Masonic:
You've said it all. I personally won't take away the element of surprise when I'm dating a lady I plan on settling with. I won't cohabit with her, I won't let her cook too often or even clean. Doing that takes away the anticipation and when there ain't nothing to look forward to or be excited about, I sure as hell ain't gonn marry your ass.

You won't let her cook or clean too often merely because it takes away "anticipation"..... don't be surprised that when u finally get married to her.... u would discover she doesn't know how to properly hold a broom or how to wash a bathroom or how to cook some local foods u cherish or some other weird things every girl ought to know how to do except her. I guess that is when u will get credit for ur futuristic anticipation. Good luck Bro in ur choosen pattern of life.

AnusOdourInhaler:
My independent mind will not force you to cook for me, I'll cook for my self or take me to restaurant.. In fact, I'll be happy if you don't, because your just a person I happens to have mutual sex with.. So in essence, I'll spend on you wisely, as nothing is free, and you pay me back with good sex, that's our bargain. If I really need someone to cook for me, I'll hire a maid and be happy. If I need someone to advice me, my family is there, if I need to kill time, I can go for movies, if you don't want to give me children, I'll find some woman and pay for it.. So, there's no compulsion...

if you have mutual sex with her,you will spend on her wisely as nothing is free,you make it sound like a coded olosho affair,meaning you are indirectly paying for the mutual sex??

KissChrix:


So, cooking for one's husband is now slavery?? Aye mi

Or should I hire a maid to cook for Me when I have a wife?

This feminist movement is turning to something else

Don't mind them.If am dating you and you're feeling too big to cook for me then you're on your own.

Why not?
I can't allow my boyfriend be doing the cooking when I'm there, Maybe once in awhile though. But it's just logical that a girl does the cooking.

Hmmm.... if your bf is the type that loves food alot, pls cook for him often NOT always. For me, what shouldn't be part of the relationship is pre-marital sex. Cooking is one of the key criteria men look out for in a woman before settling down. Except you really don't know how to cook well. Mind you, there's no way you can exhaust all your delicacies for him while dating except if you are not creative. So make sure you rationalise what you cook for him. THIS IS APPLICABLE TO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ONLY!!!

Masonic:
You've said it all. I personally won't take away the element of surprise when I'm dating a lady I plan on settling with. I won't cohabit with her, I won't let her cook too often or even clean. Doing that takes away the anticipation and when there ain't nothing to look forward to or be excited about, I sure as hell ain't gonn marry your ass.

If you have had sex with her severally,then where is the anticipation??i would only agree with your point if you are in a no sex relationship...

Mustack:

pls advice her to use google finder

Hahahahahaha

I don't see the big deal in cooking for your man. Do it if you want too and don't if you don't want too. The same premise you made about cooking for ur man applies to sex, money, gifts etc.

It is a must! The worst thing that can happen to a man is to get hooked with a lady who cannot cook!

Ls0fdk:
nice one, just that the dumbtard sees opposing views as myopic

Spot on bro! We can't all have the same thought about issues of life and it doesn't mean the ones with opposing views are immature or kids. Rather, the one that has refused to accommodate other persons opinion even when it deem fit to all and sundry should have a proper brain check.
My two kobo!

You are not the provider of the food, so what's ur contribution if you won't cook?

Hadez:

Same goes for him

You're talking like a child! What's the meaning of beginning to hate Nigerian men? because of cooking?

Hadez:

So she is your slave! The only thing good you think can come from her is food? I am beginning to hate Nigerian men

SmellingAnus:
I have seen girls that know how to cook yet they still said they will go to catering school, I sure will marry a good cook , one thing I know is that wether she knows how to cook or not, I will still encourage her to consider going to a catering school

I don't even know the big deal in a wife always cooking for her husband, food that she will also eat from.. I can't understand why some see cooking for the family as slavery I can't be with a woman that can't or won't cook for me.. I will also help out in the kitchen too once in a while

I cannot marry a girl that see cooking as a duty! Girls I know cook for fun, they will even wanna cook if I make d attempt so they don't see it as a duty.the guy provides d food the woman cooks..division of labour

Hadez:


Sex is a mutual understanding not a duty.

crazymommy:
if you have mutual sex with her,you will spend on her wisely as nothing is free,you make it sound like a coded olosho affair,meaning you are indirectly paying for the mutual sex??

Yes! Just to be blunt..
Nothing is free, and nothing will ever be. So, I have to pay for a service rendered to me, because I hate stories like, you used and dump me..
Mutual sex here means, she consented and I did, and we both enjoyed ourselves, and finally, I paid for the service rendered to me in 'kind' .. Kind here means spending/giving money on her..
Kapish?

Dfinex:


neither is cooking for ur guy a duty, borrowing ur words '- it a thing of mutual understanding. no body is imposing that on the lady, it's her either to cook or not to cook.

but truth is there is no serious minded guy who intends taking a lady to the isle and would not check her culinary skills even if its for once.

abi o.. How will I know if she knows how to cook if she doesn't cook when we are still dating

Please change ur username....its disgusting! What is the meaning of this self?

