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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 6:59am On Nov 19, 2016 |
jezuzboi:when ure dating a guy who gives u all d time, u wunt have any option Atall Dan to give him too |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by goodfornothing(m): 7:03am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez is the typical Nigerian girl I was talking about. Go for the rich guy, and dump him when he's broke. Tell me what makes you different from roadside prostitutes Cc Nma27, SycophanticGoat. Shebi both of you were insulting me. Come here now and insult Lopez and all the girls that supported her thread. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 7:08am On Nov 19, 2016 |
goodfornothing: Tell me how this is an insult to you alone.. SycophanticGoat: My comment simply attacks all Nigerians that are quick to generalize and call other groups bad when they have worse kind of people within their own group. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 7:12am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez: This is why Nigerians get fat easily.. exercise is never in their dictionary. A young fellow offers you an advise to exercise and you take it as being stingy... 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by mctowel01: 7:14am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez:And problems with comprehension? |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by Nobody: 7:15am On Nov 19, 2016 |
goodfornothing:Are u broke and got ur heart shattered? If yes, just know it won't last long... Just stay focused and make yourself happy dear. Surely you'll meet her soon. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:15am On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:17am On Nov 19, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat:lmaoooo exercise koh u will knw d difference Btwn wen someone rilli care abt ur being fat and when someone is stingy |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:19am On Nov 19, 2016 |
goodfornothing:ok mr good for nothing |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 7:23am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez: Really, do you know that the guy may simply want you to slim down? Can I see your recent pic on your DP? That way, I'd confirm if he wanted to help you slim down or he's just being stingy with his petrol (which is almost unlikely). There could also be other reasons why he behaved in such manner, you never can tell.. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:28am On Nov 19, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat:bros, Ayam not fat! I have the perfect shape. The reason why he can't get a taxi for u or drop u off is bcus of his stinginess . If I tell him to walk me down lemme get a taxi, he will happily walk me down. If u like loose ur hair for a whole year he wunt say anything abt it or abt ur look, but once u make ur hair he wil be the first to complement it. Such guys |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 7:33am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez: The bolded. Maybe he loves your natural looks The indented. Maybe he's just pretending to complement you when in fact, he loves your natural appearance. On the fatness thingy, I know how my country folks sees things. One may be fat but wouldn't know because someone else asking her out calls her slim. Just like how fat girls say they're chubby and all that.. Therefore, until I see for myself, I can't say by your comments that you ain't fat and don't need exercise.. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by goodfornothing(m): 7:37am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Nma27:No, I'm not broke; that word doesn't even exist in my dictionary. And there's nothing to shatter cos I can get really mean and heartless when I want to but never lose my focus. The only reason I called you to this thread is to have you eat your own words. Read from the first page and show me any female that didn't support the Op. That proves me right! |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by goodfornothing(m): 7:38am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez:Yeah, Jho wannabe. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:41am On Nov 19, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat:walai talai Ayam not fat ooo.. I have d figure 8 shape.. No b lie . Iffa show u my pix u wie droll over it truout today. So let's just leave dat aside Stop making excuses for him nah he is just stingy. What if he doesn’t buy you gifts, not even on your birthday or Val’s day, he usually visits you empty handed, and he dosnt even try to make up for it later. U knw u might make excuses for him dat he is broke as at dat time. But how about making up for it later?? Haba nah |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:43am On Nov 19, 2016 |
goodfornothing: |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by agwuabia: 7:45am On Nov 19, 2016 |
