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Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by allobright17: 9:30pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
wer111:it depends on what you're complaining about,and what you're changing to,if he is doing bad things and you complain about it then he can go but if you're complaining over things you're not supposed to then try and stop it,if he love you I don't think he will just quit the relationship all because you're complaining. On your money,if you can't bear it then ask for it if he give you good if he don't then let go off it.moving to the next level may better the previous anyway,all you need is time luck. I wish you all the best in whatever you end up doing. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 9:39pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
Masikay: I am even fed up with you! |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by Nobody: 9:43pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
wer111: Ehn you have learnt your lesson. Even as a guy, i can't borrow my GF money. I will only give her what i can. ones you are dating someone...To get your money back is wahala ! |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 9:44pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
wer111: Maybe he's running away from repaying you oh you're pushing him away, bringing up the loan in discussions with him. Or you're 'riding' him probably because of the loan for which it may appear that you have an upper hand against him. I sha know that there's more to this ya story. Anyway try discuss the terms of settlement of the loan. Money makes and mars a relationship |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 9:44pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
truthsayer007: I can borrow her. And it depends |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by Nobody: 9:46pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
kaboninc: Na you sabi o, my babe never gives me my money back. So i can't borrow her money. Just like the OP's story. Just leave it and let it go. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by folasayolyn(f): 9:49pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
Biko collect your money, you sure it's not because of your money he's threatening you |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 9:51pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
truthsayer007: You no let am know say na borrow na. There's borrow and there's dash. I can dash you and can also borrow you. Depending on who you are, I can only borrow you what I can dash you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 9:52pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
folasayolyn: If na you nko? |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by folasayolyn(f): 9:55pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
kaboninc: Collect my money the dude can waka pass. of all the problems wey I get no fit add anoda man own join |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 9:57pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
folasayolyn: If na you dey owe nko? |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by chigoizie7(m): 10:04pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
I can see that majority of the girls in this forum and this section is very very biased. Let us call a spade a spade. Truth, no one is perfect. 2ndly, u are always nagging him. 3rdly, most of us borrow money from different places(human,banks etc), however, we borrow from the place that suits us well.(thats why he borrowed from u). He has been with u for yrs now. He also agreed to pay( he said he will be with u till he pays up and den break up, he still wants to be with u because he has that sense of responsibility, he doesn't want to see it that he collected money from u and den decides to break up) Let me tell u something, u took ur nagging self and attitude to a whole new level, why? because u lent him some money, which u have not been patient for whatever he used the money for to start yielding(u claimed to be his babe, as such u are meant to know him and what he used it for and also be patient) For a guy to borrow money from u, invested into something means he doesn't have anywhere else to go. Trust me. Op, thank God u accepted that u messed up and willing to change, it means that u have been very wrong and also bad to him. Now, to all those people trying to justify op, or trying to urge her to move ahead, u are all correct, but I also think u all should tell her the truth that she fuccked up. Stop making her feel that what she did was in every aspect good or correct. Most times when we make comments, we think it goes just to the OP? Or one person? NO, trust me, many people are in same shoes, and whatever u say here can influence their decisions in life. How could u tell someone to just move one as no one else cares, even when the person knows that she messed up. Yes, she will move on, but telling her that in such a way that she is justified for whatever she did is very wrong 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by omotogoodo(m): 10:08pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
So what do you want us to do oo go and beg him to stop scamming you or urge him to continue drinking your free water? Ruthu Abokoku |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
kaboninc: ? |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by vchykp(m): 10:33pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
wer111:wc ma |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by Nobody: 3:33am On Nov 30, 2016 |
wer111:Bullshit. Insist on it, tell people and dump his sorry ass. He is mad |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by Medunah: 7:13am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Mugu, you better collect your money, love Oshi.......he his looking for ways not to pay back by breaking up....make sure u collect your money if it's not small amount and forget about love. Infact, people dating themselves shouldn't borrow each other money, give what you can give and forget about it ......... |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:23am On Nov 30, 2016 |
kaboninc:He said we are together until he pays me back |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:25am On Nov 30, 2016 |
allobright17: |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:29am On Nov 30, 2016 |
kaboninc:I complain becoz im fustraited.... My guy had not made it yet.... So I'm always the one taking care of myself...he can't help me....and it's OK.... O have faith in him... He smart.... But it's just not easy after 3 years, but I did not want to us to break up.... |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:32am On Nov 30, 2016 |
[quote author=wer111 post=51501196][/quote] Th money is bothering him more than me.... At this point he feels that when he gives me we can be our separate ways.... So... I don't know his own words are :the only thing that his keeping us together is the money I own you...... |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:34am On Nov 30, 2016 |
[quote author=Medunah post=51500913]Mugu, you better collect your money, love Oshi.......he his looking for ways not to pay back by breaking up....make sure u collect your money if it's not small amount and forget about love. Infact, people dating themselves shouldn't borrow each other money, give what you can give and Borrowing money always brings problems |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:40am On Nov 30, 2016 |
chigoizie7: I know I bleeped up... And probably he will enjoy up breaking up when he gives me back.... It's just not easy... Bcoz I have always had is back... And he truly loved me... But now he is just no longer interested in me... So, I don't know.... I'm confused this morning ooooo |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:42am On Nov 30, 2016 |
optimusmind:When he gives me... And break up... It OK no problem |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:47am On Nov 30, 2016 |
omotogoodo:He is not scamming me, my bf is always alone.... He asked me freely because I know he will do the same... Assuming he want to scam it's not me he will date, how much do I have.... I'm not a rich girl.... I'm comfortable...for instance I don't have a car....he feels since we are together forever he can give me back when it comes... But my waffle has pushed him away and now he is rushing to get the money |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 7:48am On Nov 30, 2016 |
wer111: Lol.. You're more frustrated than your guy who is yet to make it? Abeg take it easy. Then again, are you frustrated because since he hasn't made it, you've been taking care of yourself...which means that as soon as he makes it, he should start taking care of you? Lol. Anyway I think you may have committed - especially financial resources - substantially into that relationship and that's why you're frustrated..... Truth is, we all don't 'blow'at the same time. He's could be now or tomorrow or years later. If the relationship is that difficult, you guys can just take a break so you can see things from different perspectives.. .love is indeed blind. Also, if he has shown a commitment to repay the loan, then you guys can see it through. |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by ednut1(m): 7:48am On Nov 30, 2016 |
all these ladies giving guys money to be are nothing but fools. it always ends up same way |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 7:51am On Nov 30, 2016 |
wer111: Lol. You're always together...spiritually and physically.... Keep and open mind. You worry too mussh |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by wer111: 7:52am On Nov 30, 2016 |
allobright17:I complain about the money...and silly things....mostly the money, but he knows I love him, this is the first time he is so serious....like he is not treating me like a girlfriend....but I'm not complaining I'm not nagging... He updates me about the money sha... |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 7:56am On Nov 30, 2016 |
wer111: Everybody nags.. You nag, he nags, I nag, Buhari nags and every living thing nags. We just have a degree of nagging! Are you very much interested in the debt (probably your reason for staying in the relationship) or the relationship itself where you are committed to ensure it lasts? Or maybe your guy is actually down and wants some time alone to think through life.. Or he wants to excuse you because he's found someone 'better' and has some cool cash he's made? Just assuming ohhh |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 7:57am On Nov 30, 2016 |
kaboninc: wer111: |
Re: My Boyfriend Is Fed Up by kaboninc(m): 7:58am On Nov 30, 2016 |
ednut1: And guys who gives money to girls are what.. .wise? |
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