Onegai:
eyinjuege, oya come and hear gist. I went to listen to gossip from some people . Ivie and John are a pair and totally deserve each other. It is such a messy situation that neither of them are in any way trustworthy nor are their hands clean. All that has to be determined is who was holding the object when she got hurt. But the lies both of them have told up till this moment I agree with you, all the other receipts said "Mr and Mrs" only the last said "Mr". And read the comment section of blogs carrying this story: people who know them say she has a history of taking and defaulting on loans and he has a history of collecting huge sums of money from her to finance his responsibilities.

ekoboy:

Ma guy whats the frustration for na? Only expressed an opinion which we are all entitled to. No need for the insult.

Viking007:
After God, fear Nigerian women.

BuddhaPalm:


My man, all women na the same model...

One should have a healthy fear for them all.

eyinjuege:


I tire for their wahala. I need to go back and start reading the pages on this thread, it seems to have suddenly gotten interesting .
People like too much stress. Life is too short to spend it chasing after someone that doesn't want you. Its not worth it at the end of the day.
Violence has never resolved issues, especially love wantintin matters.

Daboomb:


There are also holes in your analysis!

First, his children live at Surulere, with their mother.
In this age of randy paedophilia (which has a high proportion of mother's Boyfriends committing the crime), the man might be worried for his daughter, seeing what his daughters are being exposed to, at an early age.
So, he has reason to go to that house, to confirm if really, some "Uncle mathew" is seducing hos daughters with Suya.
A responsible woman with three daughters should never expose them to seeing a man sneaking into their mother's bedroom overnight.


Secondly, true, she suffered a broken leg but how that translates into "attempted murder", is the work of incompetent Police men who are probably acting under some financial inducement.
Its a good thing they are even charging him for attempted murder and not Assualt because any good Lawyer will get that charge thrown out, at first attempt.
It could be an aggravated assault charge but Murder is just a stretch, a useless one for that matter.
You dont attempt to kill somebody by hitting them on the leg!
What happened to hitting them on the head, chest or other sensitive area that are very open and accessible? Nonsense.
How do you "prove" that he attempted to KILL HER?
Murder is not proved by saying he has the "intent", without solid evidence (like a knife cut to the throat or a blow to the head) that expressly confirms that the intent was to kill.... but the attempt failed.

Now, you have mixed-up the picture of the fetus at 5months (when they have limbs) and five weeks when they are just a blob.
Dont be so hasty to defend. You missed it completely.

You also goofed by saying "it was the Judge who amended the case to attempted murder"!
Judges to amend case, they decide on exactly what is brought before them irrespective of what they think.
It is only her Lawyer who can (but in this case, l think it is the Public Prosecutor, the Police IPO, who amended the charge).

Now, as per his defence, the accused, through his Lawyer just needs to show the inconsistency in her stories (lies ) indicating that the court cannot take her word for truth, show her character (like previous terminations for crimes at her former work places) to be somebody who cannot be trusted and that where there is no witness to the event, her version is not worth believing.

I am sure the guy has enough exhibit to show, even if he did assault her, it was due to extreme provocation.
How do you sleep with another man, while carrying a pregnancy for your husband... and then go abort the children just to hide your shameless act? What manner of women do we have these days?

As long as they are still legally married and his children are under that roof at Surulere house, he has all the right to be there.
The person who has no right to be there (and l really hoped it was his head that was broken and it will be legal) is that family destroyer called Mathew.
The husband should counter-sue and join Mathew to the suit.
That way, the matter will be open before the Judge, in all its ramifications

At the end of the day, the Judge will advice them to be Civil with each other or seek a divorce

Another angle to the story is that while the matter is in court (sub judice), some NGO has taken it upon themselves to act as Judge and Jury by tarnishing the image of the husband at his place of work, causing his sack.
When all these is concluded (the assault matter), if he is discharged nd acquitted, he needs to sue the NGO and sue Zenith bank, for qrongful termination and demand very punitive damages.

The assault/attempted murder/infidelity/termination of fetus without consent is a domestic issue.
It has NOTHING to do with his job or Zenith Bank because it did not occur at Zenith bank, while he was on Zenith bank's premises or duty and Zenith should not have acted, without waiting for the decision of the court.
The worst they coul dhave done is place him on temporary leave (with pay), to sort out his legal issues and then act when the court decides.

