I got married 9yrs ago, I met my wife a virgin, we had a quarrel recently, we are not living together right now because I'm in abroad, I had to report her to her mum, she was so annoyed about what I did, she said that I didn't report to her mum that I met her a virgin but I could report her negative deed, my question is this, is it right to tell one's mother in law that his wife is a virgin or not? mature contributions please?

In Igbo culture if you married your wife a virgin, you will buy assorted gifts for your inlaws for training their daughter well. Though its no longer rampant like before.

well if you want to talk about somebody's bad, you should also be able to talk about their good.

xendra:
well if you want to talk about somebody's bad, you should also be able to talk out their good.

gbam.

Op IS reporting to his mummy for HIM to appear like a saint and her a devil

What is wrong in settling your grievances within your bedroom

AN omo mummy man spotted

My mummy this my mummy that

Rada rada.mummies hand bag.don't grow up you hear.when your children too misbehave report them to your mummy as usual

dangotesmummy:
gbam.
Op IS reporting to his mummy for HIM to appear like a saint and her a devil
What is wrong in settling your grievances within your bedroom
AN omo mummy man spotted
My mummy this my mummy that
Rada rada.mummies hand bag.don't grow up you hear.when your children too misbehave report them to your mummy as usual

na comments like dis make ncc wan hike data cost


Op said he stays abroad,so what bedroom is ur talking bout.

Do u even ve a wife sev..nd why d names,if u dnt ve sane things to say just jump nd pass,no need to display ur nak.ed stvpidity.


If i say afo,nja now nd demented comments now,u will be crying like pikin wey dem collect sweet from im hand.

Be guided

Khd95:
na comments like dis make ncc wan hike data cost


Op said he stays abroad,so what bedroom is ur talking bout.

Do u even ve a wife sev..nd why d names,if u dnt ve sane things to say just jump nd pass,no need to display ur nak.ed stvpidity.


If i say afo,nja now nd demented comments now,u will be crying like pikin wey dem collect sweet from im hand.

Be guided

sharap your dirty mouth in nyalees voice

So because they're not together that's why he should be exposing his dirty linen.a grown man cannot handle marriage?

Smh. As flat as your head is no brain inside?

dangotesmummy:
sharap your dirty mouth in nyalees voice

So because they're not together that's why he should be exposing his dirty linen.a grown man cannot handle marriage?

Smh. As flat as your head is no brain inside?

ur monika already betrayed u,oponu

that same man that couldnt handled his marriage has managed dat same marriage for 9yrs,in ur damp nd compressed brain,its easy to maintain marriage abi


For ur info,iam no flatie,i be better okene boi cum lagos boi, .

Khd95:
ur monika already betrayed u,oponu

that same man that couldnt handled his marriage has managed dat same marriage for 9yrs,in ur damp nd compressed brain,its easy to maintain marriage abi


For ur info,iam no flatie,i be better okene boi cum lagos boi, .

9 years and he's still running to mummy HE never ready to grow up meanwhile dangote is my son so mind your speech

Ikene boy ko egun boy ni

dangotesmummy:
9 years and he's still running to mummy HE never ready to grow up meanwhile dangote is my son so mind your speech

Ikene boy ko egun boy ni

i give up on you,quit smoking afonja weed,u hear

This is what happens when we sell our daughters. The man runs to the original "property" owner to make complaints.

I never said my mum, it was her mum, and I am not in the country

dangotesmummy:
gbam.

Op IS reporting to his mummy for HIM to appear like a saint and her a devil

What is wrong in settling your grievances within your bedroom

AN omo mummy man spotted

My mummy this my mummy that

Rada rada.mummies hand bag.don't grow up you hear.when your children too misbehave report them to your mummy as usual

I don't know if you are married yet, don't you quarrel with your wife? there was nothing like a dirty linen to be exposed, she just offended me

dangotesmummy:
sharap your dirty mouth in nyalees voice

So because they're not together that's why he should be exposing his dirty linen.a grown man cannot handle marriage?

Smh. As flat as your head is no brain inside?

Ebenezerk2:
I don't know if you are married yet, don't you quarrel with your wife? there was nothing like a dirty linen to be exposed, she just offended me

and you cannot deal with the issue with her alone? 3rd party must be involved?

Ebenezerk2:
I never said my mum, it was her mum, and I am not in the country

keep 3rd party out of your marriage. By the time you settle whatever is between you and your wife YOU may have forgotten. Your wife may have forgotten but her mother won't and By the way third parties (inlaws) don't settle issues they tend to take sides which often worsens the issues

Khd95:
i give up on you,quit smoking afonja weed,u hear

gbenuesoun

xendra:
well if you want to talk about somebody's bad, you should also be able to talk out their good.

Exactly! This is what your wife means

You should have at least appreciate the parents and even your wife for being a good girl all this while.It's not easy o.
Besides learn to settle issues with your wife without the intervention of third party

Very funny
You mean, I'll call my MIL and tell her what?

Acidosis:
Very funny

You mean, I'll call my MIL and tell her what?

Lol.
You don't state it explicitly, you buy gifts and thank her with all those heavily embedded adages _ she may get the message, if she doesn't, she would ask her daughter for clarification privately .

PaperLace:

Lol.
You don't state it explicitly, you buy gifts and thank her with all those heavily embedded adages _ she may get the message, if she doesn't, she would ask her daughter for clarification privately .

That sounds good. Na the virgin remain.. are you one?

Acidosis:


That sounds good. Na the virgin remain.. are you one?

I done dash am out tey tey

PaperLace:
I done dash am out tey tey

ah

Ebenezerk2:
I got married 9yrs ago, I met my wife a virgin, we had a quarrel recently, we are not living together right now because I'm in abroad, I had to report her to her mum, she was so annoyed about what I did, she said that I didn't report to her mum that I met her a virgin but I could report her negative deed, my question is this, is it right to tell one's mother in law that his wife is a virgin or not? mature contributions please?

I can't answer your question accurately until I know exactly what your spouse did to warrant the reporting.From your tone, it seems you did this so that those who are close to her here in Nigeria can caution her. What did she do? Was it infidelity?

"Reported her?" Come on of you are going to fall out at least iron out matters with the person you married to first.How do you think you will appear as a husband to her family if you have to "report " each misdeed . And she has a point in some aspects if you are going to make it a habit to include third parties then report everything good and bad, why only push the issues forward?

Your wife is right, very right.

Your wife was talking in parables. Read between the lines. You owe her an apology

I agree with the poster above. I mean no disrespect OP, but there's nothing mature about your post so you shouldn't really expect mature responses. It's so lame to use Your wife's sexual status as the topic of this post. The last question in your original post also sounds dumb seeing that you've been married for years. Finally, you didn't even say what your wife did which means it's pretty negligible. In your words "she just offended you". Like seriously? From Your wife's response to you, she sounds a lot more mature than you are.

For the record, she meant that "the best(i believe) good deed she's ever done, you kept a secret, but a slight mistake and you run to an outsider". So wrong bro.