Raine80:
It's a concept I don't understand either, as a woman either you like the guy or you don't and the sooner you let him know the less absorbing it is for both of you. This endless merry go around is an alien concept to me. This is why some women are single seriously a guy has a full time job already pursing you should not be a job in itself and please don't give me any bs about being easy and all that playing hard to get does not make you morally superior it makes you a very indecisive and potentially quite irritating.

Exactly...... Why play hard to get when you know you'll say yes eventually

Or why keep Him suspenseful when you don't like or feel anything for Him?

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bbmpin:
Just women?

Really? You do realize that men do all the things women do, right?

It depends what you mean by hard to get. If a woman/man is not interested and makes this clear, then she/he is not playing hard to get and she/he has the right to be left alone and not pursued or harassed in any way.

If that person is interested but is too immature to say so, then you ought to question why you're so interested in them in the first place.

It's rare to see a Lady chase a guy

Even if She gives the guy signals, She'll still expect the guy to act first

bbmpin:
Just women?

Really? You do realize that men do all the things women do, right?

It depends what you mean by hard to get. If a woman/man is not interested and makes this clear, then she/he is not playing hard to get and she/he has the right to be left alone and not pursued or harassed in any way.

If that person is interested but is too immature to say so, then you ought to question why you're so interested in them in the first place.

ObioratheBully:


Im not afraid to hustle and I don't give up easy.. So I don't really mind a girl who plays hard to get, the best things in life aren't free or easy to come by..


However, I know where to draw the line..

Stretchi:
Evul beings,they use it to hook guys on long term,financially,emotionally, doesn't Work for me, i go for the less conceited n arrogant.

KissChrix:
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Most reasonable guys have no interest or tolerance for the "hard to get" game.

ItsTheBachelor:


I beg to differ. On behalf of most reasonable guys,l say we have the interest and tolerance for the ''hard to get'' game - if she's worth it.
I for one,enjoy the chase.

KissChrix:

Well, that's your own opinion
I can only chase a Lady I know will make a great wife-material
Chasing a girl to date? Nahh

ItsTheBachelor:


But why waste your time dating a girl that you won't marry?

BiafranBushBoy:
MTCHEEWW... SHitty comments everywhere!!!

D'you mind pinpointing them?


Just wanna know your stand

KissChrix:


D'you mind pinpointing them?


Just wanna know your stand

BiafranBushBoy:


Most niggurs claiming that once a girl plays hard to get, they let the girl be...bla bla bla bla bla...

Are the type that get lots of things just to please an ugly or average chicks!!

When you aim for girls with Dough/super stocked account, you will know that she needs to play hard to screen out assholes!!

Thats why we wait behind for the assholes to move along before we claim our inheritance!!

Wetin I wan talk sef?


Your own girl-chasing na for money

KissChrix:
One of the more ridiculous pieces of advice I hear spun out to women with frightening regularity is " Play hard to get ."

Where does this stuff come from? The whole playing hard to get thing is archaic, 19th century nonsense.


Most reasonable guys have no interest or tolerance for the "hard to get" game. The men love the chase myth has been propagated for years with very little (if any) rebuttal. It's just one of those things that has always been openly declared and just as openly unchallenged, so the myth has become accepted fact.

The fact that the woman doesn't need us makes her a challenge .
But what guys don't love, is the chase. When you think about the concept of the chase with a healthy dose of logic, it's crystal clear why that type of gamesmanship makes little sense.

Why begin something new and potentially great by pretending to be uninterested initially?
When you pretend to be less interested than you really are, does this not set the tone for the rampant 'game-playing' aspect of dating most of us want eliminated?

Additionally, a guy may decide that he's wasting his time because he can't figure out where he stands. So while you and your girlfriends are busy trying to "make him work for it" because you don't want to seem too eager or too interested, he's moved on because he met someone who was interested and wasn't afraid to be open about it.
I'm not saying that women should throw their dignity on the craps table. I'm not saying stuff your underwear into a guy's shirt pocket with a hotel key attached to it. No one's advocating that you get all possessive and Fatal Attraction-esque; we're just saying to keep it real.

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KissChrix:


Wetin I wan talk sef?


Your own girl-chasing na for money