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Open Letter To Single Guys by Hadez(f): 12:27pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
A Letter To Single Men Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared with you lately? The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't an easy job, I must confess! But with God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there. I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship. This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them. If you know she's not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed. If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you. It's better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future. What are you doing about your life and future? I know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered. If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your life or you're still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself. Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it's too late. Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil's music, it's better you start learning God's steps. Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a 'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sex but you can choose to abstain. Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems 'rubber' cannot prevent. It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life. Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife. Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you? Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life. Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it's fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction. Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It's not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time. Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger. Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront. My guy, you're going to be a father someday. Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter. If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don't tread the path now. I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I'm constrained due to space. Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend. Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in necessary areas 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 12:29pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by DozieInc(m): 12:35pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
ok |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 12:48pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Hadez:You're indirectly creating awareness about your intents for miss Nairaland 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:06pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:08pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
summary please 2 Likes |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:09pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
God knows I didn't read it. I swear to God, I didn't 4 Likes |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:14pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by slimthugchimee2(m): 1:16pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
i wont read that crap not even in my next life 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by MackBrooklyn: 1:22pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
*Spits on the thread* *Spits on the thread once again!!* 1 Like
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:28pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
I think "men" already know what they want, so this letter is directed to the "boys or players". 2 Likes |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:30pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:31pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
●●● Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.●●● Is this letter for a Gay single man 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:31pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by slimthugchimee2(m): 1:32pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by ednut1(m): 1:34pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by kinggogo: 1:35pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Crap Total BS 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Danfuster(m): 1:38pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Bullocks! Bullocks!! Bullocks!!! 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:39pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Who send you? #YOLO |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by CentaurXV(m): 1:50pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 1:56pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
STFUareyouGod: Ah swear, too freaking long!!! 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by MrCork: 2:07pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
JuicyLucy:My sister I'm curious about this your moniker. Exactly how are you juicy, is it your body/certain parts of your body? I'm just wondering what reactions you hoped to elicit with it 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by drnairalov: 2:17pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
thanks bro. long epistle tho! |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Floxyluv:you're right. TBH, it's really too long 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by firstking01(m): 2:34pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
STFUareyouGod:Me too. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by knight05(m): 2:43pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
Hadez:. nice writeup. . all this guys way never mature, biko dan Allah, edakun swerve this thread. . THREAD IS FOR +21 swerve left,take 2km journey, kids section is on your right hand side. .
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Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by NevetsIbot(m): 3:02pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
why do you guys steal someones article nd post it. This is kimberly spice'es original article. First ishlove plagiarized oneof her artices on nl without tagging her with it. Now you Hadez.. You copied this one again. What's wrong with you people. Can't yu people compose ya stuffs yasef? 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 3:57pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
The rate at which you open threads these days sef 1 Like |
Re: Open Letter To Single Guys by Nobody: 3:59pm On Nov 19, 2016 |
JuicyLucy: In Her haste to copy and paste, She didn't read through properly |
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