Let's say you think your man is cheating, how do you handle that feeling?
Sometimes it's too strong to scratch.

I wd just dump him straightaway. No tym.

Herlyne:
I wd just dump him straightaway. No tym.

Just like that?


K o

Welcome back Dezolo

Dezolo:
Just like that?

K o

yh

Herlyne:
I wd just dump him straightaway. No tym.

even if he is handsome ?

Masonic:
Welcome back Dezolo

Hi dear, Thanks.

judeefcc:
even if he is handsome ?

the handsome ones are even more likely to cheat.

You make sure that it's not just your paranoia
And when gut feelings are indeed verified, you let him or her know you know.
And you leave with your dignity intact.

Herlyne:
the handsome ones are even more likely to cheat.

i can sleep with someone else but dating nooooo

judeefcc:
i can sleep with someone else but dating nooooo

you try wella. Mr cheat. Karma will visit you

Talk about it ....Ask him about it in a soft tone ,take him on a date ,on the bed in za oda room when you are sure he is already hard down der ,or over a good home cooked meal

Or any happy moment ...You need to be right about the timing so it doesn't escalate and you might not achieve anything
.....
When he tells u the truth , you can leave his sorry A*s or forgive him ...that's up to u

Raine80:
You make sure that it's not just your paranoia
And when gut feelings are indeed verified, you let him or her know you know.
And you leave with your dignity intact.

verified? How does someone verify and doesn't put up other questions?

Leaving isn't that easy when you look at it

Sempumping:
Talk about it ....Ask him about it in a soft tone ,take him on a date , on the bed in za oda room when you are sure he is already hard down der ,or over a good home cooked meal

Or any happy moment ...You need to be right about the timing so it doesn't escalate and you might not achieve anything
.....
When he tells u the truth , you can leave his sorry A*s or forgive him ...that's up to u

Na wa o, you women sure know how to take advantage when a man is in his weakest moment :

Raine80:
You make sure that it's not just your paranoia
And when gut feelings are indeed verified, you let him or her know you know.
And you leave with your dignity intact.

Seconded!.

Sempumping:
Talk about it ....Ask him about it in a soft tone ,take him on a date ,on the bed in za oda room when you are sure he is already hard down der ,or over a good home cooked meal

Or any happy moment ...You need to be right about the timing so it doesn't escalate and you might not achieve anything
.....
When he tells u the truth , you can leave his sorry A*s or forgive him ...that's up to u

Lol this is fattening the ram for sacrifice approach.

You don't expect the truth to just pop out after the fattening process, what if he's a cave of secrets?

Dezolo:
verified? How does someone verify and doesn't put up other questions?

Leaving isn't that easy when you look at it

If the evidence is there in front of you what response will make what they did ok?
If somedone cheats on you & you find out that this is indeed the case, you ask them 101 questions in the hope that it will solve what exactly? I value my self worth, this is my perpective I don't speak for all womenkind if you want to hang around that is your perogative.

bbmpin:
Personally i don't believe in "feeling that" He is clearly cheating hence the quandary

You have two simple choices ignore it(which is extremely difficult) Or face it head on and clear your doubts which usually lead to more pain

You also have to consider the "plausible fact" that you may just be imagining things out of insecurity

But from personal experiences "most times" when such thoughts begin to reside in your mind, its always "TRUE"

lol now you just "increased the feeling" if that's possible

Raine80:

If the evidence is there in front of you what response will make what they did ok?
If somedone cheats on you & you find out that this is indeed the case, you ask them 101 questions in the hope that it will solve what exactly? I value my self worth, this is my perpective I don't speak for all womenkind if you want to hang around that is your perogative.

lol since it's your own perspective, that's okay.

It's still a feeling that can't be scratched. Getting caught in the act is a different case scenario, deserves a much different and harsher decision.

Raine80:
You make sure that it's not just your paranoia
And when gut feelings are indeed verified, you let him or her know you know.
And you leave with your dignity intact.

Hard way the only way. I like this approach. it is direct and result oriented.

Dezolo:
lol since it's your own perspective, that's okay.

It's still a feeling that can't be scratched. Getting caught in the act is a different case scenario, deserves a much different and harsher decision.

That's why I said elimanate paranoia , some people are just paranoid.
Catching someone? If I ever have that feeling I will gather the proof I need I am not going to engage in some kangaroo court situation. I will tell or show the person and after we part.