ELITE12:
thanks so so much... I will do that but camp closes a round 15 December so I will end her the text by next week Saturday

Kul.

Think of ideas for d picnic, some quick chops, 2 botls of water,a bottle of wine , fully charged phone(take pixs, make vidoes, teach her a song n have her sing along while u make d vids ... Remember, u can only pass tru this lane once! Make it memorable! ), a mat or some cloth u can spread on d field....field is more personal n private .
And d last requirement is dese drills u have learnt.
Make sure u r challenging, sassy n fun!
Let her see d light u spring, d fun u exume. And no matter what u do, never bring up any relationship talk. Let her naturally gravitate towards u!


U cant imagine how many seemingly serious r/ship i broke while i was in camp n during my service year( n i still occasionally break) by just being me; not bodering if they r hooked or not, not asking em out yet they cant but get attracted to me n start avoiding their guy's calls n just been uneasy when such calls come.
If your gurl frienD has ever ignored ur calls, who knows, maybe then she was getting hawt schooled by urs truely




When they say: "im in a r/ship" , i laugh so hard that it comfuses them! N d negative energy they try to heap on me, i turn it around on them by Flowing all sorts of i-dont-care lines, pity lines, and lines that makes them regret ever sayin.that.

I have dealth with this fully in one of the pages on this thread.



Guys, we were made for MORE!

HARDDON:



Man P, u have been with me for too long not to be able to handle these kinda lil issues ... by now, u should be helping newbies out.... u got to grow.

I throw ur question back @ u: , what can we do in dose situation?

Unfortunately i can only answer one of the questions i asked......i ain't interested in dating yet, am still learning the drills, and am desperate to be a Don in this game
buh anytime i wanna approach i jux feel this anxiety like i wanna woo her and i cant eliminate that.....

BTW am ambiversive

HARDDON:



Hottest111?

That sounds like an angry female hiding behind da moniker.

Angry like an herbalist whose secret of trade has been let outa da bag!

And we know beta than to seek advise from any momma n d female folks in general cos they would rather men r kept in dis needy perpetual bondage!


Btw, for a lil schooling, there is no hawt female type i havent rolled with. ( pretty, wealthy, powerful, all)

How can one have hawties @ his beck n call n be scrapping scrubs with his feet asking a lil tiny one , that dont even know how to wash her panties , out n shunting his web of flow?

Like i said, only INSECURE LAME GUYS, ASK GURLS OUT.
my kinda guys, have gurls assuming we dating after d first romantic bout

And testimonies in this thread confirms my assertion.

So if u dont mind, go back to ur makeup kit, padded b00bs n funky fake fangs

Cant imagine some1 that cant even quote Comments properly , balling in here to construe wisdom eons ahead of her. #Smh


MALE ZONE. KEEP OFF

" only INSECURE LAME GUYS,ASK GIRLS OUT"
like i said, dat's big trash. You re advising dis guys not 2 ask girls out.
so what shld they do instead ?.. He shld beat about bush right ?? guy u'r big learner.
dis is y most guys get friend zoned. or after beating about d bush n playing GAMES , he still didn't get d girl.
Guys, here is my advice....If u meet a new girl n after interacting with her u feel she d ONE. please ask her out in a confident and self assured manner. Let her know what u want 4rm her.

hottest111:


" only INSECURE LAME GUYS,ASK GIRLS OUT"
like i said, dat's big trash. You re advising dis guys not 2 ask girls out.
so what shld they do instead ?.. He shld beat about bush right ?? guy u'r big learner.
dis is y most guys get friend zoned. or after beating about d bush n playing GAMES , he still didn't get d girl.
Guys, here is my advice....If u meet a new girl n after interacting with her u feel she d ONE. please ask her out in a confident and self assured manner. Let her know what u want 4rm her.

your opinion has been dully noted and saved in my trash bin

liljboy:
your opinion has been dully noted and saved in my trash bin

Lolz Thankz bro

hottest111:


" only INSECURE LAME GUYS,ASK GIRLS OUT"
like i said, dat's big trash. You re advising dis guys not 2 ask girls out.
so what shld they do instead ?.. He shld beat about bush right ?? guy u'r big learner.
dis is y most guys get friend zoned. or after beating about d bush n playing GAMES , he still didn't get d girl.
Guys, here is my advice....If u meet a new girl n after interacting with her u feel she d ONE. please ask her out in a confident and self assured manner. Let her know what u want 4rm her.

Many girls, Don't want to be asked out.. They want the title: Dating to be attached to their interaction wit you.
They just want to enjoy interacting with you and going with the flow.

