HARDDON:



But no matter how sleek u r, sometin cud always go not acording to ur plans.

This is where d power of the gift of your gab comes to play. Your ability to think on ur feet in quick quantum n swift sparadic ways.

WackyJ1:


Bruh. Is having flashy pictures depicting wealth a neccesary pre-requisite for chatting up girls on social media (Instagram, facebook & twitter)
Most of these platforms usually have certain subliminal social standards for what is considered cool and popular.

What's the best way for one to go in and get the best response

HARDDON:
How do u keep Nancy from catching u real-time with Fumi?

how do u keep tracks on all of them?

My Response?
You must have principles.
Dont be a scatter gun....wish i cud explan this more. Our blog wud throw more light.

Reminez:
Lord HARDDON sir. I've been a keen observer of your work since inception . Please, I have a girl I'm trying to set a 'P' with . I only saw her at an event once but I couldn't talk to her that day due to reasons beyond my control . But fortunately for me , one of my guys gave me her digits. I called her and we fixed a meeting . But she would neither pick nor reply my calls after our meeting . This was particularly shocking to me because the meeting went well and i did make her laugh that day . She had to confess before we departed that I made her disclose 'more than necessary info' about herself being our first ever meeting . Recently , we started chatting on whatsapp albeit very sparingly . Sincerely , a headway seems herculean with the way things are going. A part of me wants to let go because I personally believe no lady has the right to 'dey use me play like that ' . But then , I don't want to give up on her so easily . She might just be playing hard to get (a very hard one at that ).
WHAT SHOULD I DO AT THIS JUNCTION HARDDON AND CO... Help a brother in distress

SimpleBea:
harddon baba.
i hail thee o.
Do you remember my monicker?.
Am one of ur fan since the creation of this thread.
Am actually out of that shell called shyness.

But one thing remain, how to make a girl agree wt sleepin wt u?. am poor in that aspect.

HARDDON:



Did u ask here out?
If u didnt, there r a couple of things that cud be responsible:
1) Her guy found out she hung out wit another guy n heavy beef erupted, probably after makeup ....., she vowed not to hv any contact wit u again.

2) there was sometin she didnt fancy about u.

3) she just came to see what u luk like n doesnt wano get involved.
Etc



She isnt playing hard to get, u guys r way past that now.
Btw, when she asked u how u got her line, what was ur response? Did u lie?

Reminez:

1) I didn't ask her out
2)I didn't lie about how I got her number .

In light of the above , can I still get something outta nothing or I should move on .
I'm sure in your world, nothing is insurmountable tho.
I ll be looking forward to your professional contributions .

HARDDON:



Lets ignore her for a while shall we?
Cos rigjt now, everything u do, wud most def have opposite efffects

While @ it, use other beautiful gurl's picture as ur dps on rotation . They musr be more beautiful n ensdowed than her

HARDDON:


Elite12,

Your solution is to push 1 to a logical conclusion b4 u take on another.

As u grow, u learn to combine 2,3 and so on.

@ the height of my waywardnesd, i had 5 @ one point in time, slept with d 5 in one day, on rationed timing! Coordination was superb but as u do well know, i sendless.


Even @ that, respect Ladies! Never Intensional hurt them. Never mal treat them.
This is why i never sleep with any1 i wudnt be proud walking on d road with. ( though i dont show it).

There is one Secret of mind i wud share as we roll....it is called Eros Signature. It is like a love portion. This is what one guy used on one of my friend's sister that no matter the beating she recieves becos of this guy every sunday, she still sneaks out to see him every Sunday!

This is when u couple other lil tins to this drills n eternally have her @ ur beck n call. No matter what u do to her, she quickly forgives u.

Dont know if it wud be wise to share that here on a second tot. We got kids in here.

Lastly,

Have one Rose but many flowers. ( dont need to explain that)

HARDDON:


Gurl agree to sleep wit u? Where did u learn that?

we hv dealt wit goin physical, go to the page n read it up

SimpleBea:

which page.

harddon, their was this gel who chat me up on whatsapp thru whatsapp group. ah dnt know her bt she insisted that she know me. all efforts to get her introduced herself prove abortive. she s proovin stubborn. any help wt that?

HARDDON:



Put urself in her shoes....do u think gurls wud let u on their space without them knowing u?
Ignore her....possibly block her


These kinda ladies might be monitoring spirits...lol

ELITE12:
Good afternoon Guys please something different us happening

there's a girl I chatted up I got her number but something happed the day I called her,

when I called her to meet up at mammy she told me she wasn't hearing me clearly and cut the call

I got angry cause I knew she was with another guy @ mammy market and just used that as an excuse to cut the call

next I totally ignored her for like two days now I see she's trying to get my attention by always looking for opportunities to seat around me laughing out loud and all that but i still ignore her

now she's also trying to make me jealous by talking with other guys around me to get my attention

NevetsIbot:
lol... Bro... You're the real gee o.... When guys start lettin that 'I really dont care' behaviourshow sometimes in their speech and actions... Girls drool over him cos he's drawing a real picture of a man. 'strong,firm,decisive,controlled,straight to the point'. . . Girls are wired to take up challenges thrown up by the opposite sex....unconciouslt tho.... They don't even know why..... as humans, we tend to like things we can't get... Thus when a guy places himself in his normal high position.... Girls see him like a trophy to fight for.....they dive into the challenge.
Even the creation story made us know who's boss....adam first.... Eve Second. Some guys should realise taht we arent supposed to be doing all the work..... In the animal kingdom, the male in charge gets the females with ease unlike the lesser males..... Human beings too are wired that way... When a guy is incharge..... He's irresistable.

