Collect your money from him first

wer111:
Hi everyone, my bf is breaking up with me, he is fed up of my complains and nagging, we have been together for 3 years and I love him so much, our love is strong I didn't see this coming, I borrowed him money, that's he has not been able to return yet, that's the topic of discussion, but I don't care anymore thus has make me change for good, I don't want to loose him, he is nice, patient and caring man, but now he has made up his mind and he says our relationship can't work, what can I do for him to give a chance?

Amelian:




U may feel, u guys have been through alot together but he may not feel the same way. U may believe u guys can't break up but he feels he can breakup with u at any given time. U feel. He's loyal, calm and committed.. By dear:newsflash all broke guys appear loyal and committed.. Wait and watch when he's financially comfortable, then u will see the real guy u are dating.
Let him. Give u your money first, then he can breakup afterwards.. Smhh.

He's using u as doormat, u don't know. You are even begging him untop your money.. Lol.

Chai..God

At this point i don't know what to think....

Remilekun101:



explain this

Are u confused?

optimusmind:

collect your money first then stop nagging and complaining

Nma27:
Are u confused?

Explain na

wer111:

Hahaha thank you so much, I'm a lucky girl though I have a lovely family I have ambition and future plans... Just that when you found someone good to be with...that doesn't cheat and gentle...seems hard to let go... I'll try my best in the process of he doesn't change his mind.. Then it's over, it's not the end of the world

My dear a man is only gentle and humble when he is broke, the minute the bucks start coming in, you're not guaranteed a smooth sail. So if he's serious about breaking up, collect your money first. In some relationships love isn't just enough.

If he says he doesn't want you anymore ... Let him go, it's hard, but don't force yourself on him

dreamwords:
Switch off your bitchh mode, thank me later

I'm not a bad person, I just couldn't handle the situation...its not easy

its simple, call him..! apologise and desist from your previous character, show him you have changed for real and train yourself never to be your old self...

wer111:

Well, I love him with all my heart and I had always had his back, im willing to change for good and fight for him, no one is perfect and I learned my lesson. Thank you

You don't force love my dear, it's just a natural phenomenon that you must allow to flow on it's own.

vchykp:
its simple, call him..! apologise and desist from your previous character, show him you have changed for real and train yourself never to be your old self...

I'mvery ready... It's just for him to give me the chance... Thank you

firstking01:
You don't force love my dear, it's just a natural phenomenon that you must allow to flow on it's own.

I know.... At least let me try.... Right?

ButterFrost212:

My dear a man is only gentle and humble when he is broke, the minute the bucks start coming in, you're not guaranteed a smooth sail. So if he's serious about breaking up, collect your money first. In some relationships love isn't just enough.

Thanks lot, some comments are making stronger, I'm even thinking that's if itvends.. Will be for good

Did u cheat on him?

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Gideonaigbe:
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I didn't cheat

wer111:

I know.... At least let me try.... Right?

Yeah, a trial is always allowed but if eventually he still stood his ground on wanting to break up then lerrit go.

Piiko:
Collect your money from him first

OK, I will

wer111:

I'mvery ready... It's just for him to give me the chance... Thank you

You have to get someone he respects to bring him close so you can talk to him, make sure you have worked on urself before seeing him, am glad you know your mistake and ready to change for real.

wer111:

I'mvery ready... It's just for him to give me the chance... Thank you

You have to get someone he respects to bring him close so you can talk to him, make sure you have worked on urself before seeing him, am glad you know your mistake and ready to change for real.

wer111:
Hi everyone, my bf is breaking up with me, he is fed up of my complains and nagging, we have been together for 3 years and I love him so much, our love is strong I didn't see this coming, I borrowed him money, that's he has not been able to return yet, that's the topic of discussion, but I don't care anymore thus has make me change for good, I don't want to loose him, he is nice, patient and caring man, but now he has made up his mind and he says our relationship can't work, what can I do for him to give a chance?

Hmmmm

wer111:
Hi everyone, my bf is breaking up with me, he is fed up of my complains and nagging, we have been together for 3 years and I love him so much, our love is strong I didn't see this coming, I borrowed him money, that's he has not been able to return yet, that's the topic of discussion, but I don't care anymore thus has make me change for good, I don't want to loose him, he is nice, patient and caring man, but now he has made up his mind and he says our relationship can't work, what can I do for him to give a chance?

Mumu, berra go and collect your money. Infact use police to arrest him. Boyfriend ko, Boyfriend Ni

vchykp:


You have to get someone he respects to bring him close so you can talk to him, make sure you have worked on urself before seeing him, am glad you know your mistake and ready to change for real.

Thank you

truthsayer007:


Mumu, berra go and collect your money. Infact use police to arrest him. Boyfriend ko, Boyfriend Ni

It's the money that has spoiled the relationship, his dad was sick In a Critical condition, that's why i helped him with the money....the dad end up dying....at times I regret bcoz of what's is happening

wer111:

It's the money that has spoiled the relationship, his dad was sick In a Critical condition, that's why i helped him with the money....the dad end up dying....at times I regret bcoz of what's is happening

Dear, forget the money. Any money rendered to help the sick , is best forgotten. No need going there at all. U won't get a refund.
Also try and reduce the nags and complains. But from now on, he should sort himself out by himself financially.
And watch his actions after 3months of no money from u.

Also he wants a break abi?

Give him the break. Don't call, don't text.. Delete his number and pin. Then be patient, live your life and see what happens.

Amelian:




Dear, forget the money. Any money rendered to help the sick , is best forgotten. No need going there at all. U won't get a refund.
Also try and reduce the nags and complains. But from now on, he should sort himself out by himself financially.
And watch his actions after 3months of no money from u.

Also he wants a break abi?

Give him the break. Don't call, don't text.. Delete his number and pin. Then be patient, live your life and see what happens.

That's seems the best thing to-do....

wer111:

That's seems the best thing to-do....

Thank you, I think that what I'll do, I asked for forgiveness many times, and he is just saying that what keep us together is the money he needs to return to me....

wer111:

That's seems the best thing to-do....

Yes o.
No dulling

wer111:
Hi everyone, my bf is breaking up with me, he is fed up of my complains and nagging, we have been together for 3 years and I love him so much, our love is strong I didn't see this coming, I borrowed him money, that's he has not been able to return yet, that's the topic of discussion, but I don't care anymore thus has make me change for good, I don't want to loose him, he is nice, patient and caring man, but now he has made up his mind and he says our relationship can't work, what can I do for him to give a chance?

You don frustrate the guy life finish,better find another victim and continue your nagging with him.

allobright17:
You don frustrate the guy life finish,better find another victim and continue your nagging with him.

I said its learn my lesson and I wanna change.... So even if he doesn't forgive me I'll not do same mistake ...and I've Bern's good person to him... I've trieda lot

Stop reminding him of the time he had to swallow his pride and ask for help. I am sure it was not just nagging you might have said things that might have made him question your suitability as a life long partner.

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