Sexxkillz:
Sorry, are you so ugly that no other guy would want you? What happened to your self esteem? Why should you allow yourself be treated like this?

Within those 2 years there must have been signs that this relationship isn't going anywhere. I can also bet my charger that this isn't the first time he is ignoring you. He must have been ignoring you for shorter periods of time and you two found a way to make up, but this is the first time it's lasting 2 weeks and that's why it's all coming together for you. Now you'll start remembering other instances when he has done it but you failed to pay any attention.

For your own sake, stop caring about him and engage yourself in other activities for good. You don't even need to block him because he doesn't give a fuck_ and wouldn't even notice he's blocked.

See as he take you dey do yeye. Chai. Get your acts together ffs!

I appreciate this. it's not like I didn't see the signs, I guess I loved him so much.

BiafranBushBoy:
Ho broke your heart... right??

Find someone to break his.. that way, the cycle continues...

When giving him your heart, did you collect collateral??

How many guys have you done same??

Bullshit!!!

No offence tho!

it's ok, I appreciate your comment

Nma27:
Block and delete Asap... Move on to better things

Lolzzz

Babe you're on point

Thanos:
mtcheeew. the result of joblessness

I'm not jobless sir. I pray you don't find yourself in my shoes.

majestique:

it's ok, I appreciate your commitment.

Babe forget that guy joor and come let's roll

majestique:

it's ok, I appreciate your commitment.

I guess you meant comment...
Peace!!

Dicksonpal:
where u based

lagos

BiafranBushBoy:

I guess you meant comment...
Peace!!

yea, thanks. I've modified.

Sorry op, Time Heals all wounds.
And the useless guy is busy advertising shiloh 2016..
SOME PEOPLE HAVE MADE CHRISTIANITY A JOKE

majestique:
it all started here :

www.nairaland.com/2721807/pls-nairalanders-need-advice-issue

but I ignored all warnings because I loved him and was convinced that he was the right one for me. I gave him my support, my love and my heart but he returned it to me broken. I wish he was even man enough to say goodbye.

a relationship of two years is about to end because as I type, he has not picked my calls or replied my chats for two weeks now.

i'm so broken right now and I don't know what to do to mend my broken heart. I've tried to take my mind off this but all I can do is think, think, think of him. perhaps posting this will ease my pain, who knows?

below are the screen shots of our last chat for your understanding.

Lolxxxx. This is so funny

The last reply the guy gave you killed it. He reminds me of myself. Now I see why I have problems with my girl. Lwkmdh

majestique:


thanks so much

You're welcome.

majestique:
it all started here :

www.nairaland.com/2721807/pls-nairalanders-need-advice-issue

but I ignored all warnings because I loved him and was convinced that he was the right one for me. I gave him my support, my love and my heart but he returned it to me broken. I wish he was even man enough to say goodbye.

a relationship of two years is about to end because as I type, he has not picked my calls or replied my chats for two weeks now.

i'm so broken right now and I don't know what to do to mend my broken heart. I've tried to take my mind off this but all I can do is think, think, think of him. perhaps posting this will ease my pain, who knows?

below are the screen shots of our last chat for your understanding.

the pple condemin this guy shud first find out wat d girl did


some guys are sweet but wen they close the door..forget it

Laveda:
Oooops!

I can't let any guy treat me like this, not in this world.

My dear, all I can tell you to do is, ignore him, get into your room, sit on the bed, play any song you like, get a pillow and cry till you're over him..

Stop this thing you're doing.. Its really annoying..

Is he a winners member? Dont wori.as he goes for Shiloh,Holy Spirit will arrest him dere. Dont cry too much.u shld come for shiloh too,it will take ur mind of things and God will give u rest of mind

pussyAvenger:
the pple condemin this guy shud first find out wat d girl did


some guys are sweet but wen they close the door..forget it

If you had noticed, I asked her the very same thing but she played blind. Nothing from her previous thread or even the screen-grabbed chats gave any hint of what she did to the guy in question.

As usual, the guy is always the monster.
Poor innocent women, always the victim.

My sister, what church do you attend? I can categorically tell you that there is no issue between you guys. He is just following his pastor's preaching to sanctify himself ahead of Shiloh to get blessed. This is what you should do, start sending him Bible verses, go online and learn all winners and Shiloh slogans, send him messages about Shiloh activities with these slogans. Shiloh is this week, attend the program and gist him about what Papa said that day. Him sense go correct. If these fails, is it not that guy you dated for two years? He will back slide a week after Shiloh.

It's like nairslanders have been jinxed with this 2 weeks relationship problems, if you are a nairalander and are currently having issues with your partner beyond 3days without resolving it, better start fasting and prayers now, because after two weeks, OYO is your state, no talk say I no tell you.

Ehyeah!life has to continue sweetie,u dont av 2 b down cos of one goat dat dosent even knw ur worth

majestique:

lagos

closeby

CorGier:


If you had noticed, I asked her the very same thing but she played blind. Nothing from her previous thread or even the screen-grabbed chats gave any hint of what she did to the guy in question.

As usual, the guy is always the monster.
Poor innocent women, always the victim.

I'm not avoiding the question... I leave for work as early as 5am and return as late as 7:30-8:00pm everyday yet he expects me to visit him before heading home which is not even possible as I would be too tired and would want to get set for the next day. the only available time I have is on weekends and I thought he understood. I'm trying my best to please him even though he's not working yet. I send him links to job openings because I love him and want to grow with him. I have told him before to let me know when I do something he doesn't like so that I can apologize but he never does...he loves to keep malice. what else am I supposed to do?

majestique:

I'm not avoiding the question... I leave for work as early as 5am and return as late as 7:30-8:00pm everyday yet he expects me to visit him before heading home which is not even possible as I would be too tired and would want to get set for the next day. the only available time I have is on weekends and I thought he understood. I'm trying my best to please him even though he's not working yet. I send him links to job openings because I love him and want to grow with him. I have told him before to let me know when I do something he doesn't like so that I can apologize but he never does...he loves to keep malice. what else am I supposed to do?

