Sexxkillz:
If he calls you up right now to apologize and say he wants you back, you'll go back to him with your tails between your legs like a puppy. . . Forget most of the trash you wrote up there. People go philosophical when they are heartbroken.

Instead of typing nonsense, what you should do is take time to clear your head and re-analyze yourself as a person and what you really want. If you had done that before, you'd have realized about 80% of what you are just realizing.

You're practically venting. This isn't how to get over a breakup. No one gets over a break up in less than 24 hours, unless of course they saw it coming, and if you are frank to yourself, you didn't.

I don't buy this bullshit.

naijaboiy:
Poster above me has said it all. This is just an unnecessary truck load of crap.

NegeduGrace:
dear u might be right in all you have said except for the fact that I will go running back to him or I haven't moved on,,it came as a strong deception from his side..mind you this is not my first relationship and I am not being philosophical about anything rather it's the best way to keep myself in check in other not to go astray..if u have trusted someone so much and they betrayed you the Time u needed them most u should know how it capable of changing someone's mindset so take it easy in your judgement

NegeduGrace:
the way I respect you I really don't expect this from you but you are entitled to your opinion so #peace

Sexxkillz:
People who have moved on do not post the issue on social media, especially where they know "the ex" will see it. If you have moved on from a past relationship, you do not talk about it because it no longer matters. You do not talk about them, because they no longer matter.

You posted this here because he's a nairalander and you know he is going to read it, so do not give me that crap of you moving on. . . I wasn't born yesterday.

The first step to moving on is to stop lying to yourself. And yes, you'll go back running to him. All he has to do is push your right buttons. I don't know you from anywhere, and i already know enough about you to ascertain what exactly he would say, to make you go back to him.

Some people are open like books. . . You are open like a newspaper.

naijaboiy:

You shouldn't expect me to pet you for that crap up there.

First of all what is your aim for creating this thread? Your boyfriend broke your heart? That's not so new a thing to happen to anyone.

Instead of you to settle down and analyze issues so you'll know the best way to move on you come here to spill whatever happened between you and another nairalander for reasons best known to you.

You should be matured enough to know that's not the best way to go about such things. The guy has gone, you should find a way to move on and not coming here to rant and throw shades. You'll only make yourself feel worse.

sweetjude:
viewing thru





checked your profile no man should take you seriously na

NegeduGrace:
thanks, ,point noted

NegeduGrace:
thanks dear, ,advice heeded

So what if the guy in question comes here to say his own side of the story? Then next thing secrets and other irrelevant things will be revealed for the entertainment of strangers who never gave a fück about you guys before.

Is that what you want?

Always learn to work on yourself inwardly when things like this happen. Jumping on the next social media platform to air your grievances isn't always the best option because it may backfire.

NegeduGrace:
I won't go back..it's only dogs that go back to thier vomits, ,thanks alot I have edited my post so in other words I just heeded to your advice