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Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by amjf(m): 9:29am On Dec 01, 2016 |
I dig bro. Whatever it is, abeg shey dey go church even if it's not your pops. You will find a bible believing church that suits you and give u a reason to be a Christian. mrjojo: 1 Like |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:35am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Papikush: 2 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by mrjojo: 9:36am On Dec 01, 2016 |
amjf:trust me Bro, I tried to go, it just feels I don't belong. You know when you've been forced to do something your whole life. I was flogged to Bible school while I was in ss1,mine is even better, my Lil sis had it worse. I live my life now, don't give a sh1t Wat anyone thinks. 1 Like |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by tosyne2much(m): 9:46am On Dec 01, 2016 |
DeLioncourt:I never said that bro |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by crazymommy(f): 9:47am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Papikush:mad man 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by Nobody: 9:52am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Thank heavens am not one coz... |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by DeLioncourt: 9:52am On Dec 01, 2016 |
tosyne2much: I know you didn't. It's just easy to imply that from your point. |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by amjf(m): 10:02am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Yeah....Wow. Just keep trying bro, I hope u find it urself and not been forced mrjojo: |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by mrjojo: 10:10am On Dec 01, 2016 |
amjf:thanks bros 1 Like |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by amjf(m): 10:13am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Please check ur mail makydebbie , tried sending you a mail via NL. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by Toylove: 10:13am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Icansing:Do u knw if am spoiling his pedigree or am promoting his reputation, in btw.... Na him get calling, no b me ND z Dat y u must call me mumu 1 Like |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by tosyne2much(m): 10:22am On Dec 01, 2016 |
DeLioncourt:What I meant was pastors so much place emphasis on it |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by EmpressOVA(f): 10:46am On Dec 01, 2016 |
I so can relate to this!!! Well,it can be very frustrating sometimes because of high expectation from members ,even relatives surrounding you and that do make most of us PKs prefer staying far from home whenever opportunity provides itself. You're been watched out for everything_dressing, makeup,lifestyle etc. Unfortunately, you'll realise that a large % of the kids of those who are always fending their eyes off you usually turn out bad(not glorying in that though). Anyways, let's keep being us in all modesty but not in pretense otherwise one's life is wasting away in all ramifications. #beyou #happynewdecember 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by tobidipity(m): 10:51am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Papikush: LMAO!!! See this ode o. Stop watin? You no fit turn Joseph ko ja pa. |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by lacasera14(m): 11:09am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Growing up as a pastor's kid was really challenging tho from my parents end it was kinda cool, but the society? they made me hate being a pastor's kid. Everyone is laughing at a joke and i join, they'll be like "pastor pikin, so you de follow laugh this kind tin", society keeps us in check and sheer scrutiny, at a point i stopped telling new friends i was a pastor's kid, a hidden identity to enable me enjoy some ounce of freedom. I had become an introvert and anti-social dude due to "pastor pikin, you too" syndrome, in any gathering at all, you are made to say the prayers, in school you are forced to preach even when you didn't prepare, at a point I got the "pastor pikin so you de mess, so you can't buy me biscuits? all the offerings your dad use to collect what happened to it?" haba!!! it was that bad. But thankGod I'm all grown up now and only a few know I'm a pastor's son even the ones that know have grown up too, but that depressing childhood, i can never forget. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by degamemaster(m): 11:22am On Dec 01, 2016 |
OP you're very correct on all the points and I can relate to... but OP I can bet you're really the opposite of the person expected of a pastor's child cos your monicker suggests so. |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by ajalawole(m): 11:38am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Papikush:i guess she was high on olamide voice 'DON'T STOP DON'T STOP' |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by dangotesmummy: 11:43am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Toylove:them no dey wake you up for night vigil or fasting |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by makydebbie(f): 12:08pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
degamemaster:My moniker was coined from my name and surname. So I'm not understanding |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by makydebbie(f): 12:18pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
dangotesmummy:that one sef no easy. Na to go hide inside my papa car be that until dem find me 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by chinedumo(m): 12:30pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
mavany: If only ur pastor parents could see your comment now they will knock the pulpit down in wrath 1 Like |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by iluvpomo(m): 12:47pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
baum1:shine your eyes |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by Toylove: 1:27pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
dangotesmummy:Every Thursday z fasting in our house ooo... 2 Likes |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
tosyne2much:But it's true. Premarital sex just like killing is a sin...or don't you know that it's same thing as fornication? you don't nid to b a pastor's kid to obey dis. |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by Gracious10: 3:24pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
mrjojo: Lol...this one na serious matter, same reason I vowed never to marry a pastor and if my husband eventually becomes a pastor, divorce is looming, can never subject my kids to the scrutiny pastors kids go through. They don't have a life at all. Their lives are just what the church expects it to be and they report you like no man's bussines, your parents won't even care to investigate the situation, the verdict is "Guilty" . What time do thy have to raise kids? Church programs and counselling every day even people calling in the middle of the night, it's just too much abeg.... Pastors kids are always on trial, I prefer my kids to know christ in all sincerity than pretend to be born again because people expect them to be ...I no fit shout abeg. Spiritually, physically, emotionally, they will always be on trial forever, church members even feel like they are entitled to any and every information about you. And No, the life of a pastors child isn't normal. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by degamemaster(m): 3:29pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
makydebbie:Pardon my mistake. I meant your signature. Are you for real or am I getting something wrong? makydebbie:Pardon my mistake. I meant your signature. Are you for real or am I getting something wrong? |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by mrjojo: 3:45pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Gracious10:My dear, EXACTLY, what i went through growing up ehn , full story for another day. So when people see me and say " you will be like your dad, and be a Pastor" you need to see how i look at them. I can never be a Pastor, ever. 1 Like |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by dangotesmummy: 5:05pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Toylove: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by dangotesmummy: 5:05pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
makydebbie:you'll be tagged witch OR wizard |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by tosyne2much(m): 5:59pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Beckino:You're right Bro |
Re: The Big Challenges Of Being A Pastor's child by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
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