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Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nobody: 12:05pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: Please wait until your baby is pass 3 months to start work again. It would be unwise to return to work too quickly, lest something happen to your child. Where are you and your hubby based in location? I ask because your surroundings definitely determine some of this behavior. Is there a family responsibility he is attending? The two of you may need to relocate to lighten the burden for a while. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by DESTINY41(m): 12:05pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
It is well, well I don't see anything wrong here in as much he provides for his family |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by bobbybrown007: 12:12pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
emeraldknytt:the fear of bet9ja and co is the beginning of wisdom |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by daremum(m): 12:33pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
dingbang: so you know my thought!!! Ding Bang. Cheers bro |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by odogwu190(m): 12:35pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Just lotto n mmm u r complaining assuming he smokes,drink to stupor,beat u,patronize our olosho's then we will say u have a p,but with lotto n mmm u don't have any problem madam unless u wan to give him 1m dolls |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by dfrost: 12:44pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
sapien: What is wrong with it? |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
ammyluv2002:Not everyone has the qualifications and zeal to teach. Oh in 9ja..schoolchildren are in trouble. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by sapien(m): 12:58pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
dfrost:Everything, bro, everything. Your wife wants to buy pampers, she waits till you get back from work. Your wife wants to buy her sanitary towels, she waits for your return. Your wife wants to buy matches and salt for cooking, she has to borrow from neighbours. Moreover, your wife will be the chief gossip and narrator of every event that transpire in the vicinity and in your house. How sensible is that? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by LEAFLET(m): 1:06pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
The only thing I can detect from this topic is that if you don't do MMM you are a mugu. That one dey!! Fck MMM anything. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by sparkleRed(f): 1:17pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
sapien: No d husband is suppose to drop an allowance either weekly or monthly and when she's about to run out of fund he reimburse nt like it's wen she wants to buy something he gives her money |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by ghostmist: 1:25pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
janco:As in eh.... I don't want to say she is a foolish wife but she leaves me no option. the young man is busy working his arse off, trying to set up streams of residual income and his wife wants to become an obstacle. I think she is seeking for an excuse to call him "lazy man" tomorrow. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by jaafree: 1:40pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Don't worry it is called huzzle! Next trend pls |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Papyrus411(m): 1:41pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: bet9ja is more dangerous pls. why? because the more he stakes the less he sees his money. Team z can beat team a without any prior announcement. Forecasting may not help every time. Unless he is not staking more than two to 3 games per a bet game. You don't need to know too much so that you won't use these info against him directly or indirectly. Look for a cool time to talk him out of his bad habits. That is his own imperfection traits. I trust you that you shall do a job on this with him. No fight , less argument because of the Girl in your womb o .. LOL |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nathan2016: 1:45pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
God please dont give me a wife with little ambition like the OP. Yes your husband is trying his best to get the family to be financially free, still you are complaining. The only advice is to tell him to reduce risk hes taking and GO GET JOB....JOB ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by tomzman: 1:48pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
HenryDion:QED! Op, this guy has said it all. Guy, take a stroll to the nearest bar and order any drink of your choice. The bill is on me. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by dfrost: 1:50pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
sapien: I agree with you on a first thought but also reason with me on the bolded. Women will always do most things you quoted even if they are working. I'm against women working either. My colleague almost died because she insisted on coming to work even though she's pregnant and almost due. Her husband has a good job that can cater for them very well. My oga, honestly women no suppose suffer at all. I salute those that work and cater for their wards. E no easy. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by misteryman: 1:52pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Leave him alone WIFE. That's what makes him happy ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu: I also pray that he does. Good luck to you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by sapien(m): 2:41pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
dfrost:Lol. Women aren't meant to suffer, but men are destined to work their asses off at work? Most 21st century men want independent and working class women, who would assist financially in the home front, except for extremely rich men who can afford all their wives expenses a la - taking her shopping every weekend, buying her a car, going on vacation together, taking care of her siblings etc. Moreover, married pregnant women are usually given maternity leave, so why should a woman who is due for delivery still be clamouring for work? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by sapien(m): 2:48pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
sparkleRed:That doesn't make sense, still. Asides reimbursing her account, when she's running out of funds, what type of man will take delight in coming home everyday from work and seeing his wife watching Telemundo or Zeeworld? Only an unambitious and dependent woman would even agree to being a full time house wife in this time and age. At a point, wouldn't she get bored? |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by Nobody: 3:07pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
tomzman: Lol.. thanks |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by InvertedHammer: 3:29pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu:/ If you are concerned, start looking for a job immediately. When he enquires about the sudden and serious job-hunting,then tell him about your concerns as you already know where the family finance is heading with his gambling problems. By the way, well-paying job in Nigeria today is an illusion because of the high risk of retrenchment that pervades in every sector. Why not have him start something on the side that you could be managing? Do you want to wait until his employment hits the rocks to start looking for alternatives. He is an employee. He is expendable. That should worry you more than his love for MMM and lotto. In 2017, as companies audit their accounts, expect more news like this in Nigeria: https://www.nairaland.com/3495780/ericsson-sacks-160-nigerian-workers Now think about it: Does your husband have a good paying job? \ 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 3:38pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
ghostmist: Hasn't come to that?! I no blame you sef, na me wey bring my matter come Nairaland.. All these small small children sef. pscheew# |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 3:43pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
sapien: I don't have time for all those, I spend my time on more profitable things I.e books and all. I also have a trade I learnt that I also teach people but my present condition made me stop as I don't have the strength for now. He made me stop the work I was doing because it was strenuous and it's a Lebanese company. So get your facts right before you judge. thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by sapien(m): 3:51pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
asunnu:I wasn't judging you, Madam; I was only talking from a general perspective. You are paranoid? Lol. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by saajus: 3:51pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Try to understand your husband. You've not really listed anything illegal here.. Are these things causing him not to give you attention. Are you scared he might be doing something worst you don't know. Are you thinking he will graduate to something worst/illegal if care is not taken. Do you think he can anything for money. is he from a poor background? Poverty is not good. If you've ever experienced it, you will be propelled to do anything legal and moral to be successful and save your future generations from the menace. Keep communicating with him. Keep doing passion check on him to know if he's still taking his moral stand in the midst of his great passion to make money. Example of passion check. playfully test him with one illegal biz. Real intentions are display sometimes during play..If he sharpedly says 'mba, Olorun maje', he's still under control...If he falls for it like giving it a second thought, then you need to start taming his passion. asunnu: |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by AdeniyiA(m): 3:53pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
if you ain't married,take your advice and shove it down your ass... meanwhile the only problem I see is you being jobless |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 3:55pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
misteryman: O.k Sir, I hear you. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 3:57pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
sapien: Para Wetin?! If I hear, also making clarification especially from your post. Thanks |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by asunnu(f): 4:01pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
Papyrus411: Lolz... thanks alot, I won't use it against him. He actually wants a boy and I want triplets (cover face). 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by butanep(m): 4:03pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
HenryDion: You have a point. Your opinion anyway. The last time I carried a woman along in a risk decision business, she always crumble the whole thing. Different stroke for different folks. |
Re: My Husband Is Into A Lot Of Things And It Bothers Me! by pressplay55: 4:25pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
deedondavi:mail me |
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