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Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 10:35am On Dec 04, 2016 |
It's beautiful Sunday morning here and while thinking about so many things, I also had to ponder on this. So I put it out there and hope to get educated on this subject matter. What does a lady have to offer in a relationship? Is it just sex, intimacy or companionship? What are the special characteristics of a girl that could come to bare in a relationship? I hope someone educates me on this because as a lady, if all you have to offer in your relationship is sex, then you're on a very long thing because these days, at the rate at which oloshos throw themselves around, sex can be very cheap. If it's intimacy, I may like to inform you that a lap dance costs just 1k in most strip clubs. So what else do you girls have to offer in a relationship? 1 Like |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by falconey(m): 10:40am On Dec 04, 2016 |
"If it's intimacy, I may like to inform you that a lap dance costs just 1k in most strip clubs" anyone in Lagos you know of? please do tell |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 10:44am On Dec 04, 2016 |
falconey:Go to Allen Avenue or better still, visit the ashewo beer parlour thread in the sexuality section. I have to warn you though. You visit one at your own discretion. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by ObioratheBully: 10:44am On Dec 04, 2016 |
Fact: females who say "no sex before marriage" have nothing else to offer in a relationship apart from sex. 3 Likes |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by dingbang(m): 10:46am On Dec 04, 2016 |
Two heads are better than one! |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 10:47am On Dec 04, 2016 |
ObioratheBully: You can say that again. I remember this chick who told me that and yet still wanted us to make out. So she intends to keep making me hard and Hot only to keep me waiting till the wedding night. I wasted no time dumping her sorry ass and I have no regrets. 1 Like |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Tallesty1(m): 11:13am On Dec 04, 2016 |
falconey:I don't understand guys that pay for lapdance. I mean, if you want someone to frustrate you sexually and still walk away with your money then get a wife. @Op people who are not ready to sett down in a few months of dating are just wasting each others time. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by falconey(m): 11:15am On Dec 04, 2016 |
[quote author=Tallesty1 post=51622262][/quote] haba man of God! |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 11:26am On Dec 04, 2016 |
Tallesty1: There's no difference between such and those who pay for sex. Anyways, duration of dating is one thing but that doesn't answer the nagging question of what girls brings to the table as regards relationships. or maybe I should agree with those who claim that they should only be used for sexual gratification. In that case, no one is actually being used because sex is a mutually pleasurable activity that is enjoyed by both parties. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Splinz(m): 11:30am On Dec 04, 2016 |
It depends on what you called "relationship". By that do you mean as shared by husband and wife or BF/GF kind of relationship If as the former, the best person to see if she offers anything to a man is no other than MUM. Does your mum has anything to offer your dad And if it's the latter, the question is: what were you honestly expecting from a woman in a relationship that is majorly flirtatious in nature, other than sex Be the judge. 5 Likes |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by falconey(m): 11:30am On Dec 04, 2016 |
Tallesty1: lwkm haha haha man will always have sexual fantasies, nothing wrong in spending few cash on sexual adventure. it fun better than rape and sexual harassment. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 04, 2016 |
..What does u as a man have 2 offer a woman in a relationship Nobody say money cuz most men broke |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 11:35am On Dec 04, 2016 |
Splinz: Just assume i don't have a mum or dad. Now tell us what you learnt from yours. In the meantime , we are talking about relationships here not marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:37am On Dec 04, 2016 |
what else? seriously i pity the ones doing yanga, they don't know they depreciate physically faster than guys! a guy at 20 you will find still looking as hot even at 50! you cant say that about gehs. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by dollyjoy(f): 11:40am On Dec 04, 2016 |
There are lot of things to offer in a relationship, sex isn't one of them. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 11:40am On Dec 04, 2016 |
ItzMePuffPuff:That's a good question puffy. Besides companionship and spending quality time with her, I offer my lady a chance to build a home, I offer adventure, I offer her protection, a good shelter amongst many other things like meeting her basic needs. Now what does a guy get in return. Babies? |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Fidelismaria: 11:42am On Dec 04, 2016 |
oya na were dem dey cum answer na |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 11:52am On Dec 04, 2016 |
