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2 Weeks To Wedding Mother Say I Cannot Marry Her I Need Advice / I Need Advice Before Taking The Huge Step Into Marriage. / My Sister Is Married To The Most Chronic Cheat Ever. Please I Need Advice (2) (3) (4)
Re: Need Advice by Mimzyy(f): 8:58pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
swisswire: By all means, carry on. Let her know now please. The earlier, the better. |
Re: Need Advice by Coefficient(m): 11:30pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
Op, what if the tables were turned? Let's say you're the one with baggages, like a criminal history or had served jail term. 1 Like |
Re: Need Advice by 5minsmadness: 11:45pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
Coefficient:Good question. Would u let your sister marry an ex-convict? 1 Like |
Re: Need Advice by baby124: 11:49pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
Have all previous marriages been dissolved? The story sounds very fishy. Take your time and keep your eyes open. Let her also provide evidence that, the child is no longer alive. There is a possibility that the child could be alive and well with a relative. She has a lot of skeletons, who doesn't. But make sure you are seeing the skeletons clearly and you can deal with them. 1 Like |
Re: Need Advice by swisswire: 5:45am On Dec 09, 2016 |
Thanks again! Firstly, I will be worried about the ex-convict tag and will like to know the actual crime and all details. But if it is Nigerian concept, I will not mind as long as my sister is happy. We know that you can become a convict for anything in this country, if we all are not already. Secondly, am very sure about the kid, because I was made aware by one of her respected Uncle. She didn't know that I am aware. Thirdly, the marriages were not legally constructed according to traditions and laws of the land. You know those cohabit matter. Fourth, I was the second reason, she left the second time. I advise her to because the man was abusive and injuring her at any slight quarrel. am not judging, he smokes all kind of cigars, drinks and womanize. I got to know her from the hospital after she came for treatments. So that is the story! I told my parents everything because I learnt from experience that marriage does not only involve the 2 individuals but the whole families. I need their guidance and support. I tell them everything about me and always got them with me (either positive or negative). I will go to them for their insight, wisdom and support always. I have learnt to say the issue as it is to them because at the time, I may not like or accept their decisions but it saves life most times. I will not withhold information from them that is important for easy victory when later it may or not come hunting and hurting with all its consequences. I will have to breakup and continue with my life. I believe this marriage thing is not for everyone apart from catholic priests and nuns (that made their decisions). Such a life! Thanks again. |
Re: Need Advice by LifeIsSoEasy: 11:04am On Dec 09, 2016 |
Let her go. Irrespective of whatever, the marriage will NEVER work. It's the benins we're talking about here. Thay lady will be miserable if she goes ahead. I would run if I was in her shoes. |
Re: Need Advice by Viking007(m): 11:20am On Dec 09, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Bitter truth @bolded. |
Re: Need Advice by Viking007(m): 11:23am On Dec 09, 2016 |
5minsmadness: |
Re: Need Advice by 5minsmadness: 11:44am On Dec 09, 2016 |
Mimzyy: |
Re: Need Advice by EfemenaXY: 1:59pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
swisswire: swisswire: No need for long story my brother. Better ask your patients to pick a wife for you. Arranged marriages still happen. |
Re: Need Advice by EfemenaXY: 2:03pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
LifeIsSoEasy: What's wrong with marrying the Benins? |
Re: Need Advice by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
iliketheSunrise: I love your dimples, you're beautiful. |
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