The dates on those chats ranged from Nov. 23 to the 25th being last two Fri., surely the logical thing to do would have been to pay him a visit over that weekend?

CorGier:


The dates on those chats ranged from Nov. 23 to the 25th being last two Fri., surely the logical thing to do would have been to pay him a visit over that weekend?

the last time he picked my call, he told me he was at his sister's place. after then I tried calling but he wasn't picking. I am not trying to paint a bad picture of him, not at all. neither am I calling myself a perfect person but the fact that he is not communicating when he's always online says a lot. going over to his house will only humiliate me and make me look cheap.

majestique:


I'm not avoiding the question... I leave for work as early as 5am and return as late as 7:30-8:00pm everyday yet he expects me to visit him before heading home which is not even possible as I would be too tired and would want to get set for the next day. the only available time I have is on weekends and I thought he understood. I'm trying my best to please him I n though he's not working yet. I send him links to job openings because I love him and want to grow with him. I have told him before to let me know when I do something he doesn't like so that I can apologize but he never does...he loves to keep malice. what else am I supposed to do?

No wonder.. Only jobless people keep malice.

Babe, I beg of you, MOVE on. You are closer to 30 now and the last thing you need is a time waster. From your last thread, it is obvious this is a one sided relationship. The signs have always been there. Why you chose to stay put is beyond me. .. You people will not listen now o, when you now find yourself in a loveless marriage, you start writing books.

Love should not be forced Biko. You need to pull your acts together and stop acting like a teenager in love.

Focus on your work, socialise more often, keep good company and trust me, every thing will fall in place when you least expect.. Cheers

majestique:


the last time he picked my call, he told me he was at his sister's place. after then I tried calling but he wasn't picking. I am not trying to paint a bad picture of him, not at all. neither am I calling myself a perfect person but the fact that he is not communicating when he's always online says a lot. going over to his house will only humiliate me and make me look cheap.

Very good that you didn't go to his place, treating you this way is enough humiliation, he should go to hell joor!, what nonsense!.

majestique:


the last time he picked my call, he told me he was at his sister's place. after then I tried calling but he wasn't picking. I am not trying to paint a bad picture of him, not at all. neither am I calling myself a perfect person but the fact that he is not communicating when he's always online says a lot. going over to his house will only humiliate me and make me look cheap.

I'm glad you can see this too.

Any relationship that drains you is not worth it, let no one tell you otherwise

i jst cant help bt wonder y we remain wher we ar nt apreciated. Move on sis dats if u knw u were never d cause of his actions. Am nt sayn he is wrng neither ar u.

Wait o, make una reason this babe matter well,

1. Are u saying ur boyfriend doesn't have any close friend u can contact to know what's really going on or one who can hint u on happening issues or his were abts, if ur cool with his clicks u surely would. Even his family members, one or two of them, 2yrs na 2weeks?

2.Ur excuses of not having time for ur man cus u work is weak at best, there r weekends when things can be fixed or better still he can come pick u at the office and u go to his place or maybe he doesn't stay alone, just trying to see how close Uve bin for 2yrs

3. What really happened, men don't act all defensive except their avoiding bin hurt again or paying u back for a did which u didn't fully apologize for, who knows, u can ask tho

4. U know him better than anyone, online chats won't cut it, who Is ur man and what do u think is needed to break through his wall, all man get mumu button

5. In a way you sound desperate or guilty, well that's what I got from reading through ur piece, I wish u fixed ur own personal issues too, in all, I wish u well

Op, just one question.

Did you at any point in your relationship have a proper discussion about the nature of your relationship such as the future, exclusivity? Was it ever clear to both youse that it was a mutual decision and that both see this as a relationship with a future?


Perhaps you took the "relationship" to mean way more than he did. Cant judge him based on yer side of story.

Anyway i bet you are young. Live and learn. Next time protect your heart and dont give it away too soon especially when the terms of relationship are fuzzy and not clearly defined.

Next time, treat a relationship at start like a business- define it.

We ignore signs that a relationship is faltering in the hope that somehow things will work. You knew this was going to end badly but somehow you carried on. He might have not been in this relationship the way you wanted and that's the thing about experience you learn from it. One thing you cannot be is to be bitter...that will consume you.

Laveda:
Oooops!

I can't let any guy treat me like this, not in this world.

My dear, all I can tell you to do is, ignore him, get into your room, sit on the bed, play any song you like, get a pillow and cry till you're over him..

Stop this thing you're doing.. Its really annoying..

abeg let hear words Jare we know you can't take this indeed

.

My little advice.

my dear u really tried. bfor a guy even think of brkin up wit me i don brk up wit am already. i cant be a fool in love o. yr man is suppose to treat u lik a baby. d best tin u wud hv done since is not talking to him at all but dont unblock him n upload happy moment pics. all my ex always come bk begging but it was too late. i dont deal wit tinz in d past.

CorGier:


If you had noticed, I asked her the very same thing but she played blind. Nothing from her previous thread or even the screen-grabbed chats gave any hint of what she did to the guy in question.

As usual, the guy is always the monster.
Poor innocent women, always the victim.

na so guy....for a guy to switch off like dat means she don Bleep up tire....onli a woman will make u feel bad for doing the right thing....see as she come here they seek cheap sympathy