By sacking him, Zenith Bank has already pronounced him guilty, deprived him of the means to prosecute his case (financially) and acted on a matter pending in court.

I guess the Zenith payout will feed him for the rest of his life.

Employers like Zenith bank, need to understand that when shyt happens between husband and wife, it is to be decided in a family court of law, not in the office and a lot of women at taking advantage and making their estranged spouse to lose their job, in this hard times, even on trumped-up charges.

crazymommy:
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Onegai:
eyinjuege, oya come and hear gist. I went to listen to gossip from some people . Ivie and John are a pair and totally deserve each other. It is such a messy situation that neither of them are in any way trustworthy nor are their hands clean. All that has to be determined is who was holding the object when she got hurt. But the lies both of them have told up till this moment I agree with you, all the other receipts said "Mr and Mrs" only the last said "Mr". And read the comment section of blogs carrying this story: people who know them say she has a history of taking and defaulting on loans and he has a history of collecting huge sums of money from her to finance his responsibilities.

Onegai:


Beautiful! I'm quoting you because I wanted to remember who you said your lecturer was.

I spoke to a couple of lawyers. I dunno, but I kinda get the feeling they are more experienced than you guys (I mean, one may be a SAN, the other may have work with very popular chambers and be an experienced 20 year lawyer, one may have been a former Head of a Law school, but maybe you guys are much more experienced). Anyhoo, they kept asking me who exactly said John Edobor was fired by Zenith Bank for this case and all we could see was that the lawyer representing Ivie Edobor wrote that he sent an email to Zenith Bank and someone (some unnamed official) made a phonecall to him stating he was fired because of it. That so far, Zenith Bank has not released any official statement. One of the lawyers said that it was weird that lawyers would NOT know that a termination is based on whatever contract an employee signed with his employer and Zenith Bank cannot willy-nilly fire anyone just like that for any reason, that the Banking Union can easily take up the case of wrongful termination. So if John Edobor got fired, he got fired for breaching some part of the contract he signed with Zenith Bank as per his employment. They all wondered why you two were speculating based on unverified reports that Zenith Bank had fired John Edobor for this case. A fact I kept mentioning but you ignored. Both lawyers asked if you and Daboomb had ever studied Contract Law and one asked for your name , since you mentioned a lecturer. If you would to speak to them, please let me know: I'm sure you know better than they do and you would like a chance to argue your position

See this clown trying to rewrite HISTORY!
You think everyone is not so intelligent as not to keep tabs on what they say?
You and your dull, charge and bail SAN that you are talking to!

Abeg, park well, whoever you are representing in this matter, on Nairaland.

Onegai:


You believed what Ivie Edobor's lawyer wrote about his termination, which made no sense to even[b] a non-lawyer like me[/b]. How is it possible that such could happen? That should have been your first line: "this guy is a joker, which bank's legal team will make such an error and leave the bank exposed to a lawsuit later?"

Anyway, me, I don't want to fight. I have stuff to do and I'm sure you do too. Have a good weekend.

Okay, case closed!

Now l understand why you run your mouth the way you have been doing since yesterday!
Though l think it is out of shame that u are doing a U-turn.

You are not a Lawyer and you are unintelligent, to boot!

Now scram joor.

Daboomb:


Okay, case closed!

Now l understand why you run your mouth the way you have been doing since yesterday!
Though l think it is out of shame that u are doing a U-turn.

You are not a Lawyer and you are unintelligent, to boot!

Now scram joor.

lozanni:


I tell you.
If you fall into the hands of a karasheka, you are as good as finished.
Imagine losing your plum job and being arraigned for attempted murder.
Anyway, if the marriage had broken down, the guy should have accepted that fact, sought for a divorce and moved on with his life, who knows if fate might bring a more loving and faithful lady his way.

Rexleo:
you my dear is a big fraud,daboomb just took onegirl to cleaners and the next minute you here praise singing urself with a different moniker.shame lawyer girl

missjo:

I'm just going to be honest and admit that your comments so far sound more professionally thought-out. I'm not into law and I don't even like the profession so after reading her first post, I guess I got carried away and was actually one of those who liked it because it looked well analyzed although I didn't quite get some parts.

I think the issue of 'anticipatory guilt' is very much sensible particularly because he has not be pronounced guilty by a court of law, so terminating his appointment on a case that is yet to be decided is overkill.
Perhaps his termination was not linked to the case, and they just used the opportunity to fire him as I heard most banks are currently downsizing. But it still doesn't look good either way.