The moment you ask them out, ,it puts pressure on the relationship.
It makes it seem as if you need something from they that they are doing you a favour providing. Or it makes them feel like they have to be boxed into a structure with restrictions, losing the freedom that they cherish.

Not asking a girl out does not automatically translate into being put in the Friendzone. It depends on how you play your game and How exactly to play that Game is what HARDDON is teaching here.

hottest111:


" only INSECURE LAME GUYS,ASK GIRLS OUT"
like i said, dat's big trash. You re advising dis guys not 2 ask girls out.
so what shld they do instead ?.. He shld beat about bush right ?? guy u'r big learner.
dis is y most guys get friend zoned. or after beating about d bush n playing GAMES , he still didn't get d girl.
Guys, here is my advice....If u meet a new girl n after interacting with her u feel she d ONE. please ask her out in a confident and self assured manner. Let her know what u want 4rm her.

Sure, they should act needy n ask u out , so they can unwittingly hand u d control knob.
Giving u d power to keep them in a limbo( not Accepting nor rejecting yet eating their money, making magas out of them) , rejecting them n friendzoning them( what is that classic line u ladies use alot in situation like this? Hmmmmm, yea " i just want us to be friends! " Yet u have been eating their cash! How wicked can one get?


Ur ability to dabble into unfamiliar n totally engulfing territories n yet go dishing weak words n stale sense is alarming n somewhat amusing.

Like i told u ealier, this is no peruvian hair thread nor is it a gossip one.

So take a hike.
Unless ofcos u wano get schooled, then i'd hv to ask u to first upload a prf pixs, lets check u out if u r worth d while.
We dont do cheap serves nor impaired beauties here


Btw, d last time i checked, ladies cant afford us, what cud we possibly want from em?
Its u guys that want us.

liljboy:
your opinion has been dully noted and saved in my trash bin

Bruhahaha!

J, i think she like u, she's making passes , why dont u ASK her OUT?

Common, she hasnt had it for a long time.

Ask her out, b4 u r done , im sure she wud spead her legs for u!



Modified:

J, did she just call u bro?

Beta be careful gee! SheHe might just be a transG

LordZero:
[b] Nice work @HARDDON and others. ... ..I just want to say something to those claiming they are shy/introverted.. Deep down y'all are just trying to protect your ego (the part of you that fears failing, cares about what people think). That part of you will always want to keep you safe (keep u in your comfort zone) but heck MEN are not meant to stay in their comfort zone all their life. Acknowledge that part of you(and constantly remind yourself that you are a MAN not a baby) and take countrol of your life by pushing the limit of your comfort zone. What people will think or think of you doesn't matter: stop living too much in your head and stop worrying about what people think about you cos everybody is busy worrying about themselves to give 2 fvcks about you. It's all in your head.. Walk up to that girl you've been admiring and start a conversation about anything, two things might happen; 1. You succeed (had s great convo, collect her digit e.t.e) and realize strangers/new individuals are not monsters that will kill or eat you. OR 2. Things go horribly wrong and you end up feeling awkward but you'll learn from your mistake and improve ur skills for next time. The funniest part is u will be d one stressing yourself about the failed attempt because you are not the first to approach her and crash and won't be the last so probably in 30 minutes time, you are just one of the things that happened to her that day so it's all in your head. PEOPLE ARE BUSY WORRYING ABOUT THEMSELVES TO CARE ABOUT UR BLEEP UPS.. It's only you that will remember when you dribbled four guys b4 scoring a goal on the football pitch after 3 days, same applies to relating with people.. Fear of failure: if you don't fail, you can't learn from your mistakes, and if you don't learn, you can never improve. . Stop thinking about what to say, what will she will say or what she's going to tell people. Just walk up and say something (talk about her cloth, the environment or any thing meaningful) confidently or atleast pretend to be confident while saying it and b4 you know it you are talking (as long as you can think of witty stuffs on the spot).. Also talk to alot of people and in time you will get over the fear of talking to people/failing. . To newbies:: work on yourself b4 thinking of relationships, work on your body, self esteem, confidence, sense of humor, communication skills and relating with others. Above all cut the PÖRN AND WANKING (they rob you of your drive to meet other people of the opposite sêx). Be independent of the outcome of any conversation you want to get into, do it for fun and to learn new stuffs.... .. I hope to organize this better later and other things I will be posting later. (with due permission from Harddon and other bruhs in d house).. [/b] Always remember; everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear. .

you haven't dropped any more of these...

@DaySpringer,

You need educate herHim.

Is sheHe wants to learn, let HerHim simply ask n not claiming pseudo knowledge

HARDDON:


Bruhahaha!

J, i think she like u, she's making passes , why dont u ASK her OUT?

