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Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by thesicilian: 11:04am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Viking007:Don't mind them. And over 95% of are probably not married. I blame the one who brought her marital issues online for sixteen year olds to feast on. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 11:05am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Princedaniel: Absolutely correct.. Most of his colleagues at work are into the MMM and other scheme. Dunno where he got the lotto stuff from though. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by butanep(m): 11:06am On Dec 01, 2016 |
HenryDion: As a young man, it's not everything you involved your wife. That is the bitter truth. Most will discourage you. Women aren't too good when taking some risky business. It is better you run alone sometimes. What is the wrong choice the man has made now? Please are you still staying with your parents or you are fully a grown man? If you are fully independent, you will understand better not to talk of a man with family. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by uboma(m): 11:08am On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: Obviously, your man is a chronic gambler. My only fear for him is not to loose it all. Your man may be into a lot of debt, hence looking for a quick means to make extra cash. Chronic gamblers are always into debt. Greed is what pushes them into gambling and in the long run, they fall into a lot of debt. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by queenfav(f): 11:09am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Catalin:Leave her...When she sees a man with no drive to hustle,dem no go tell her twice say her husband dey try.You better thank God your husband is trying to make money,except you want a man you have to remind to work hard.. If those schemes are working for him,pls allow him...Afterall,he didn't ask you for money to do them and he is taking care of his family,wetin again? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 11:10am On Dec 01, 2016 |
alexistaiwo: Have talked to him amidst tears and he promised to stop. He has been apologizing also, I pray he stops |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by dingbang(m): 11:10am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Please yall should spare the husband some slack. If he were jobless, she would be the first person to wail.. Anythn can happen, he may lose his job if company decides to downsize. So what are we not saying.. abegi... you are the one Dat needs counselling. U have to also join him in dis mmm ultimate cycler shii.. pls give me ur details let me register you jor so u can begin to preach d good news. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Viking007(m): 11:10am On Dec 01, 2016 |
thesicilian:The way they comment with authority as if they're part of the family is what's making me laugh. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by esere826: 11:11am On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu:He is ambitious for money. Simply get him some calculated risk management books and book him into risk management seminars. On your part, ensure you extract as much money from him as possible, then save or invest it in risk free ventures. If by happenstance things terribly bad happen to his fortunes, you'll then be able to step in 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nobody: 11:12am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Oga madam, but is your husband "into" NAIRALAND? You know, he can also make cool money here. Just... Pray for him. Discuss with him. Activate your hutsle. Avoid third party "poke nosers" [Nairaland included]. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by 1kinggy(m): 11:22am On Dec 01, 2016 |
My sister, so far you're not handicapped, go get a job or small business. With his money in too many things, the risk of losing his hard earned money is high. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by daremum(m): 11:22am On Dec 01, 2016 |
dingbang: your advise sounds like your name. Ding Bang. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by bellville: 11:23am On Dec 01, 2016 |
deedondavi:MMM is a peer-to-peer donation platform. You offer to help someone like you with your spare money (emphasis on "spare'). In 30 days, you entitled to get help of similar sum you donated together with 30% bonus. The MMM community thrives on membership. There is no central account where funds are amassed. You pay to fellow Nigerians like you. When you refer others, you get 10% but referral is not compulsory. If you have further questions, you can send mail to bookstomydoor@gmail.com 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nobody: 11:24am On Dec 01, 2016 |
butanep: Am independent but single.. From the quoted, It's not all women that discourages their husband from tapping into opportunities and please, don't generalize it. Op feels concerned, she wants to be part of whatever deal the hubby is making cause they are in the race together. His engagements aren't a secret, but the wife not having a little glimpse of what's going on within will no doubt feel isolated and at some points, come to a false assumption. Like i said earlier, communication makes all the intentions and desires known.. If they were not having any issue via communication, this thread won't exist. Whatever you're doing, carry your wife along unless she doesn't care. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by dingbang(m): 11:31am On Dec 01, 2016 |
daremum:lol dingbang is a Chinese name. Not even close to what u think |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by mployer(m): 11:32am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Catalin:Lol You will be very potent for money rituals. I like your type ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by no1madman(m): 11:37am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Catalin:And u still expect him to demolish ur toto with all his strength. . |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by NoToPile: 11:38am On Dec 01, 2016 |
So nairalanders are equating gambling with hustling? They are 2 different things entirely, you see that lotto he is playing is somethinh that can ruin him if left unchecked , one can have multiple streams of income but gambling is not it at all. One day you stake all and then you lose it. The OP has a reason to be concerned. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by berrystunn(m): 11:38am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Nawa 4 some people... Self You even have husband that is into too many things... His chance of making money is high A man that is updated, taking advantage of what's going on in the system today, you are there asking for advice OK I will advise you to support and join him on MMM I will also advice you to stop him from lotto. I will advise you to look for something doing (job) You get luck... See your month like too many things. I know of someone (husband) that sleeps all day at home wake up visit friends just to eat, because she work all day. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by veronicababy: 11:42am On Dec 01, 2016 |
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Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by shinebabe(f): 11:43am On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: Have your own source of money. These days staying at home is not an excuse. Though I personally am.not into the ones your husband is doing but I'm into one that is less/no risk and it is passive income that can be earned while at home. When you have your own money, then you can talk to him about alternatives. Cos saying you'll get a job is also an uncertainty in this period. Mail* if you need more info on this. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by berrystunn(m): 11:46am On Dec 01, 2016 |
deedondavi: If you are not into MMM till date you are a mugu, they have another one yr to go down Email me for explanation gp4utof@yahoo.com |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by timota(m): 11:50am On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu:My sister ur husband is not into a lot of things that is bad he wants to make more money for the family to enjoy .i thought he is into rituals or robbery even the nairaland people u seek advice from 90 percent of them are into these things including me though I don't gamble but I do the mmm banking |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by leTrizzle: 11:52am On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: "Hustling" is ok as long as it is legal hustle. One question, can his take home pay cater for all your needs? Anyone depending solely on salary in this present day economy is on a long thing. Don't discourage him come up instead with other businesses/ventures he could investment in, be supportive and prayerful. My one kobo. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by delishpot: 11:52am On Dec 01, 2016 |
CHRISTIANO7779: Abeg, is it easier to be a woman? She is able to support him too. There is nothing that he is facing to make him choose the life of gambling. He earns good pay, he could re invest by starting a family business which the wife can run. I understand the MMM part, at least I can say he is trying to double his money to enable him do something. But other logo games like baba, ijebu and the rest, those ones are too big risks He is an addict and needs help not support and encouragement to continue |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by andyanders: 11:53am On Dec 01, 2016 |
ammyluv2002: Good advise from a very reasonable and responsible lady. I love your input to this situation and I believe your person to be a right woman.Keep it up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by ammyluv2002(f): 11:56am On Dec 01, 2016 |
andyanders:Thanks! I appreciate your kind words 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by chigoizie7(m): 11:59am On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: U think billionaires are made by doing one job? Let him diversify now that he has chance and capital to. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by abbeyty(m): 12:00pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
i bet if your husband finally hit jackpot from lotto your story will definitely change... you should be praying for him to hit jackpot sooner than later |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Longcucumber(m): 12:04pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu:my take on this is that since you are an house wife,can i come and be keeping you company when ever oga is not around. Abeg na joke i day o i no mean am,hehehehehehe,but on a serious note,pls and pls engarge in something for your own good.you must not rely on hubby for everything. |
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