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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by jaymichael(m): 1:43am On Nov 26, 2016 |
ThePlumbers:How do u that? please. |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Menzy86(m): 1:46am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot:Omoh bro ehn....one year later, I still haven't met anythn worth my time. Matters worse, I lost my first and best Girlfriend ever (mum) just a month ago. It has completely changed everythn sef and time isn't on boiz side. Wat is keeping u up at 1;45am? Me thr is a church holding a vigil wit external speakers ryt behind my house and Im suppose to b at wk by 6am. See wahala? 2 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by DucheSsMerezz(f): 1:49am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:49am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: I stayed o because for the first time I was willing to trust willing to build willing to hope but I learned quick its more complicated than that Was raised around my grandparents so naturally forgiveness and tolerance I learned early it's better to grow a friendship into a loving relationship that will lead to Marraige 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by unofficial(m): 1:51am On Nov 26, 2016 |
ednut1: Boss, how did you survive it? |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:51am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: Yes because if I didn't I wont have faced the truth and seen that everything I was going through was because of it The World is open someone I dont know hacked my Facebook and put their number in it changed the password changed my number problem solved anyone can stalk you but know when to draw the line 1 Like |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by jaymichael(m): 1:52am On Nov 26, 2016 |
ThePlumbers:I thought whatsapp web logs out when the phone disconnects. What browser works best with it ? 2 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:53am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Menzy86: Eeyah, sorry about that bro. Churches and this loud speaker thing even at night. Una no fit report the church? Well, am up, because... errr... I guess I can't just sleep. Tomorrow is Saturday, so I could sleep all day long. |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Menzy86(m): 1:54am On Nov 26, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:hahahahaha dat might not work for a guy lyk me cos I hav had only like three serious rships in my life and I still hav their numbers in my head. And d first one was like 8yrs ago! |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:55am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: Hmm,that would have been a tough one to handle. Obviously the way you viewed him would change as well? @bold, at the expense of your heart?? |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 1:57am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: You are right about that, to know when to draw the line is important. But am I willing to draw the line when my heart convinces me that you aren't loyal. Ish! Relationship can be complicated.. I tell you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 1:58am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: Never that's the whole point anyone who has no problem hurting you deliberately to gain the upper hand has no business loving you because they don't These experiences shape us to do better It changed because he changed 1 Like |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 2:01am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: ...and they would never love you. Well, its good it changed. One would be more cautious in situations Like that to come. |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 2:02am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: Let me give you an example ... guy is toasting me I say I'm in love with someone else while just on a casual trip I encounter them they tell me to come by they have a pool I decline next thing they verbally accuse me of thinking everyone is out to date me and that he just wanted to talk as a friend and that he's a Christian etc you can still be faithful and lose the one you love because to block their own realizations about their own actions and consequences you have to be the casualty 2 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 2:06am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: You dont have to tell me I am right where I am loved and appreciated and trust me anyone who wakes up and doesn't even greet you before insulting you is not worth my love today tomorrow or the next there are good men around 2 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by totorimi: 2:06am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Spy at your spouse phone at the risk of a heart attack, my advice is dont bother trying it unless you want to hate him or her for life. Just pretend that they are the only love of your life until reality hits you but never go looking for trouble where it is sleeping jeje. Some people on their phone they have abused their spouses calling them names, some have sent nude pictures of themselves. The things couples do with their phones if we are to ask the service providers to purblish everybody's phone messages, honestly some people will die before their time. 5 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by metallisc(m): 2:10am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: 2 Likes
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Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by mistermoi(m): 2:11am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 2:15am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: Well, that's something. If he is toasting you, would he still say he wants to talk as a friend? I believe as a lady within the first week of communication with a new guy friend, you should be able to note if he is coming in as a friend or numerous toasters. That way, you know how to wade such person off before it becomes: I encounter them they tell me to come by they have a pool I decline next thing they verbally accuse me of thinking everyone is out to date me and that he just wanted to talk as a friend and that he's a Christian etc The bolded is very true! |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 2:19am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: Yes, good men abound just like women. We all have flaws, a cheating partner is the worst one can ever try to put up with. It "may" never work. |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by chronique(m): 2:21am On Nov 26, 2016 |
You're not in good terms with your MIL and you're happy with it? You must be very intelligent. Asey: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 2:31am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot:That's my point the mention of the pool was a bit forward and a put off so I declined the offer But what I didn't understand was the mini rage afterwards a woman has a right to say no if i went I'm very sure the word ho will come up Men really take a lot for granted their without a foundation in Christ It's just an experience you dont have to be tied to that forever thats the whole point go through it to grow the way you treat people says alot about how you see yourself 2 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 2:36am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: Lol, you indeed do have every right. You want to talk as a friend to someone who is in a relationship and your best venue is the pool, well, different strokes... 1 Like |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by Nobody: 2:37am On Nov 26, 2016 |
photoshoot: it will never work and the price which is usually a death sentence is paid by all and none are spared I feel like self control is really something you learn as you live. I am human I've made mistakes but The body really is a temple 1 Like |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by leisuretym: 2:43am On Nov 26, 2016 |
do it but never let her know, and least just to know your stand, the best thing you can do for your self. 99% arent loyal. |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by photoshoot(m): 2:57am On Nov 26, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: I do argue with myself that those that cheat in this present dispensation does so nor because they don't have self control, but for fun. Funny, I know. While, previously, the rate at which people cheat could be said to be on a low side and those that indulge in it would be apportioned the Blame of not having self control- because then there was this aura of err preserving ones self et al. Your partner doesn't agree to sex_ you can't control yourself. You look elsewhere for it while still dating. We can say such a person lacks control. But now, this dispensation, both parties are fully i involved sexually. And you still go out to cheat, is that still lack of self control? Prolly, most do it just for fun or if you have a better word to explain it. Sorry, I digressed a tad bit. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by baum1: 3:05am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Alariwo2: No need to give up man. Many faithful men exist in this world. As God told Elijah, there are still hundreds of prophets that have not bowed to baal..Not all men have given in or will ever give in to temptations which by the way must surely come. 2 Likes |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by baum1: 3:07am On Nov 26, 2016 |
progress69: Guy, wetin come happen? He tell the babe? Dem go on with the intro? |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by waldigit: 3:21am On Nov 26, 2016 |
bamisepeters: I am married and a believer. I harbour no secret. My phone is open to my wife and my social media is open Hence I reserve the right to access her accounts as well. We must watch each others backs. That's partnership. When you are about to go down I pull you up. Jolt you back to your senses. Thats how to roll. But if I don't have access to your secret world it can become weakness and later temptation. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by moonraker(m): 3:36am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Nope.. What you dont know wont kill you period... 1 Like |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by InvertedHammer: 3:53am On Nov 26, 2016 |
ollah1:/ It takes a certain kind of person. There are always hard or easy way of doing things. The one with a third eye always prefer the latter. \ |
Re: Moment Of Truth: Have You Ever Spied On Your Spouse's Phone? - Bamisepeters by xty50(f): 3:53am On Nov 26, 2016 |
Hmm am just glad i checked n found d truth in time.somtin dat we started no secrets with time he piled up secrets with his lies.tnk God i checked his fon n got clue.if given d chance i will check again. 5 Likes |
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