Common, she hasnt had it for a long time.

Ask her out, b4 u r done , im sure she wud spead her legs for u!



Modified:

J, did she just call u bro?

Beta be careful gee! SheHe might just be a transG

I'll pass.... by the way, got a handful from FB

liljboy:
I'll pass.... by the way, got a handful from FB

#Ouch!

Lol!

Gees growing huge Blue Ballz!

#Sleek!

DaySpringer:


Many girls, Don't want to be asked out.. They want the title: Dating to be attached to their interaction wit you.
They just want to enjoy interacting with you and going with the flow.

The moment you ask them out, ,it puts pressure on the relationship.
It makes it seem as if you need something from they that they are doing you a favour providing. Or it makes them feel like they have to be boxed into a structure with restrictions, losing the freedom that they cherish.

Not asking a girl out does not automatically translate into being put in the Friendzone. It depends on how you play your game and How exa to play that Game is what HARDDON is teaching here.

bro, m not saying you shld start telling a girl u want to date her or you want her to be ur girlfriend. If u do that she'll loose interest in you instantly.
There is a big different between asking a girl to be ur girlfriend and letting a girl know u'r interested in her in a confident and direct manner.

Guy, after playing ur games and using all those trick and techniques u might still not get d girl.
why ?? b'cos u dont av REAL self-confidence. That's y after everything u'v learnt u keep coming back here to seek advice and learn more tactics.
That's y some dudes can easily attracts a girl but d girl eventually loose interest after getting to know dem.
Some guys can easily collect a girl's phone number easily but after everything they still loose d girl.

OK.. Big question . All d girls wey u don collect dem numbers, how many u don Bleep ? tell ur self d truth

if u approach a girl n play all dis ur games and tricks on her, she might be attracted in you at first but at d end of d day, u'll still loose her.
but if I who's truly self confident(and relax) approach dat same girl, I'll not play any game or use any tricks.. she might not be attracted to me at first but at d end of d day I'll Bleep her.

see bro, no matter how u fake ur confident or act like u don't give a Bleep wen u actually do ;;;after a girl test and challenges u, ur real insecure n needy self will eventually come out

HARDDON:


Sure, they should act needy n ask u out , so they can unwittingly hand u d control knob.
Giving u d power to keep them in a limbo( not Accepting nor rejecting yet eating their money, making magas out of them) , rejecting them n friendzoning them( what is that classic line u ladies use alot in situation like this? Hmmmmm, yea " i just want us to be friends! " Yet u have been eating their cash! How wicked can one get?


Ur ability to dabble into unfamiliar n totally engulfing territories n yet go dishing weak words n stale sense is alarming n somewhat amusing.

Like i told u ealier, this is no peruvian hair thread nor is it a gossip one.

So take a hike.
Unless ofcos u wano get schooled, then i'd hv to ask u to first upload a prf pixs, lets check u out if u r worth d while.
We dont do cheap serves nor impaired beauties here


Btw, d last time i checked, ladies cant afford us, what cud we possibly want from em?
Its u guys that want us.

First of all I'm a guy n secondly m not trying to oppose d good work u'r doing here. but m just gonna be honest with you.

You said if a guy ask a girl out, he has giving her all the power.

M sure u must av heard dat in any relationship, d person who cares more hold less power.
In other words d person who needs something badly from d other person ( like money, attention, sex, validation etc), holds less power.
If a guys does not need anything from her, even tho he ask her out weda she accepts or not he still holds d power.

HARDDON, I'm a typical naija guy n av dated lot of naija girls n am talking from experience.
If u don't let d girl know u'r interested in her earlier in d interaction, most of d time u'll end up loosing d girl

It's better u let her know u'r interested in her in a highly confident and I DON'T CARE MANNER than beating about the bush and playing games.

and i firmly stand against spending money on girls.

...

peterpen:

Unfortunately i can only answer one of the questions i asked......i ain't interested in dating yet, am still learning the drills, and am desperate to be a Don in this game
buh anytime i wanna approach i jux feel this anxiety like i wanna woo her and i cant eliminate that.....

BTW am ambiversive

You mean Ambivert. That's cool bro, I'm extremely introverted so lucky you

HARDDON:
@DaySpringer,

You need educate herHim.

Is sheHe wants to learn, let HerHim simply ask n not claiming pseudo knowledge

hehehhehe... bro, that babe uploaded a picture of another guy with a kiss sticker on the face of the pic and said "HBD Bae" I wanted to ignore her for that day and act like I was too busy to chat but something made me still chat her on a plan ground, did the witty stuff and jokes as usual but this time, very briefly. Though she was online for much longer on that day but I didn't buzz her any further since Friday and till now, no chat from me.

