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Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by ffrreeee(f): 10:18pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
You are just making issue out of nothing. The registry people made a mistake on my marriage certificate, Infact they made a mistake with my surname and hubby's own. When we found out, we returned the certificate to them and to my surprise, the head of the unit corrected the errors with ordinary pen. I have never had any challenge using the certificate. I have used it for my change of name, for a new job and even abroad without any complain. So, why disturb yourself over it. What if there was a mistake from the registry just like mine, would you have killed yourself? Let her get an affidavit to back it. All the best. 9 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by Amicable24: 10:28pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
Jesusbaby49: Tunmmyzhe:Sorry sir, but all I see is in blue ink too.. Abi is our cameras now changing black inks to blue 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by freecocoa(f): 12:08am On Dec 11, 2016 |
Wetin person no go see for NL. |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by MidieMeliss(f): 3:14am On Dec 11, 2016 |
Tunmmyzhe:I have been reeling in laughter since I read this. Mehn! this is so hilarious. Bia, have you ever head of a person cutting off his head because of a minor headache? Something drugs can cure? OP, let me be straight forward with you based on your story. (and yes, I may judge you because I have only heard your side of it, maybe if I read your wife's side I may judge her too) You are no more in love with your wife. you are tired of the marriage. you want out already. Simply put hate your wife! People have given you very good advice on this forum. if you are going to arrest her, simply file for a divorce instead. All I see here is a man who is tired, don't blame it on any date reversal, you simply want out. If this is really the case, then do it without drama. All these stories of your wife is stubborn, she can lie bla bla bla you are coming here to tell simply says a whole lot about your own personality. Don't destroy tour home with your own hands Sir. You have a problem on the front, call your wife, and deal with it! if you can't, then peacefully back out. Let me also mention that family misunderstandings are best settled within the home. When you make up now, none of us will hear about it, but we will never forget about the long write ups on forums about how you want to arrest your wife, bla bla bla. I am also very sure you will have told some people around you too. This is absolutely wrong! Marriage is very much a life long sacred thing, keep it so. 6 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by Nobody: 3:55am On Dec 11, 2016 |
mrsmith11: Very simple and straightforward. I don't understand why the op is angry. He has an ulterior motive against his wife. |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by Nobody: 5:40am On Dec 11, 2016 |
most people don't really realize that whatever misunderstanding that can take you to police station means that you guys won't be friends anymore or even want to say hi making more enemies than friends should not even be a thing communication is important talk to her first and if you can't continue walk away.... get a divorce but dont just get her arrested it's not a solution 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by Asey(f): 5:49am On Dec 11, 2016 |
i think u can go to the ministry which issues marriage certs for a replacement. they wld ve a copy there Tunmmyzhe: 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by fayluv1(f): 8:07am On Dec 11, 2016 |
its obvious u are not in love wit ur wife anymore, did she tell u she was born 85, cos u said she lies a lot. for d love u had for her when u married her forgive n move on, age is just a numba |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by MicroBox: 10:35am On Dec 11, 2016 |
Scary Species....
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Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by 4dor: 2:10pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
mrsmith11: Op, listen to this man. He's the only person making sense by giving you a practical solution. 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by Ngokafor(f): 2:44pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
carmag: ...Please stop this falsehood.Who told you that age falsification is a Nigerian women thing??..The truth of the matter is that 95% of Nigerians do not quote their real ages for ANYTHING!! and falsfy anything that has do with documents and docmentations,even receipts of purchases of items made officially. ....Ages in International Passports,Drivers licenses,National Ids e.t.c...are not exempted. ...I have conducted counless job interviews in my Office ,therefore,i can make bold to say that most job applicants falsify their ages,with genuine Court affidavit to back up their claims..A disproportionate number of them being males...Some are smart enough to reduce their ages by a year or two(to tally with their school documents),while some will reduce theirs by 6,7 or even 10 years!. ....We went for a Field official assignment in one remote area two years ago where we had to request for the ages of the inhabitants...for some reason,they felt that whatever information we wanted,the younger they claim to be,the better for them financially..All of a sudden and to our surprise,those clearly in their Fifties and Sixties all claimed to be in their 30s ....in amusement,one of my colleagues calmly challenged one of them by saying.."Sir no vexoo,i am 32..are you saying you and i are the same age?"(in pidgin English)..to which the poor oldman visibly embarrased,had no answer. ..As a matter of fact,those who use their actual ages in documents are in serious minority..you can book-mark that...so please its not a Nigerian woman thing..far from it. 3 Likes |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by njiasi30(f): 2:47pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
hylyne:@ trying to run away, abeg no kill me with laugh |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by baby124: 4:30pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
Ngokafor:. Same thing I thought. I think OP's wife had a use for that document. The OP knows her age which is obviously 1983 instead of the 1985 there! It's not possible that a woman will increase her age to get married. Rather they reduce it. OP is obviously tired of the marriage and looking for any little thing to use to punish her and dump her! OP, try to be a better man and a loving man to your wife. She may just open up to you! You saying you know her better than her parents is untrue and speaks of arrogance and contempt. For you to openly come to an Internet forum to air your dirty laundry and insult your wife does not speak well of you at all. After all if she's so bad a person, then it speaks about your inability to make good choices. You are obviously not perfect and lacking in a lot of qualities. Seek peace in your home and be good to your wife, and work on yourself very well because you need to. If you think you can do better, quietly file for a divorce and move on to the greener grass you think is on the other side! 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by Googleus(m): 5:21pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
Never trust girls called blessing, joy etc... Wen they pass tru ur life... D end result has always been the name opposite |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by MamaTej(f): 7:25pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
Ignorance. I'm sure wouldn't have done it if she knew the complications. You can get a new one. But you need to educate your wife on issues like this to avoid similar future mistakes. Documents are not to be tampered with. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by NoToPile: 7:42pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
Quite likely the tampering came from the person that issued the certificate , The handwriting, texture of ink and color of pen looks similar. I guess they wrote 1983 instead of 1985 which they corrected and doesn't the OP know his wife's real age. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by sheypian(m): 10:57pm On Apr 25, 2018 |
darlyE: Same here o! Had the same issue too! But we havent done anything about it,what step did you take to rectify it pls? |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by frozen70(f): 2:19am On Jul 25, 2019 |
Tunmmyzhe: She is nit a devil behind your own success but her own success She must have altered it for her own selfish reasons I wander why she didn't tell you Just take it to where it was obtained and you will be directed on how to get a replacement |
Re: Help: My Wife Altered Our Marriage Certificate (Picture) by FRS(m): 10:34am On Jan 24 |
ffrreeee:Hello Ma, in your own case, did you use an affidavit to back it up? |
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