HARDDON:



Put urself in her shoes....do u think gurls wud let u on their space without them knowing u?
Ignore her....possibly block her


These kinda ladies might be monitoring spirits...lol

ELITE12:
Good afternoon Guys please something different us happening

there's a girl I chatted up I got her number but something happed the day I called her,

when I called her to meet up at mammy she told me she wasn't hearing me clearly and cut the call

I got angry cause I knew she was with another guy @ mammy market and just used that as an excuse to cut the call

next I totally ignored her for like two days now I see she's trying to get my attention by always looking for opportunities to seat around me laughing out loud and all that but i still ignore her

now she's also trying to make me jealous by talking with other guys around me to get my attention

DavidTheGeek:

Talking about that blog thing you working on, i develop apps for bloggers, i'm an android developer. Lets talk more when the blog is ready.

joshysmartie:

first... we dont stay close anymore...
2nd she had a guy frnd over there that asked her out that she told me she didnt reply... i suggested she kept him friendzoned

then suddenly she started snubbing.. im just worried

ps... i dont wanna bed no one...

HARDDON:



Guy friend wasnt frndzoned, he clocked her, thereafter,, in d after glow, she realized, u wud hv cosed her much joy if she had listened to u...... n u got rather demoted.

Get the memo geee

ELITE12:
your really experienced Harddon,

that's exactly the issue that has come up"remembering " their names and even sometimes the faces too

I chat with a lot of girls now and some I don't even collect numbers thou I strive to make the little chat we have together memorable even wen I don't feel like having anything to do with them

IAmOged:
Nairaland PUAs LOGDE....

..
The thread should be renamed(suggestion)
..
And A shadow elected to Lord Harddon
..
Its time the skill sets of PUAs here are displayed on all ladies on dis forum..(na suggestion)

HARDDON:


Elite12,

Your solution is to push 1 to a logical conclusion b4 u take on another.

As u grow, u learn to combine 2,3 and so on.

@ the height of my waywardnesd, i had 5 @ one point in time, slept with d 5 in one day, on rationed timing! Coordination was superb but as u do well know, i sendless.


Even @ that, respect Ladies! Never Intensional hurt them. Never mal treat them.
This is why i never sleep with any1 i wudnt be proud walking on d road with. ( though i dont show it).

There is one Secret of mind i wud share as we roll....it is called Eros Signature. It is like a love portion. This is what one guy used on one of my friend's sister that no matter the beating she recieves becos of this guy every sunday, she still sneaks out to see him every Sunday!

This is when u couple other lil tins to this drills n eternally have her @ ur beck n call. No matter what u do to her, she quickly forgives u.

Dont know if it wud be wise to share that here on a second tot. We got kids in here.

Lastly,

Have one Rose but many flowers. ( dont need to explain that)

hahaha five in one day? i guess dat was when u learnt dat 2much sex can make u spill blood instead of fertilizers abi



da second bolded,boss man don't hang ur students like dat abeg.



Just teach us who ar here nd if u like delete later biko.


Lastly,ur guy make a mistake 2day nd i don't knw if u wil hit me with ur pitch book if i spil

HARDDON:


@ suggested name change.

Nairaland's PUA's Lounge.

As sleek as it sounds, it defeats our purpose here.

PUAs are nothing but Gamers( Players) n as we all know, game played over a period of time gets boring n loses itz fevor n flavour.
Players lose essence of the game n stale out. Leaving so many ladies' hearts shattered beyond repair.

I would not be a party nor advocate of that.

Reminez:

Okay. I'll ignore her for now .
I don't think I'll be able to pull off your other suggestion oo . I've got other ladies on my whatsapp . To be candid with you , I'm a snake when it comes to dealing with ladies . They all think I'm a very good guy who can't hurt a fly . Changing my dp to any lady's for that matter would send the wrong signal and my cover blown .
I act and appear formless to my ladies but I'm a closet player ( tho not a player in the real sense of it. .lol )
Harddon , I want to make this girl my rose without rocking the boat of my other flowers . I don't want to toe the path of changing display pictures sir . IS THEIR ANOTHER WAY

ELITE12:
Good afternoon Guys please something different us happening

there's a girl I chatted up I got her number but something happed the day I called her,

when I called her to meet up at mammy she told me she wasn't hearing me clearly and cut the call

I got angry cause I knew she was with another guy @ mammy market and just used that as an excuse to cut the call

next I totally ignored her for like two days now I see she's trying to get my attention by always looking for opportunities to seat around me laughing out loud and all that but i still ignore her

now she's also trying to make me jealous by talking with other guys around me to get my attention