BrandNewIV:What's so speacial about yer "company can she not get a cat?! YES! And fluffy is cuter ☆Home?? U mean the building or a family? If the building she can buy her own If a family . Family encompasses all famille types,not just husband/wife/babies ☆Protection? U bullet proof? ☆She got a job and been provding shelter and takin' care of her needs . Why does she need u now? ☆☆☆☆☆ Oh and uhm everything on yer list can be said that a woman offers this 2 her partner but instead of faux protecter she would be home maker 4 Likes |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Splinz(m): 12:05pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
BrandNewIV: I learnt and still learning a lot of things from dad/mum relationships. I tell you, it's simply an amazing union which serves as a guide to me as their child. I believed you were taught as early as in the primary school, the roles of a father & mother in the family. Coming down to bf/gf level, I think it is EVEN. I mean, if you think that it's only a guy that provides money, protection etc, then you may as well think again. The truth is, there're some bf/gf relationships where the girl is the all and all. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 12:06pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
ItzMePuffPuff: You obviously don't know what it means to have a man protect you or look out for you. Let's assume, you bought a car with your hard earned money, I bet my two balls that mechanics will rip you dry the day it develops a fault and you have no trusted man to look into that for you. Now it's always been my dream to present my woman with a brand new SUV as a present on a special occasion but how many ladies out there deserves such. Now you now what I'm talking about. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
A female will offer you what you asked for in a relationship.. The question is ' what do you want in a relationship ' ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
BrandNewIV:didnt i say most men are broke and have little 2 offer financially. How will he provide a new car? And if u say he can improve his station .....so can a woman and buy her own car. This is the usual root. ☆☆☆☆ Salespersons will rip any1 off who doesnt know how 2 handle them. Learn 2 Likes |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Oyinkhansolamie(f): 12:14pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
BrandNewIV:i beg wat is d importance of relationship if it doesn't lead to marriage. talk something else 2 Likes |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 12:18pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Oyinkhansolamie: Must EVERY relationship lead to marriage? That you're someone's bf/gf doesn't mean he/she owes you anything. It's called a relationship, not an Agreement. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by FvckShiT(m): 12:18pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
all they got is they fūcking pússy |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by BrandNewIV(m): 12:26pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: Good answer As regards your counter opinion puffy, I won't argue with you anymore since I've noticed that about most African American women being too head strong and less submissive. Now to what I want from my woman. 1. I need her to be submissive and respect me. If she has an opinion on any matter at hand, she can easily throw it in as a suggestion. Its left to me to decide the best route to follow. 2. I need a good cook and a home maker. Thankfully, in not also bad in cooking for myself buy I'm terribly bad at doing house chores. My ex wasn't a good cook but she was good at cleaning which I assisted with. 3. I need a good listener. Lastly, 4. I need a Lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. The list is inexhaustible but good those listed above will do for now. |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 1:19pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
It's annoying when you guys objectify women, see us as sex objects. Especially on Nl. Op in answer to your question, a woman builds the relationship, she takes care of her man. Gives him a listening ear, advice's him when he needs it. Helps takes care of the home and his needs. A woman is a nurturer. A woman is so much in a relationship. An intelligent woman can help you with your business, give you good business ideas, from a different perspective. I know my mum did that a lot for my dad. You need to meet the right woman and maybe you'll see the importance of the right woman in your life Cc BrandNewIV |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 1:36pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Let me walk with you on waters Wherever you may call me... |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Antina(f): 2:59pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
BrandNewIV: No, she contributes in solving whatever bothering you, shares your problem together, sometimes give advice on issues with family (ur family), gives her own perspective on a project u are trying to embark on (if any), makes sure your kids are well mannered, so on and so forth. And don't forget, she also left her house to spend the rest of her life with you. 1 Like |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 3:10pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Antina:Would she had rather stay in her house? |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Antina(f): 3:17pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Vorpal:Simple No, but all the same you should give her the credit naa |
Re: Question For The Ladies. by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Antina: Of course,credit that is due to her. I believe the bible says,give honour to whom honour is due to. 1 Like |
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