sinizia: That's my man speaking; you just nailed it. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by wristbangle: 7:47am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Relationship involves a two way thing where love, substance, affection, care, money and others are to be shared even though guys suppose to be the head fronts to initiate such process. A guy needs not to break a bank to impress his girlfriend but courtesy demands that on some occasion he gets gifts for his girlfriend and vice versa from his girlfriend. Also ladies need to understand relationship is not an avenue to make money or feast their financial burden on a guy because he has huge responsibilities to take care of but that doesn't mean he should be stingy to his gf. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 7:47am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez: Hehehehe, why not just show your pics and leave the drooling for me to decide if I'll or not. Well, some people are naturally stingy. It's not a guy's thing. Many girls out there are stingy as well. In relationships, a guy should buy a girl gifts and take her out. Same thing applies to the girls too. A girl should show her love and care to her man by also buying him gifts and opting to take him out once in a blue moon. But in Nigeria, girls see it as an abomination to buy gifts for her man or take him out.. It's a two way thing. |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:53am On Nov 19, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat:yeah something like dat. Y wunt I share wen he is also giving and sharing wit me? Lol |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 7:55am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez: Still waiting for the figure 8 shape to grace the screen of my mobile phone.. . |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:55am On Nov 19, 2016 |
wristbangle:awwww coming from a guy? Good to knw dat atlist one guy undastnd wat we ladies are saying.. After like how many pages? God bless u real good.. Pls explain to ur fellow guys ooo wrist |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 7:57am On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by SycophanticGoat: 8:03am On Nov 19, 2016 |
[quote author=JLopez post=51163694][/quote] This ain't you... And I can't see any figure 8 here, just figure 1... |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by kaboninc(m): 8:37am On Nov 19, 2016 |
[b] sinizia:[/b] Chaiiiiiii!! You spoke my mind and heart!!!! |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by mysticgal(f): 9:25am On Nov 19, 2016 |
kaboninc:Why won't it be your mind |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 9:28am On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by mysticgal(f): 9:34am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez:Stinginess is Stinginess. A guy should give out when his babe is in need |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by kaboninc(m): 9:53am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by firstking01(m): 10:21am On Nov 19, 2016 |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by sinizia: 10:28am On Nov 19, 2016 |
JLopez: Typical archaic Naija women mentality. It's the sort of thinking that makes some guys feel you 9jq ladies are nothing but discardable materials when he's tired of the relationship. It's this sort of thinking that makes some men feel like gods to women coz they provide virtually everything you can spot on the body of their ladies. It's this depending on the men ALL the time that makes it hard for a lady to fend on her own when she's threatened with divorce or quitting of a relationship. It's these dumb reasoning that makes a woman in an abusive relationship not to quit coz she's born to depend on men ALL the time. Tsk tsk!! I blame our society and not you, though. He'll spend on you ALL the time and then it'll make you CONSIDER to do the same NO MATTER HOW LITTLE. Just read what you spewed. And you wonder why men feel you ladies brings nothing else but sêx in a relationship. He gives you all the time and you give him little once in a while. I weep for 9ja girls. Let me tell you a story. My friend who left 9jq few yrs back told me that 9ja girls sucked, and I ask him why he said that. He told me that there's this California girl he really liked and was planning on wooing her and he felt the girl liked her too. So one night, they were strolling to no where in particular not knowing the girl had a plan. As they were strolling the girl told him to accompany him to a place which turned out to be a nice restaurant. She then asked the waiter to come over and after they had made their selections, she paid the bills and refused my friend from paying it. She told him they were on a date and she planned it that way and wanted to foot the bills. My friend was shocked coz no 9ja girl he'd ever dated did that for him. He said the girl was laughing at him coz she found it strange that my friend will be shocked she took him on a date on the first time and paid the bills. According to her, it's a normal thing and nothing weird about it. She even said my friend is weird for thinking it's an abnormal thing to do. See, up there is the difference between a typical 9ja girl like you that wants a guy to spend all the time before you can reciprocate SMALL. This is why 9ja guys treat you girls as properties. This mentality is very wrong, sis. Drop it, coz if I was your man and found out you act or think this way, I'll end the relationship. I was not born to provide ALL the time so you can consider giving me SMALL. you 9ja ladies have a long way to go. Cheers. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Stingy Guy by JLopez(f): 10:30am On Nov 19, 2016 |
sinizia:...... |
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