SmellingAnus:
I have seen girls that know how to cook yet they still said they will go to catering school, I sure will marry a good cook , one thing I know is that wether she knows how to cook or not, I will still encourage her to consider going to a catering school

Doctorfitz:





Talk is cheap........

Ok na. If I do all those wifely duties for you, hope you won't complain if I ask you for money for school fees or upkeep. Cos if I do all that, you must do husband duties which is providing for all my needs.

Dfinex:


if u can let him have sex with u, what's difficult in cooking for him?

this is the best comment av ever seen

AnusOdourInhaler:

Yes! Just to be blunt..
Nothing is free, and nothing will ever be. So, I have to pay for a service rendered to me, because I hate stories like, you used and dump me..
Mutual sex here means, she consented and I did, and we both enjoyed ourselves, and finally, I paid for the service rendered to me in 'kind' .. Kind here means spending/giving money on her..
Kapish?

well you have a point though,that is what many new generation relationship has reduced to,and u begin to wonder how that is different to a guy sleeping with olosho,the guy also pays the olosho for the service she rendered and yes they both enjoyed each other too...and he paid for the service in kind ...and probably spent less......now i know why so many guys these days even prefer oloshos than having serious relationship with a lady...

dadabashua1:
you made a good point sister, there is nothing wrong with your point, but the question is hope u won't have a problem with him if one of his female friends see it as no big deal to cook for him.... mind you the number of men that loves food out numbered those that love sex

Must someone cook for him? Can't he learn how to cook? That's how someone will cook and put menstrual blood for you to eat. Go and learn how to cook

austinosita:


Clap for yasef

I'm clapping. You're looking for the mumu that will be do wifely duties for you. If she tells you to provide for her needs as a husband should, sheybi you'll start running your mouth

Joy1706:

Ok na. If I do all those wifely duties for you, hope you won't complain if I ask you for money for school fees or upkeep. Cos if I do all that, you must do husband duties which is providing for all my needs.

isn't it ironic that many people see cooking as a wifely duty but the regular sex has what??a girlfriend duty??the definition of stupidity is seeing the sex before marriage as a normal thing and sees cooking as a wifely duty....by the way cooking for someone you love has nothing to do with wifely duty,i know male guys that cook for their female friends and also ladies that cook for their male friends so what will now be the big deal in cooking for her boyfriend or her boyfriend cooking for her.....and do not even dare tell me you are a virgin....

Joy1706:

Ok na. If I do all those wifely duties for you, hope you won't complain if I ask you for money for school fees or upkeep. Cos if I do all that, you must do husband duties which is providing for all my needs.

SMH I wouldn't wanna offend ur dad by doing his duties ...cos u cook food wey me and you wan chop then I should pay ur sch fees..... Na Me and you dey go d school abi we go share d certificate...... I wonder how you ladies reason these days....

crazymommy:
well you have a point though,that is what many new generation relationship has reduced to,and u begin to wonder how that is different to a guy sleeping with olosho,the guy also pays the olosho for the service she rendered and yes they both enjoyed each other too...and he paid for the service in kind ...and probably spent less......now i know why so many guys these days even prefer oloshos than having serious relationship with a lady...

That's just it.. Thanks to the feminists.
They are the ones that gave us such orientation.
In the long run, the method proves that, it's quite effective, saves money and legal troubles

Joy1706:

I'm clapping. You're looking for the mumu that will be do wifely duties for you. If she tells you to provide for her needs as a husband should, sheybi you'll start running your mouth

But you can ffuck him bah?

DMerciful:
Please change ur username....its disgusting! What is the meaning of this self?

hahahhahah forget about the container and focus on the content... But what is disgusting about the moniker after defecation , could the anus be referred to as scentedanus or smellinganus

crazymommy:
isn't it ironic that many people see cooking as a wifely duty but the regular sex has what??a girlfriend duty??the definition of stupidity is seeing the sex before marriage as a normal thing and sees cooking as a wifely duty....by the way cooking for someone you love has nothing to do with wifely duty,i know male guys that cook for their female friends and also ladies that cook for their male friends so what will now be the big deal in cooking for her boyfriend or her boyfriend cooking for her.....and do not even dare tell me you are a virgin....

Thank you jor

Hadez:
I find this very interesting to discuss here and I will go straight to the point.

I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him. It is important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life.if you are his friend,you act like his friend and if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife, you also act like one.

A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you, what threat wil I give you when we get married?
I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife! What are your opinion ladies?

men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

Not patient enough to read the epistle..
But the headline question aroused my interest.

I don't have much to say but I will tell u this...

My wife displaced the idiot that was of the opinion that she owed me no wifely duties while still dating.

And for me, love wasn't just enough

What's your obsession with anus?

SmellingAnus:
hahahhahah forget about the container and focus on the content... But what is disgusting about the moniker after defecation , could the anus be referred to as scentedanus or smellinganus

DMerciful:
What's your obsession with anus?

hahhaha I should be asking you cos it's the anus that attracted you to mention me...