lemme go straight to the point jare

once uve hooked up with a guy that doesn't mean u re his lover....some ladies believes that once a boy n a girl becomes gf n bf......the next thing is for d both party to start looking for every possible chance to get each other laid....that's what is ruining some of our ladies emotions nd physical life, caus guys don't really have nothing to loose........lemme go back to d main issue, after d getting laid issue, that's when some ladies will automatically let loose of themselves to d guy....naso d guy go dy control u anyhow like say he's ur dad or husband....in that process 95% of their life would have been with the guy, all their innermost secrets, their ups nd downs....they will reveal it to d guy finally the guy will start seeing u as a stalker....b4 u know it d guy will start lookn for a new lady, bcaus there's nothing lively to know about u....he knows everything about ur s€x life...some will even allow a guy to take their nvde pics....HOW CAN U TRUST A GUY WITH UR NVDE.......that's why u see some ladies begging a guy who has already given them serious punching during disagreements ,because she knows her nvde pics is with d guy, the guy knows all her issues...in other not to let d guy reveals anything...she will prefer to offer him her evevrything......

IN conclusion:_--- ladies never let a guy who ur not married to knows all ur ups nd downs

TRY to be independent, dnt depend on a guy ur nt married to

WHEN dating a guy, always create space inbetween u and the guy ,sometimes u need to find an excuse for u nt to be with him (like maybe he asked u to come to his place without geniue reasons ) ....nd if d guy really loves u....he won't see that as a barrier but if the guy starts yelling at u because u gave him an excuse know that all he wanted is to get u laid ........LADIES know YOUR VALUE

some ladies will even go to the extent of crying like a baby when a guy tells them it's over.....they cry so loud because they dnt have any life apart from d one they had with d guy...



.so when ure nt married to a guy try to build a life u will fall on when the guy pushes u away.

like seriously who does that?

I hope some will find this useful thanks
nd if ayaf tabon pls correct me

Yeah, you've got points.

Just wondering where you got the inspiration from

randomShek:
Just wondering where you got the inspiration from

me sef no know o...

It's not a correction I agree with some of the things
This is my point of view based on what you have written.
When most women accept that there is a difference between sex and a relationship then a lot of issues would be averted.
If a guy were to say to you he does not want a relationship at this moment in time sleeping with him is not going to change his point of view. He wants sex you gave it to him. What you now have is people who has sex it's not a relationship.He was honest but you chose to listen. As women we sometimes try to create something out of nothing.
When you do connect with someone and there is meaning to your relationship you interact and that involves sharing and your fears and your ambitions.
What I might not agree with is marriage does not mean being your own person stops.Both of you still need your own interests

Raine80:
It's not a correction I agree with some of the things
This is my point of view based on what you have written.
When most women accept that there is a difference between sex and a relationship then a lot of issues would be averted.
If a guy were to say to you he does not want a relationship at this moment in time sleeping with him is not going to change his point of view. He wants sex you gave it to him. What you now have is people who has sex it's not a relationship.He was honest but you chose to listen. As women we sometimes try to create something out of nothing.
When you do connect with someone and there is meaning to your relationship you interact and that involves sharing and your fears and your ambitions.
What I might not agree with is marriage does not mean being your own person stops.Both of you still need your own interests

hmm I appreciate ur point of view

some ladies will just walk past dis thread without digesting what needed.....dts why most our nowadays girls, they re suffering from enormous, gigantic heartbreaks some even leads to heart attack((i pray u learn))

Makkydebie nd dollyjoy