Ladies, 7 Things Love Shouldn't Make You Do

Been around young girls long to know what most of them term, 'love' isn't really Love but complete falsehood.
I don't know exactly what name to call it but if what you call 'love' is making you do these, then it's not True Love.

Read patiently;

1. Love shouldn't make you tread so softly before your man

I love to play. I love ladies. I'll love my wife that sometimes you'll think she 'jazzed' me.
If the guy who wants to marry you now is always straight-faced and wouldn't eat until you apologize for your sins then I beg, tread softly.

2. Love shouldn't make you stick with a lady-hitter

No matter what, laying your hands on a lady is and will forever be wrong. No justification!
You can't say you love a lady-hitter. It's like saying you wanna sleep in the den of lions. Is your name Daniella?

3. Love shouldn't make you disregard your parent's counsel

Everybody including your parents have advised you against dating this guy but for your own personal & selfish reasons, you choose to remain. 'Love' can't ever make you see farther than your parents. Isn't love even blind?


4. Love shouldn't make you a "sex object"

Hah! She is phat and because she thinks no guy would want to date or marry her, this lucky guy starts singing love songs to her, she becomes his sex slave. I've seen virgins turned sex addicts over night because of the word, 'I love you'. This is strong!

5. Love shouldn't make you want to marry a Sickle Cell fellow
"He has sickle cell", yes I know. I want to marry him like that. Without him I'll die. You won't actually die without him but with him, you may lose more than you bargained for. Why not avoid this and act responsibly?


6. Love shouldn't make you decide to run a relationship on your salary

I know it's pivotal for a working class lady to play a role in sharing financial burden with the boyfriend or hubby but I think he should either be in-charge or enthusiastic about being in-charge. Love shouldn't make you start buying clothes for him and even paying his fees while all he does is just sleep all day. It's natural with women; their natural instinct is that the man do the paying. She can only endure for so long, she will soon speak her mind.

7. Love isn't suppose to change you 100%.

Do you understand? There is a part of you that makes you 'suigeneris'- not that moniker. 'Unique' or 'One-of-a-kind'. I believe every relationship should filter or reset who we are supposed to be and not totally get a 'new us', No. That you love him doesn't mean you should lose your 'good' uniqueness. The other part can be worked upon, patiently as the case may be.

I believe if you think deeply on these points, they will make a huge difference in your lie and relationship.

Noted. Will tell my prospective girlfriend.

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8. Love shouldn't make you open your legs everytime for coitus_


some ladies can't just say no simply because they love him and don't want to displease him.these kind of ladies should learn to say "no not today" besides when it becomes regular the ecstasy drops drastically.

pennytrate:
"sometimes when the heart leads the brain stay behind" -penny

With ladies I guess.

well...

*Shouldn't make a lady abandon her career/dream

emusmithy:

With ladies I guess.

men included bro

Human emotions are complex they do not come with a user manual! What does not make sense to outsiders Makes sense to the person afflicted!

Raine80:
Human emotions are complex they do not come with a user manual! What does not make sense to outsiders Makes sense to the person afflicted!

In other words?

emusmithy:
In other words?

It's easier said than done....

Heavance:
*Shouldn't make a lady abandon her career/dream

That included!

Raine80:

It's easier said than done....

Well yea, have you watched the movie, "Hard Way, the only way."?
Some times we have tell ourselves the truth about certain facts you know

falconey:
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8. Love shouldn't make you open your legs everytime for coitus_


some ladies can't just say no simply because they love him and don't want to displease him.these kind of ladies should learn to say "no not today" besides when it becomes regular the ecstasy drops drastically.

That's so true bro. Some ladies are quite gullible and I think the root is traceable to an object they've idolized about their potential mate, if you understand me.

emusmithy:


That's so true bro. Some ladies are quite gullible and I think the root is traceable to an object they've idolized about their potential mate, if you understand me.

affirmative

emusmithy:

Well yea, have you watched the movie, "Hard Way, the only way."?
Some times we have tell ourselves the truth about certain facts you know

My point of view stands ...if human emotions could be easily explained life would be easy ...

Raine80:

My point of view stands ...if human emotions could be easily explained life would be easy ...

So a girl can lovingly abide in an abusive relationship in the name of human emotion cannot be deciphered?

love shouldnt make you(ladies) svck diiick and love shouldnt make you (guys)lick plate

lonikit:
love shouldnt make you(ladies) svck diiick and love shouldnt make you (guys)lick plate

Ayama!

jashar:

Say something na

Chai! That sickle cell hit me o. Baba God wey your face Naa. Me too wan marry!!!!! Heal me O Lord!

Glock9:
Chai! That sickle cell hit me o. Baba God wey your face Naa. Me too wan marry!!!!! Heal me O Lord!

Wow! God will heal you o in Jesus Name!

Btw, Shiloh 2016 is from Dec. 6th-10th.
Make it a date.

emusmithy:


So a girl can lovingly abide in an abusive relationship in the name of human emotion cannot be deciphered?

Men stay in abusive relationships too. Take it anyway you want sir anyway

Well, there is always that tiny voice somewhere in one's head screaming but it's always not easy to listen.

Most of the victims are aware of their predicament and know the way out but the human nature is just sooooo funny.

Life would be much easier if we had the luxury of choosing whom to fall in love with. Or if it was possible to control delete all feelings all at once.

*sneeze* I get catarrh

number 1 is so on point

Raine80:

Men stay in abusive relationships too. Take it anyway you want sir anyway

wow ok.

prettyjo:
number 1 is so on point

Thanks dearie Copa!

How you cruising NYSC?

Beamborla:
Well, there is always that tiny voice somewhere in one's head screaming but it's always not easy to listen.

Most of the victims are aware of their predicament and know the way out but the human nature is just sooooo funny.

Life would be much easier if we had the luxury of choosing whom to fall in love with. Or if it was possible to control delete all feelings all at once.

*sneeze* I get catarrh

Sorry dear.

Ladies are now defending abusive relationships. Interesting!

emusmithy:


Thanks dearie Copa!

How you cruising NYSC?

very fine my dear