Joy1706:
Me I don't do chores for any guy o when I've not finished doing mine in my father's house. You wanna know if I can cook? I can host you in my place.

EmperorLee:







You, I just dey spy you with gbejero eye

NEWTONDEGREAT:
I see, first nairaland topic without a picture reply

NEWTONDEGREAT:
I see, first nairaland topic without a picture reply

Joy1706:
Me I don't do chores for any guy o when I've not finished doing mine in my father's house. You wanna know if I can cook? I can host you in my place.

Stupedinluv:
Is this even a question? Who doesnt know only desperate girls do that.

next pls

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Masonic:


The OP was asking if it is right to cook for a bf on the regular. Like you're his mommy or something

pokipoki:
That's one of the reason why there are lots of single women out there. Too much fakeness. Only to be sampled and rotated by guys. It's your problem sha!!!. Good luck .

Olumaeme:
Well, if you visit your man and you will not cook, definitely you would bring the money you will use to eat in the restaurant when you are coming or probably take garri all through.

Because I don't know how you will visit your boyfriend and spend lest say 1week and cook only twice, are you expecting him to always take you to restaurant anytime you are hungry?

Lest take for example you go visit your man in Port Harcourt from Lagos during the holiday and spend like 2wks with him, you will only cook twice or thrice, hehehehehehehehehehehehehe u go hungry eeehnn, because you don't expect him to take you to restaurant everyday... And later you want me to come pay your bride price of Over 700k if you are from Imo State

AND note that if you don't want to cook, then don't expect transport fare because you have added no value and it's a waste of time and money.
Don't also expect money for hair or any meaningful gift since the guy too has to spend on somebody who will help and assist him.
NO pain, No gain.

Ladies of nowadays are something else, they want all the goodies but don't want to do anything...
They fantasize how lucky Emoney's wife is when he bought her a jeep, they love when you treat them like Queens but won't want to treat you like king.

The thunder that will fire you...... Is coming from North Korea!

girl4rmspace:


Only desperate girls? Are you for real! One can cook for her man if she wishes and it's not desperation, it's her homely instincts kicking in

I know lots of guys who got married to their wives because of how good she cooks. The saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is no joke


You have a very flawed opinion if you think only desperate girls cook

girl4rmspace:


Only desperate girls? Are you for real! One can cook for her man if she wishes and it's not desperation, it's her homely instincts kicking in

I know lots of guys who got married to their wives because of how good she cooks. The saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is no joke


You have a very flawed opinion if you think only desperate girls cook

Hadez:

One was even talking about fucccking for free
Seems those here know nothing else from sex sex and sex

beautycrush24:
I smell hypocrisy everywhere. You can't cook for your boyfriend cos you don't want to take away the element of surprise. Which yeye surprise? Is it not better he gets fed up before marriage so u can jejely walk away than for you to force him into marriage and he still gets fed up of the food and starts treating u anyhow when u wont be free to walk away. Starving him wont make him marry you and feeding him 24/7 wont make him marry you either. So our dear "uncheap" ladies, stop following any rule books and just do what your heart says is right.

I'm sure some of these ones forming jackie chan be begging their boyfriends up and down and spending their father's money on them. You can't cook for him my a$$

Fake a$$ pple everywhere. I so hate hypocrites.

girl4rmspace:


Only desperate girls? Are you for real! One can cook for her man if she wishes and it's not desperation, it's her homely instincts kicking in

I know lots of guys who got married to their wives because of how good she cooks. The saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is no joke


You have a very flawed opinion if you think only desperate girls cook

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

saintCaligula:
You must be kidding me..
Incase you dont know, I've seen men that fell for ladies just by eating their food and incase you don't know, men respect ladies that cook always to the once that goes to an eatery often

Alezy:
pls can I join u in space?

Mimzyy:
Except you guys are in a 'no sex' relationship then this is hypocrisy. I mean he bleeps you whenever you guys want but you Wana ration the number of times you cook for him just 'cos he hasn't paid your bride price? Talk about double standards. Pftttt.

PS: A man knows who his heart belongs to, if you like do monkey flips on his d!ck and fry his chicken on diamond oil, if it's not you then it's not you. Ce que sera sera.

Alezy:
pls can I join u in space?

Doctorfitz:






Chai Nnaa mehn u too fine. ...u are really from space. But if Dats not ur pic God go judge u

Alezy:
u re wise

girl4rmspace:


Lol it is and thanks anyway

willibounce1:
Ordinary female friends cook for their male friends. A guy is dating you a a girl and you are thinking if it is right to cook for him.

Why not ask if it is right to collect gifts, money and lashing from him? Some girls are just funny. What is so special about cooking for anybody, whether your boyfriend or grandfather? A good cook would definitely want to show her skills, except you be learner.

Masonic:


Lol, that's how low we've sunk hun.. Anything to please the crowd at the expence of the truth. The people with such mindset usually end up cussing out men for dumping them after they've given their "all". Kindly note that "all" in this context usually means sacrifice. This sacrifice largely involves sex and manual labour.

Well, like I said, I cant allow a potential wife cook for me too often. Every man wants a good cook, no doubt. That's why I would insist she cooks every once in a while. I don't need to eat her food daily to be sure she's a chef. If she cooks for me on the regular and I get used to it, [b]it starts to loose its value overtime. But if every once in a whi[/b]le, she gives me a treat, I would surely look forward to claiming that lass for myself.

But then again... I dont expect fickle minded kids to understand the dynamics of courtship.

Masonic:


Lol, that's how low we've sunk hun.. Anything to please the crowd at the expence of the truth. The people with such mindset usually end up cussing out men for dumping them after they've given their "all". Kindly note that "all" in this context usually means sacrifice. This sacrifice largely involves sex and manual labour.

Well, like I said, I cant allow a potential wife cook for me too often. Every man wants a good cook, no doubt. That's why I would insist she cooks every once in a while. I don't need to eat her food daily to be sure she's a chef. If she cooks for me on the regular and I get used to it, [b]it starts to loose its value overtime. But if every once in a whi[/b]le, she gives me a treat, I would surely look forward to claiming that lass for myself.

But then again... I dont expect fickle minded kids to understand the dynamics of courtship.

Dfinex:


neither is cooking for ur guy a duty, borrowing ur words '- it a thing of mutual understanding. no body is imposing that on the lady, it's her either to cook or not to cook.

but truth is there is no serious minded guy who intends taking a lady to the isle and would not check her culinary skills even if its for once.

Masonic:


Lol, that's how low we've sunk hun.. Anything to please the crowd at the expence of the truth. The people with such mindset usually end up cussing out men for dumping them after they've given their "all". Kindly note that "all" in this context usually means sacrifice. This sacrifice largely involves sex and manual labour.

Well, like I said, I cant allow a potential wife cook for me too often. Every man wants a good cook, no doubt. That's why I would insist she cooks every once in a while. I don't need to eat her food daily to be sure she's a chef. If she cooks for me on the regular and I get used to it, it starts to loose its value overtime. But if every once in a while, she gives me a treat, I would surely look forward to claiming that lass for myself.

But then again... I dont expect fickle minded kids to understand the dynamics of courtship.