingy than women coz we're by nature the bread winners and provider of the family which includes females. Yes, there are stingy men out there but there more stingy women than men out there too. Sometimes you don't expect the man to spend all the time, a little reciprocation according to your financial strength is okay. Buying foodstuffs and cooking for him is a way to spend on a guy. Getting him a perfume is also spending on a guy. And if that guys loves you and is financially okay, he'll appreciate those gestures and spoil you silly. These days men are more attracted to women that shows they can contribute financially too no matter how little. For example, I don't mind a girl who's unemployed or maybe a student depending on her dad buying me boxers and stuff. Others might laugh at it but I'd appreciate it coz she's trying her best, and I'll reciprocate more than that depending on my financial status. She doesn't have to get me a gold. A little gesture is enough for me to know she's not stingy. Not staying back and allowing me spend all the time. Also before you judge a guy as being stingy or not, try to juxtapose what he's earning or his current financial status with what he's affording for you. You don't expect a student who's depending on his father to get you costly gifts. The few he can afford, learn to appreciate it so he can be even be encouraged to do more. Reciprocate too. There's love in sharing. Cheers. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 10:50pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by jezuzboi(m): 10:53pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
Maychang:Are the guys the only ones entitled to give the said "gifts?" Can't a lady also give the said gifts to show love? I actually buy the idea. But must the gifts only come from the guys? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
berryice:If he give you today and he doesn't have tomorrow you will still call him a stingy guy. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
H2Ossss:Don't mind them.If he has been giving them upkeeps but didn't have at a particular time she will say he is stingy. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Hollawayn05(m): 12:04am On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by berryice(f): 3:47am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Love Machine:not atall I won't...cos I knw he got no money cos he has given me befr |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by mctowel01: 5:23am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez:Are you worth it? 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by mctowel01: 5:29am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez:What do you then give a guy for also dressing clean and fine ? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:46am On Nov 19, 2016 |
mctowel01:u say? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:51am On Nov 19, 2016 |
sinizia:a lady will buy the boxers etc wen d guy is also trying his best and dropping something. It's d guy who will pave d way on how the giving or sharing of the relationship shuld be. Wen he gives u all d time , u have no option dan to do same no mata how little. But ehn some guys wunt drop anything Atall .. So Whr will d buying of boxers come from? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:54am On Nov 19, 2016 |
jezuzboi:both should do d sharing.. Bt u knw some pple are naturally stingy ryt,? Date dem for a year and 1k wunt even join u both .. How den do u expect me to give him in such case? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:54am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Valprof: |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:55am On Nov 19, 2016 |
jezuzboi:stingy pple r generally disgusting |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:57am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Love Machine:ofcourse we will undastnd wen he dosnt have bcus he has been giving us . Wat abt guys dat claim not to have all d tym. |
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