it all started here :

www.nairaland.com/2721807/pls-nairalanders-need-advice-issue

but I ignored all warnings because I loved him and was convinced that he was the right one for me. I gave him my support, my love and my heart but he returned it to me broken. I wish he was even man enough to say goodbye.

a relationship of two years is about to end because as I type, he has not picked my calls or replied my chats for two weeks now.

i'm so broken right now and I don't know what to do to mend my broken heart. I've tried to take my mind off this but all I can do is think, think, think of him. perhaps posting this will ease my pain, who knows?

below are the screen shots of our last chat for your understanding.

last one

choi, my fellow ladies dey suffer...my heavenly father know I can't take sh*t from any guy at all...
my advice to you is to harden your hrt and forget abt him, the lord is your strength.

sorry about that op,

i know it hurts, but that's how life is, it's unfair sometimes.
u have to move on, thinking about it won't help/solve anything.

shiit happens ma'am,

all we have to do, is pick ourselves back up when we fall, & walk tall

Block and delete Asap... Move on to better things

Oooops!

I can't let any guy treat me like this, not in this world.

My dear, all I can tell you to do is, ignore him, get into your room, sit on the bed, play any song you like, get a pillow and cry till you're over him..

Stop this thing you're doing.. Its really annoying..

Leave him op, if he is for you. He will run back.
As your name implies; Queens don't beg.
Good people smile on the long run.
Just trust God and thrash him.

see humiliation. God knows how i hate this. i don't ignore people so i don't like being ignored.
Just move on ehn. Sorry

Is obvious he has ended the relationship. And from your previous thread, this dude in question doesn't love you, if you're holding on hoping for a miracle to happen cos you're head over heels in love with him, i'm sorry to say this...it isn't going to happen.
Block him and cry as much as you can, it helps.

Move on, he doesn't deserve you. A better guy will definitely come your way.
Sorry dear!.

Ho broke your heart... right??
Find someone to break his.. that way, the cycle continues...
When giving him your heart, did you collect collateral??
How many guys have you done same??
Bullshit!!!
No offence tho!

mtcheeew. the result of joblessness

hmmm its more fun when it's the other way around. guys are mentally and emotionally stronger even under duress.

take heart Sis.

The guy is really harsh. Focus in your business or something. Channel the pain and hurt into your work or studies, and not only will you get over the douche, your business or studies will do better.

Good luck!!

When ladies ignore guys like this, these same ladies commenting will get amused...




I don't see any good reason why you ladies should get surprised.

Sorry lady,some relationships are like that.


What was your offence by the way?

So lemme get this straight; U're in a long distance relationship with a guy who's on NYSC somewhere far away?

BTW, like really, wat did you do to piss him off?

Op, it is well. Your life is and can never revolves around that unfortunate guy who's undeserving of your love.

I know it hurts, feeling pains is what makes us humans anyway.

So, just get over it already. You got a life to live...

Sorry.

Na for here I see where dem dey ask person to cry as solution to problem.

dacblogger:
choi, my fellow ladies dey suffer...my heavenly father know I can't take sh*t from any guy at all...
my advice to you is to harden your hrt and forget abt him, the lord is your strength.

thanks

dingbang:
When ladies ignore guys like this, these same ladies commenting will get amused...




I don't see any good reason why you ladies should get surprised.

lwkm because we are mentally, emotionally stronger, can pretty cool handle pressure,rejection or denial.

I hate such heartless treatment,this is heartbreaking with insult and humiliation without any atom of respect or regards.

Meanwhile my dear you've to pick up yourself and simply move on it is not easy though but it is the best option for you,don't bother wasting your time on that guy that is if you can, for your own good.

AlexCk:
sorry about that op,

i know it hurts, but that's how life is, it's unfair sometimes.
u have to move on, thinking about it won't help/solve anything.

shiit happens ma'am,

all we have to do, is pick ourselves back up when we fall, & walk tall

thanks

Nma27:
Block and delete Asap... Move on to better things

I've done that already

eeyah, i really feel for u...

terms of every relationship must be clear to those involved in it

the guy does not love you the way you do i.e. there is lack of balance or near balance in your love affair

so, just ditch the guy and don't fall for his plea if he tries to get you back

in short, stop wasting your time, the guy is not serious

Laveda:
Oooops!

I can't let any guy treat me like this, not in this world.

My dear, all I can tell you to do is, ignore him, get into your room, sit on the bed, play any song you like, get a pillow and cry till you're over him..

Stop this thing you're doing.. Its really annoying..

this will be the last time a guy will treat me like this, I promise.

freshness2020:
Leave him op, if he is for you. He will run back.
As your name implies; Queens don't beg.
Good people smile on the long run.
Just trust God and thrash him.

thanks a lot

Piercedclit:
see humiliation. God knows how i hate this. i don't ignore people so i don't like being ignored.
Just move on ehn. Sorry

thanks

Benita27:
Is obvious he has ended the relationship. And from your previous thread, this dude in question doesn't love you, if you're holding on hoping for a miracle to happen cos you're head over heels in love with him, i'm sorry to say this...it isn't going to happen.
Block him and cry as much as you can, it helps.

Move on, he doesn't deserve you. A better guy will definitely come your way.
Sorry dear!.

thanks so much

majestique:
it all started here :

www.nairaland.com/2721807/pls-nairalanders-need-advice-issue

but I ignored all warnings because I loved him and was convinced that he was the right one for me. I gave him my support, my love and my heart but he returned it to me broken. I wish he was even man enough to say goodbye.

a relationship of two years is about to end because as I type, he has not picked my calls or replied my chats for two weeks now.

i'm so broken right now and I don't know what to do to mend my broken heart. I've tried to take my mind off this but all I can do is think, think, think of him. perhaps posting this will ease my pain, who knows?

below are the screen shots of our last chat for your understanding.

where u based

falconey:


lwkm because we are mentally, emotionally stronger, can pretty cool handle pressure,rejection or denial.

cool buh dah doesn't still make me pity her. Cuz these damn ladies do worse Dan dis guy daily.