Let's see if she breaks the ice again

hottest111:


First of all I'm a guy n secondly m not trying to oppose d good work u'r doing here. but m just gonna be honest with you.

You said if a guy ask a girl out, he has giving her all the power.

M sure u must av heard dat in any relationship, d person who cares more hold less power.
In other words d person who needs something badly from d other person ( like money, attention, sex, validation etc), holds less power.
If a guys does not need anything from her, even tho he ask her out weda she accepts or not he still holds d power.

HARDDON, I'm a typical naija guy n av dated lot of naija girls n am talking from experience.
If u don't let d girl know u'r interested in her earlier in d interaction, most of d time u'll end up loosing d girl

It's better u let her know u'r interested in her in a highly confident and I DON'T CARE MANNER than beating about the bush and playing games.

and i firmly stand against spending money on girls.

Your moniker is one of the most transgender ones, Ive come across here. U shld change it. Pun intended


Nonetheless, @ first bolded, it is either you jumped on this thread straight up, or u are classically impaired when in comes to comprehension.
If not, you wud have noticed i said everything in here are mostly from personal experience. N i have been relating
Diverse life stories to butress that.
So u think i read these drills from books, yet im able to ansa real time, real life senerios books dont offer u? Wow! I can see u r eager to learn, go tru d thread.

@second bolded , if u have experienced super hawt chicks from d world over, like i have, u wudnt spill some of ur weak wisdom here.
I put it to u that d only 9ja gurls u hv even dated wudnt make my top 30 list. Cheap serves.

@ third bolded
This your statement confirms you are a real learner!

News flash! While u r getting scared of losing her, she is getting scared of LOSING GUYS LIKE ME!
While u r busy buying her attention by bribing her with cash n gifts so that she can accept u, she is busy calling me with d airtime u sent, taking me out with d cash u sent n doing all to please me even when she knows ive got other hawt ones coming around, she wano be n0 1. So she impresses me, just like u try to impress her!

You are like a company worker that is always scared of losing his job because he contributes little or nothing to the company's growth!

I am like an invaluable asset, manAgement is always on its toes doing everything to make me happy because they know other companies r wooing me , trying to have me onboard!

SEE the difference btw u n I? We are world's apart.


Btw, this is no game! N if there is any1 beating about the bush, i'd say itz u cos u got no control over nothing. .ask her out, create tension, n she puts u on a limbo.....then u go spending n imploying....
I make fun of her beauty, hair, b000bs , height n anyother thing on her, she get stung because im just totally diffetent from regular , average guys like u, then she comes d next day wanting to feel more of my ego charm n have a dose of healthy laughter n b4 u know it, she is singing erotical songs on me n after that, wants me for keeps! ( NO BRAGGING BUT I KNOW HOW N WHERE TO TOUCH A WOMAN N DRIVE HER TO DA SKIES! I have had loads of ladies , that have been making love to other guys, experience orgasm the first time in their lives because they were privileged to hv me touch them...n thereafter, fall so deeply in love! Get obsessed n want me for keeps...... )
This is why i pity guys like u when i like your gfs' endowment! You wud naturally lose her even if i warn them not to fall in love with me that i wud end up breaking their honey hearts, they still wud! The heart of a woman is that desperate for a something new n exciting! Unlike what majority of guys, like u, offer!

Who is really beating about the bush btw u , average guys n US?

Curiosity Kills The Cat! But you wudnt know!


Help your career n go tru d thread n stop bribing gurls, wasting resources n feeling heart aches!

Due to popular Demand,

Next Drill Nugget wud be about the Right Ways To Have a Gurl Ask You out!

Yea , i know we doing reverse

yea following dis treat to d end. though I av b busy wit my work.there dis girl DAT I got wit ur drill BT sumtin happen ever since I av b dating dis girl I dnt av time for any other girl because I knw dat she love me so much.even another girl DAT cum to my working place after help her do one or two tin in is phone.she ask of my number BT I decline due d love I got from my gf,though I see d pain of disappointed in her face,who cared.bt my concient is disturbing me nt to play dat my gf cos dis girl love my die ooo,she do d calling after I wnted to end d call I will also tell her to call me so so time nd she will call even wen I av forgoten DAT I av given her an order to call it wen i check time dat i will remember dat dis is d time i said she shuld call.bt am afraid girls wit little brain she fit change anytime I keep DAT in my upstair so I wnt feel hurt wen sumtin wnt wrong,though I av notin to loose cos I dnt gv her money nd she did nt request,did u suggest I go for another girls,cos I av so many pending in my list,DAT I will start acting like bf nd dey follow up,I dnt care who u epp weather u get bf or nt,jst gv me my respect,nd DAT soft boom in front of urs,though am still rolling sum parol BT wen I remember her I shrink cos I dnt knw wat can happen to her if she caught me.shuld i go for as many as possible,advice needed pls.hardon keep balling u ar my mentor, if any guy,read ur treat nd is life is still dsame he need deliverance cos d old women at is village is at work.I drop my pen,tuale to u

can't even comprehend the above write up

fluxmind:


