Davash222:
And where exactly is dis Area

AnodaIT:
I can take you out of that slum into my two bedroom apartment with a ZeeWorld subscribed home theater and standby power supply. Just pm me

thorpido:
Sadly Op,that's the situation in many homes.The boys are out playing football or generally hanging out while the girls stay indoors learning to cook or manage a house.

When it's time to marry,it's these untrained boys that will be available.

Op,you stay in Festac?

Pidgin2:


A Satellite community, I must add mostly Easterners live here. I'm not bashing any tribe, I am one myself but I can help but think something is wrong with their upbringing

Davash222:

Easterners Asin Chinese Or North Korean

Pidgin2:


Ahhh you got it right, yes I stay there

thorpido:
Ah,that festac is a peculiar place.
The average young boy in that environment grows up as a bad boy.

Pidgin2:


How old are you?

Heavance:
Ever noticed that most of them can hardly comment on social media without insult?
They insult people they hardly know or have an idea how old they could be, which is so wrong.

Davash222:

Something is wrong with you.. When we say Lagos is no man's land, you guys debunked, now you have the effrontery to say 'mostly Easterners live here'. Because you want to label them bad and you still have to say you are not bashing any tribe.

Pidgin2:


Honestly, you should see them in real life, they have no regard for people. They don't mind pushing you off the road as they strut with their gangs, the likelihood of them greeting you is almost impossible

Davash222:

So you don't see all those Afonja Omo Ale and Agberos

Pidgin2:

They don't live in my area.

Davash222:

So you don't see all those Afonja Omo Ale and Agberos

Heavance:


What really went wrong? because I know how we were brought up to at least respect those who are ahead of us.
I don't need anyone calling me Brother this or that, at least, I just need these teenagers to learn what respect is.

thorpido:
This is not a tribal issue and Op does not intend to make it one.
Young boys(and girls) are not growing up right and there's a need to do something about it.It's for the future of all of us.

Davash222:
But the OP was specific about a particular tribe.

misspicy:
Apart from the disrespect part, hasn't it always been like this?

Most boys were allowed total unrestricted freedom from even house chores for the single reason that they are male kids.
Most were given the choice meat,largest food portion,cleaned after by their sisters etc.
Why do you think we have some really dirty husbands now? Overgrown babies who can't even wash their own boxers?
Even in my house,my niece wash her brothers cloths on the instruction of her mummy,beaten if she shouts back at them or fight them,not because she is younger but because she is female,and will go to husband house
a lot more,lemme hold it here.

Maybe the elite parents of this generation will help correct this trend for our future daughters

Babzilla:

Not on the house I grew up

Lucky you


I'm talking majority here,if we are to take a poll from truthful men,my comment hold true.
Heck,even me experienced it with my kid brother.

misspicy:

Lucky you


I'm talking majority here,if we are to take a poll from truthful men,my comment hold true.
Heck,even me experienced it with my kid brother.

misspicy:

Lucky you


I'm talking majority here,if we are to take a poll from truthful men,my comment hold true.
Heck,even me experienced it with my kid brother.

Babzilla:


O boy .In my house eh if you joke they will give the housemaid and the houseboy the day off you will scrub, clean, sweep, and wash on their behalf

Lolz.....


The no nonsense household

misspicy:
Apart from the disrespect part, hasn't it always been like this?

Most boys were allowed total unrestricted freedom from even house chores for the single reason that they are male kids.
Most were given the choice meat,largest food portion,cleaned after by their sisters etc.
Why do you think we have some really dirty husbands now? Overgrown babies who can't even wash their own boxers?
Even in my house,my niece wash her brothers cloths on the instruction of her mummy,beaten if she shouts back at them or fight them,not because she is younger but because she is female,and will go to husband house
a lot more,lemme hold it here.

Maybe the elite parents of this generation will help correct this trend for our future daughters