Stupedinluv:
I'll break the rules for you

kuchikau1:
.. Well is never ur fault..i blame d stupid set of guys that chase u around.
Ur big TOTO don give u leverage to rant.

Diamondqueen:

let's get married asap.

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Masonic:
You've said it all. I personally won't take away the element of surprise when I'm dating a lady I plan on settling with. I won't cohabit with her, I won't let her cook too often or even clean. Doing that takes away the anticipation and when there ain't nothing to look forward to or be excited about, I sure as hell ain't gonn marry your ass.

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Hadez:

One was even talking about fucccking for free
Seems those here know nothing else from sex sex and sex

Hadez:

Thank you for this comment. So many myopic minds on romance section

Maxi112:
its not advisable to always Cook for your boyfriend every time you visit him. its advisable to cook good food for him once in a while

Hadez:

My thoughts too but girls feel it is their right to cook for a guy who hasn't even officially propose to you

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Touchey:

wow I'm already salivating

crazymommy:
young lady look here,what mimzy is saying shows alot of maturity and common sense,if a lady goes to see her boyfriend and she allows him to have sex whenever she visit him even when he has not paid her bride price now what should now be the big deal in the regular cooking whenever she visits him??if the cooking is not her duty as a girlfriend then why allow him to continue having sex with you like a wife that he has paid bride price on??isn't that hypocritical??sex is mutual understanding you claimed and yes !!cooking is same too because i do not think any guy will put knife on your neck if you do not cook for him,by the way the food you are cooking ,you sef can eat out of it,is no big deal...if the regularly cooking for someone you are not married to is wrong or downgrading then Same way sex with the person you are not married too should be wrong based on your "big deal in the regular cooking"....if you are someone that you are in a "no sex" relationship and you tell me "regular cooking to someone you are not married to is somehow wrong then i would totally agree with you...but if it is otherwise then it is a stark hypocrisy.....even one of your comments you mentioned something like what if she cooks everything she can cook for him while dating then what will happen when they finally get married when he is already used to all her cooking already before the marriage,well the same thing applies to the sex,he is already eating the honeypot already even before they got married...so they are all the same thing.

Olumaeme:
Well, if you visit your man and you will not cook, definitely you would bring the money you will use to eat in the restaurant when you are coming or probably take garri all through.

Because I don't know how you will visit your boyfriend and spend lest say 1week and cook only twice, are you expecting him to always take you to restaurant anytime you are hungry?

Lest take for example you go visit your man in Port Harcourt from Lagos during the holiday and spend like 2wks with him, you will only cook twice or thrice, hehehehehehehehehehehehehe u go hungry eeehnn, because you don't expect him to take you to restaurant everyday... And later you want me to come pay your bride price of Over 700k if you are from Imo State

AND note that if you don't want to cook, then don't expect transport fare because you have added no value and it's a waste of time and money.
Don't also expect money for hair or any meaningful gift since the guy too has to spend on somebody who will help and assist him.
NO pain, No gain.

Ladies of nowadays are something else, they want all the goodies but don't want to do anything...
They fantasize how lucky Emoney's wife is when he bought her a jeep, they love when you treat them like Queens but won't want to treat you like king.

The thunder that will fire you...... Is coming from North Korea!

Hadez:

You can't put the whole blame on them, sometimes it is love

kuchikau1:
.. Well is never ur fault..i blame d stupid set of guys that chase u around.
Ur big TOTO don give u leverage to rant.

KissChrix:
I must surely taste a Lady's food before marrying Her Plenty times infact


Even after marrying Her, She must spend one week at my mum's place to learn how to prepare my favourites

KissChrix:
I must surely taste a Lady's food before marrying Her Plenty times infact


Even after marrying Her, She must spend one week at my mum's place to learn how to prepare my favourites

Joy1706:
Me I don't do chores for any guy o when I've not finished doing mine in my father's house. You wanna know if I can cook? I can host you in my place.

Doctorfitz:

Doctorfitz:

Dfinex:


and u sleep with guys that u are not married to? he gives u stuffs and money, u don't remind him that u both are not married ....smh.

tufiakwa...running away from Pharisees.

Hadez:

You can't put the whole blame on them, sometimes it is love