You mean Ambivert. That's cool bro, I'm extremely introverted so lucky you

we need to get outta that stupid shell, u cant imagine hw many babes ave missed cos of it...

liljboy:
can't even comprehend the above write up

yeah, it is like straining one's brain but I did get his point. He is giving the ladies "I don't care" attitude which seem to be working for him but he is afraid it might backfire if he does not take them serious lol.

youngfocus:
yea following dis treat to d end. though I av b busy wit my work.there dis girl DAT I got wit ur drill BT sumtin happen ever since I av b dating dis girl I dnt av time for any other girl because I knw dat she love me so much.even another girl DAT cum to my working place after help her do one or two tin in is phone.she ask of my number BT I decline due d love I got from my gf,though I see d pain of disappointed in her face,who cared.bt my concient is disturbing me nt to play dat my gf cos dis girl love my die ooo,she do d calling after I wnted to end d call I will also tell her to call me so so time nd she will call even wen I av forgoten DAT I av given her an order to call it wen i check time dat i will remember dat dis is d time i said she shuld call.bt am afraid girls wit little brain she fit change anytime I keep DAT in my upstair so I wnt feel hurt wen sumtin wnt wrong,though I av notin to loose cos I dnt gv her money nd she did nt request,did u suggest I go for another girls,cos I av so many pending in my list,DAT I will start acting like bf nd dey follow up,I dnt care who u epp weather u get bf or nt,jst gv me my respect,nd DAT soft boom in front of urs,though am still rolling sum parol BT wen I remember her I shrink cos I dnt knw wat can happen to her if she caught me.shuld i go for as many as possible,advice needed pls.hardon keep balling u ar my mentor, if any guy,read ur treat nd is life is still dsame he need deliverance cos d old women at is village is at work.I drop my pen,tuale to u

baba what the hell happened with paragraphs?

radiokilla:
baba what the hell happened with paragraphs?

I tire for the guy o. And he said he is employed.

@ youngfocus, tot you promised to take a deep breath before typing here after the last episode?

Edit that write

in response to dis thread https://www.nairaland.com/3500927/dont-no-y-not-lucky headword i want to see u here right now

BadBullet:
in response to dis thread https://www.nairaland.com/3500927/dont-no-y-not-lucky headword i want to see u here right now

headword receive brain here

liljboy:
headword receive brain here

You guys surmon n invoke people likE u r invoking spirit now?

But ehmmmm, jst imagine the moniker u r invoking


Chai, what ive i done?

HARDDON:



You guys now surmon n invoke people likE u r invoking spirit now?

But ehmmmm, jst imagine the moniker u r invoking


Chai, what ive i done?

hey hardDon.......there is dis girl actually in my church(she is actually d pastor daughter and just clocked 19 this week.................and i just clocked 18)she is always staring at me everytime in d church.....................yap every single time...........

And i am beginning to think she has a crush on me.......;;;;;;;;;but i am scared to approach her cos am not really sure
NOTE.;she is a very pretty girl and every boys dream
but d thing is that we don't talk to each other before except when we little which shld be 8 years ago.........
I also think she is far above my level to even like me at all




am also handsome toO(people tell me a lot especially girls)

Teniolasmart:
hey hardDon.......there is dis girl actually in my church(she is actually d pastor daughter and just clocked 19 this week.................and i just clocked 18)she is always staring at me everytime in d church.....................yap every single time...........

And i am beginning to think she has a crush on me.......;;;;;;;;;but i am scared to approach her cos am not really sure
NOTE.;she is a very pretty girl and every boys dream
but d thing is that we don't talk to each other before except when we little which shld be 8 years ago.........
I also think she is far above my level to even like me at all




am also handsome toO(people tell me a lot especially girls)

@ 18, you are just to young to start having heart issues. Wait till u r 21
But nothing stops u from making gud friends with no strings attached.

To break d ice btw u two, wen u notice her staring just smile n walk up to her n start a convo like this:

Hi, i noticed u r too shy to come say hello to a cute guy, so here i am to help ur ministry.

As she is laughing n thunderstruck, continue thus:

We used to be very kul wen we were younger remember?
But u gave me loads of troubles.
....