Thanks for your insight.

Daboomb:


This is where most Nigerian men need to WAKE-UP and face reality!

*Our culture gives Men the impression that they are "The Boss" of the family (rightly so, but no longer applicable in this wicked Ipad-age!).

*Most Men feel they can manage any situation within their household, without outside hlep.

*Most Men consider it a weakness, if they should tell people about how thier wife is physically and psychologically abusing them!

*How many men would "open agree" that their wife has slapped them but they took it on the chin, just to keep the family together and not let outsiders know what is going-on? But under their roof, many men suffer in silence. Look at this John, he kept quiet until he was almost rail-road into jail. The last straw that make him speak out was the job sacking!

*Culture also means that we dont want to go the divorce route, when the signal alarms are sounding.

*Most men believe they can always "command" their wife to clam down forgetting that once a woman cheats on you, by their human nature, the marriage is dead (Men cheat for a fling, adventure but women mostly cheat because they are in-love with their accomplice!

*Most men would not open-up to another man, about what they are facing in their individual homes while women onthe other hand, are noted to compare notes and give support to themselves, in a marriage break-down.

*In foreign countries, the Men are waking-up and form support groups to lend each other "experience" about how to challenge some of the "ancient tactics" that women use, to get away with blue murder!

[b]So, in summary, it is not always easy for a Nigerian man (or any man for that matter) to jump at a divorce!
But l think Men should consider Divorce, rather than using brute force to make a wife do what is right. You'll only ruin your life for a woman not worth it.... better ones are around the corner if you look properly and learned from your past experience


Just ask her to move-in with her chosen lover, arrange the children's "welfare and safety" (you dont want one Uncle to be fiddling with your daughters/sons, when he is done with their Mother and she is out of sight! It happens a lot though), then file for a Divorce.
Also make sure that she does not profit from your sweat so, from the onset, men need to think about how they tie-down their properties and how they include their wife's name in the said property.
When shyt hits the fan, Women will deal with their husband in a very callous way. By then Love does not matter one bit".[/b]

Sexyolori:

Hello, are you alright?
Go get your head checked. It takes a fraudster to know one.

janellemonae:

You conveniently left out d part dt the husband had cheated on the wife several times in the past. In ur head he wasn't wrong to "engage in a sexual relationship wt another woman". Right?? Typical.

cococandy:
That's what him and other hypocrites like him on the thread conveniently chose to ignore.

Onegai:


Thank you very much. Please submit your name so you can go teach my "charge and bail" lawyers. Don't be a chicken. You can do it! It's not be to running mouth anonymously, you are all equals na. I want to be able to say "so-and-so says he will school you in legal matters". Before someone who read your words and may have an issue with his company, takes your advice and sells his car to sue his former employers fighingt a case he has no chance of winning.


Or are you trying to login with your other moniker, is it still banned?

Daboomb:


Your acute lack of intelligence and pettiness really beggars belief!
But l wont come down to your level.
Go and look for ya mates and roll in the mud with them.

LoveDecay:


Women are becoming duller everyday... so if I kill a person you'd do the same.

Because, he cheated. You feel the responsible thing to do is to cheat as well knowing fully well this will cast doubt on the legitimacy of all your offsprings - as is happening at the moment to this women in this case.

janellemonae:


You conveniently left out d part dt the husband had cheated on the wife several times in the past. In ur head he wasn't wrong to "engage in a sexual relationship wt another woman". Right?? Typical.

Rexleo:
daboomb you can see that onegai and sexyolori are one and same.the truth of the matter is that most time a woman does not know when to stop lying and come clean on issues.what they understand is to ride on the back of the tiger and oppress.for zenith bank,it is just so bad that a corporate organization can not elevate itself above Slave thinking, well the organization is a slave driver what do u expect.For men out there Don clericuzio said LOVE is an unreliable emotion, for a woman when love moves out of the window they become very vile ,sadistic, wicked,totally different and unpredictable. They don't understand loyalty especially the African specie and what as made matter worse is that they don't understand consequence. Men be wise.

Onegai:
Ladies and gentlemen, if you're fighting with your spouse, save your messages. Email your Whatsapp and BBM messages with spouse to yourself. This is simple Spousal Battle Tactics 101. Everyone should know this.

noah24:


God help us all.. I ll kill a niqqa